Neentlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato. Xa non kwemfuneko wesithathu

Ukuya phantsi kwezitulo, esi sibini afunge ukuba bahlale bethembekile omnye komnye. Le nkolo abangamaKristu ilungiswa kunokuba ngokucacile, ukuba bakuzibalela ukukrexeza isono ofayo. Noko ke, isiqhamo esalelweyo ngisho okumnandi. Kukho abantu abambalwa abaye ayikatshintshi abayeni babo ubuncinane kanye. Noko ke, ukuba ukhumbule, ukuba Jokes ezininzi eyayinikelwe le meko, "indoda ubuyisela kuhambo ishishini ...", xa kucaca ukuba amanenekazi kubo oku ingenelwe.

Ngelishwa, izibini ezininzi ukunyaniseka kubonakala umthwalo kwamandla ngokupheleleyo. "Ubomi lide kakhulu ukuba kuphelele uthando omnye kuphela" - ngokuchanileyo kakhulu wathi enye greats. Masizame ngoku ukujonga bazohlala ukusuka kwindawo nethemba ngayo kwaye ujonge le meko, icala oluhle.

Uyinqaba ngolu hlobo, amathuba ayo bade apha. Abanamava Lovelace bahlekisa ukuba "leftist 'elungileyo eyomeleza umtshato. Ngokumalunga abameli oyindoda womelele yinyani 100%. Amadoda kunqabile siphambanise ngesondo kunye nobudlelwane. Ukuba abanto ukuthintela umfazi ukuthanda kakhulu nangokuzinikela ufuna nentombi yakhe. Nolwaneliseko ngeenkanuko kwicala bomi kusinika imibala amatsha ubomi babo kunye neqabane rhoqo.

I qaphela ukuba oku akukho malunga ukulalana, phantse phambi kwisiqingatha sesibini. (Kule meko, kukho ukunqongophala ngentlonipho ukungaluxabisi omthandayo). Noko ke, ukukopela kungenzeka, umzekelo, xa iholide. Lendaba umfazi wakhe akunakwenzeka ukuba uyazi kuba, ngoko ke, iimvakalelo zakhe akazange abonzakeleyo. A isiqingatha owomeleleyo kuthembela ngakumbi ubudoda babo kunye nayo.

Amadoda kuye iintlobano zesini kwicala uhlobo kweziyobisi ayikho kangako. Kwaye, Isimanga, kuzosa lomtshato zegolide nomfazi ebanceda sokungathembeki.

Ngoku makhe sithethe ngenye imeko, nto leyo nayo ingaqhelekanga. Umfazi kule minyaka aluka indlwane ezimnandi, ndikuqhelile omnye komnye. Ukuba awunangxaki ukuhlala kwintsimi enye, kodwa zombini bakholelwa ukuba ngesondo in ubuhlobo indoda nomfazi ayikho kakhulu. Ubuya kumangaliswa, kodwa ezi iintsapho ngokwaneleyo (ndiyazi ngokobuqu ngababini ubuncinane ezine). Kulo mzekelo, amaqabane Kusenokwenzeka nokuba uyavuma ukuba ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabo kwicala. Uyakwazi athi umtshato akanalo ilungelo lokuba khona ngaphandle kothando, yaye wena uya kuba engalunganga. Naluphi na umfuziselo ulwalamano kulungile ukuba yenza zombini bonwabile.

Zengqondo bakholelwa ukuba abafazi ukulala ecaleni eninzi eyingozi ngakumbi kunamadoda. Kunzima ukuba uphikise nesibakala sokuba abasetyhini - ukuba iimvakalelo ngokweemvakalelo ubomi. Kodwa abafazi abaninzi namhlanje musa kubona nantoni na embi zesini ukwanelisa. Malunga na uthando okanye uthando, nokuthetha ayikho apha. Nangona kunjalo, kumdla besini esahlukileyo ukuba amanenekazi - isoloko inkuthazo ye self-ukuphucuka. Ngaphezu koko, ukuzithemba abasetyhini ezinomtsalane zabo usoloko neentlobano zesini isibini luphuhle.

Ukuze Ngaphezu kwako konke, ndingathanda ukuba bachukumise ngezi zihloko zilandelayo: isini kwicala njengoko revenge for ukungcatshwa neqabane. Kanye imeko enzima, abantu abaninzi bengazi ukuba mabenze ntoni. Kwelinye icala, ukuba atshabalalise usapho ngenxa iphulo kwesiqingatha sesibini sale "ekhohlo" Andifuni. Kwelinye - akukho imikhosi ukuxolela. Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu esazi bayacetyiswa ukuba uphendule umyeni okanye inkosikazi kwindawo enye, kwaye mba uya kusonjululwa ngokukhawuleza.

Ngokuqinisekileyo kunceda, le ndlela ayikho ukuba wonke. Kuxhomekeka kuhlobo loo mntu woniweyo. Kodwa abantu abacinga ukuba ukukopela iqabane ubanika ilungelo lokuba "ekhohlo" - hayi kancinci kakhulu. Kulo mzekelo, esi sibini kwananwe "pleasantries" kuqhubeka co-iyaqhubeka, ngokungathi kwenzeke nto. Ngaphezu koko, xa uzibeka omnye umntu, baqala ukuqonda ngcono iintshukumisa ihambo yakhe. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba "umbandela ukuziphindezela" kufuneka ahlale zabucala ngokungqongqo. Ukwabelana le mfihlakalo nabani na ukuba.