Ukwazana - a Swagger kunye phithi okanye lula unxibelelwano kunye nenkxalabo abanye?

Latin "familiaris" lithetha "intsapho", "ekhaya". Ngenxa yoko, i "ukwazana". Intsingiselo yegama elithi iye yatshintsha njengoko ixesha lihamba. Ngu ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane XVIII ngolwimi Russian, ilizwi liba engathandekiyo embi. Ingcambu Latin ulahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwayo bangaphambili. Ukwazana kuthetha ngoku ezingafanelekanga, ebandakanya lula Swagger.

Ubomi nganye yahlulwe yazi umntu luvuleleke kubo bonke, nalowo uhleli ngasemva iingcango ezivaliweyo, nentsapho okanye abahlobo. Umntu engena embilwini, isangqa engaphakathi, unelungelo amalungelo athile kwi dialogue. Esimthandayo unelungelo ukukunika iingcebiso engamenywanga, khomba ezithile, ezifana iimpahla okanye imbonakalo. Masithi umama unika intombi yakhe yokukhula iingcebiso kuhlobo isinxibo Kukhethwa kwimeko elinikiweyo. Lwazi? Kwiimeko ezininzi, akukho. Ngapha koko, intombi, nathi, ungakwazi ukunceda umama kunye nokukhetha impahla, sikhokelwa incasa yawo.

Kuyinto enye into xa umhlobo okanye losapho ilungu close baya kucebisa into ukuze uqhelane indlela yokunxiba, yaye omnye - xa abantu angaqhelekanga aqhwabe egxalabeni athi into efana: "Idlelo, akuyi bengakugqali le iqhina / jacket / ijezi ". Lwazi? Ngaphandle kwentandabuzo.

Uluvo lokuba lwazi yaye yintoni na ke, ekuhambeni kwexesha, Kakade, ukutshintsha njengoko imithetho beneentloni, ubomi bosapho. Ngokomzekelo, ngoku kwiintsapho ezininzi abantwana musani abazali ndimbiza "na", sasingakwazi zendalo eminye iminyaka elikhulu eyadlulayo. Ukuba aqhele nangakumbi, uya kufumana funny ukufumanisa ukuba kukho ukwazana. Oku, umzekelo, uchaza Saltykov -Schedrin ngo "kudala Poshehonsky." Lo mfana ndibulisa, wanika lady ejongwa emva, isandla - oku kuchazwa ngokuthi "nabaqheleneyo ayamkelekanga."

Kodwa emva namhlanje. Kukho izinto kuchazwa ngokuthi ngabantu ezingaqhelekanga okanye oogxa - imozulu, kwezopolitiko njalo njalo. Kwaye kucacile ukuba kukho imiba ukuba umntu oluqhelekileyo kungenakwenzeka ukuba unqwenela ukuxoxa esidlangalaleni kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ubunzima uphazamiseko kwisigaba nabani na iqela. Kwaye Russia oko kwamkelwe iindwendwe kunye nabantu angaqhelekanga wajika omnye komnye "na", behamba a xeshikweni "wena" uqhelane ngakumbi kwaye abizelwe emkhosini isisombululo naye.

umntu Eqhelekileyo akafuni ukuba kukho le migaqo. Yena decouples kwaye kakhulu wabeka-umva ukuthetha. Kulo mzekelo, ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ukuba nolwazi kwakhe - oku oko isuke luthando nenyameko. Ayiyonyani. Yena ngokubanzi interlocutor lingenandaba ngokwakhe, yaye asabela ngayo. Yena ufuna izwi lakhe, kuphela echanekileyo, indlela abalisa ngayo umbhali, ukunyanzelisa yonke imithetho yayo kuphela eyamkelekileyo. Akazange alibazise oko ndikuxelelwe interlocutor yakhe kwindawo nzima ngokubuza imibuzo zobuqu kakhulu, ukunika iingcebiso eningawacelanga. Kalula kwi "na" kwanaxa usebenza umntu omdala kunaye, ndingasathethi malunga abaneminyaka efanayo, ayithethi ndicime imida kwaye kudala iingxaki ezintsha kunxibelelwano. Ngapha koko, kuyimfuneko ukuba aphendule, kwaye lula "-pointing" akwamkelekanga bonke.

abantu Eqhelekileyo bazisa nje kakubi up. Maxa wambi ithemba, yaye iSADC imfundo. Ukuba ubunzima imida eyamkelekileyo yaye oko kuvumelekile, ngoko ungafumana iqabane entle.