Ukuziqhelanisa yokulala - ukuba ngaba yintoni na?

Ukuba ngequbuliso umntu ebizwa namabhinqa - oko ethuka okanye akunjalo? Kwaye ngokubanzi, isini esingafaniyo - oku ke kuqhelekile okanye ecaleni ezithile ngesondo? Makhe sibone le miba.

Ntoni "orientation hetero"?

Kufuneka ukuba icaciswe ngoko nangoko ukuba le ngcamango ngokusondeleyo nezesini. Okunye ngqo, ibinzana elithi "heterosexuality". Igama elithi "heterosexuality" efanayo kakhulu ubunjwe iingcambu ezimbini. Okokuqala - hetero - lithetha "enye", "malunga" kwaye ingcambu yesibini - "zesini" - Namhlanje transfer angafanele ngayo. Kodwa kwenzeka nje ungakhankanya ukuba ngokweemvakalelo (romantic), yovakalelo (inkanuko) okanye yobuntu. Ngaloo ndlela, sinokugqiba ukuba yoqhelwaniso namabhinqa - ngesondo ejoliswe besini esahlukileyo. Kwi jikelele, abantu abaninzi kunye nezilwanyana babe isini yohlobo zokwahluka phakathi izilwanyana zinqabile kakhulu. Kodwa phakathi kwabantu maxa wambi ulwalamano olunjalo, ezo kugwetywa luluntu. Ngokukodwa, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuba yoqhelwaniso namabhinqa - ngowona msebenzi ngesondo elaziwayo ngokusemthethweni kuphela eRashiya. Ngoko ke, ukufumana inkcazo ingangumntu othandana kwilizwe lethu ngexesha langoku sigaba akujongwa ekhubekisayo. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba isini ngokwesini namabhinqa - enye amacandelo ngesini kweli lizwe.

Ezocansi endulo

Namhlanje bathi nantoni na malunga heterosexuality okanye ubufanasini (umtsalane ngokwesini kubantu besini esifanayo). Ukanti isihloko ekhwela ezininzi ezazikho kumaxesha amandulo yokuqhelwaniswa yokugqibela ngokwesini. Kodwa ke eneneni yonke into eyahlukileyo. Nje ixesha elininzi abantu noqhelaniso eliphakathi ngokwesini, le ebizwa ngokuba yi-buvamise. Le ngesondo ayikho ngaphandle mhlawumbi yokuqhelaniswa namabhinqa kwimibandela ngokwesondo, okanye ubufanasini. Eyona buvamise ziqhelekileyo kwaye wavuma ukuba kumaxesha amandulo. oyise Dear yentsapho, ukuba amagatya ngenkuthalo khathalela phambili oluthile, zange bakuphephe ukusondelelana isini sabo. Hi ndlela leyi, oku kwenzeka kwezinye izihlandlo zenzeka kumazwe nokuziphatha ngqongqo kakhulu. Kodwa Kwamandulo, kwathiwa ongatshutshiswanga, ngokuba into ethile uze uhle kuthi namhlanje imisebenzi ezininzi zobugcisa ebonisa ngqo utyekelo ulala abantu abaninzi.

Kutheni heterosexuality ibonwa nje elungile kuphela

Izazinzulu ezininzi ziye bazama ukusombulula imfihlelo yesondo kwabantu. Abanye oyikholelwayo ukuba ekuzalweni bonke abantu ulala. Ku kokuxabana, umzekelo, Freud kunye Kinsey. Waphinde ngexesha nokwanda kunye nemfundo yabantu iyalandelwa ngenkani kwiqela esingafaniyo. Noko ke, ukuba ngoyaba le umahluko phakathi komntu nesilwanyana (imfundo, inkcubeko, ingqondo), umntu yabantu iba ngathi sisilwanyana. Kwaye apha ilele impendulo umbuzo ongundoqo malunga ngezesini yendalo! Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukucinga ukuba ngepaint ezimbini ngesiquphe ukuba neentlobano zesini? Lutho. Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni xa omnye kwiseli kwesinye isityalo umvundla umvundla kunye umvundla - umvundla somnye? Ngowe-97% yamava enjalo kuya nemiphumela emibi ... Kodwa podsazhivanie abantu nesawo omnye komnye, ingakumbi ngexesha imazi karhulumente nemincili, uya waqonda ngabo njengoko thina silindele. Ngenxa yoko, izilwanyana kokubangqongileyo, umba ubufanasini okanye buvamise ngenkankulu ukuba liphume. Kule sinokugqiba ukuba abantu beze kubudlelwane abanesini ulala azikho ngokunxulumene call of indalo, kodwa naphezu kwawo. A Ukuziqhelanisa yokulala - yabeka kanye uhlobo ithuku yokuba zizale.