Ukuzalwa Second lula lokuqala - Ngaba Ngokwenene?

Xa ndakhululwa esibhedlele yabazali abatsha, ukuwolana kwiimvuthuluka bakhe, uve binzana: ". Yizani kwakhona" UYise uyavuma ukuba babhiyozele, kodwa amehlo Wawungazoyiki ongenamyeni oselula, ekubelekeni ndidiniwe, zibonisa ngenye indlela. Kodwa emva nje ezimbalwa kweenyanga, banoyolo ngumama kuphazamiseke inenimba kunye nenkqubo wokuzalwa umntu ndazalelwa akusekho ezoyikisayo. Kuthatha isibini iminyaka, kwaye injongo kukunika yokuqala umntwana udade okanye umzalwana uba ngokoqobo. Kwaye inoluvo lokuba oluza yesibini lula Okokuqala, umama unika amandla olongezelelweyo.

Kodwa ngaba nje ukuzalwa yesibini, njengoko abaninzi bekholelwa? Impendulo elula lo mbuzo abakulungele kwiingcali kuba umzimba wonke umfazi eyahlukileyo. Le miba ephambili ukuba ugxininise oogqirha, esithi ukuba ukuzalwa wesibini lula kuqala abasetyhini abakhulelweyo kunye abazalisikazi, ke ukulungela ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni koomama elizayo.

eziziswe Lilonke ukuze umzimba imazi yinto enkulu izakhono ntshikilelo, ukulwa leyo ifakwe indalo. Ngoko ke, lo mntwana kwesibini izihlunu with "esazi 'ukwenza umsebenzi wabo. Iziphumo loo memory dystrophy yi ngokubulaleka olukhawulezayo, kwaye ixesha olunge elifutshane intlungu. Ngoko ke, ukuba unikezelo lokuqala oluthatha iiyure eziyi-16 okanye ngaphezulu, ngoko ukuzalwa nosana ubuninzi yesibini ukuthatha iiyure 6-8. Ukongeza, emva kokuzalwa yesibini ibhinqa kude lula alungisa waza wabuyela nesantya eqhelekileyo yobomi. Oku kungqinwa zombini ithiyori manani ngokwenene. Ngoko ke, ngokuba abafazi abaninzi yokuqala ekubelekeni yesibini lula.

Njengoko icala nangokwasengqondweni lo mbandela, kuba kanye njengokuba kubalulekile njengokuba umfazi, ekukhuliseni umntwana wakhe wesibini, sele uyazi ukuba ulindele esibhedlele, ngoko uzilungiselela esi siganeko ngenyameko ngakumbi nenenkathalo. Abaninzi pick up ekliniki ngokungqinelana esizithandayo zabo pre-wayeqhelene ugqirha oya kunceda ngalo mzuzu ezibalulekileyo. Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo, oko ngqo kwigumbi unikezelo njengomfazi ozalayo iya kwazi ukunceda njani wena nosana lwakho. Umzekelo, ukuba kuphefumlwa njani naxa ebeleka, okanye uphendule imizamo.

Kukho iimeko apho umfazi ozele umntwana wakhe wokuqala ngokwazo, i contraindication kuzalwa zendalo kwi ukukhulelwa yesibini. Izizathu ngoqhaqho ekucetyiswa bavame esinganyangekiyo yoomama elizayo, nto leyo ukusongela zombini yakhe kunye wosana olo. Umfazi xa uya ngoqhaqho, ukuzalwa yesibini kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba lula kuneyokuqala. Okokuqala, kufuneka ukudlulisela yedosi enkulu iintlungu. Okwesibini, imincili umntwana, nkqu kunye nelifa nkcukacha ezaneleyo sizoyisa zonke izivamvo. Okwesithathu, ukuchacha umama emva kotyando ziya kuthatha ixesha noko elide.

Nethemba ukuba zikhanyise ukuzalwa yesibini akuyomfuneko kwaye nabondli, umntwana wakhe wokuqala yanikelwa ngoqhaqho, kwaye ngendlela efanayo ukuzalwa iimvuthuluka lokulinda yesibini. Ngakumbi kunzima na ukuba abafazi xa emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala ngaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu. Iingxaki ezinokuvela zombini ngexesha lokukhulelwa emva kokuvela wosana.

Kodwa ke nantoni na imeko, akukho mfuneko lokwala ukusuka kokuzalwa komntwana wakhe wesibini. Kwanele ukuphulaphula izindululo ugqirha, ezo akhiwe kuthathelwa ingqalelo iimpawu ngamnye oomama ngamnye elizayo. Ke kaloku, emva kweenyanga ezisithoba, kungakhathaliseki nokuba ngaba inenimba yesibini lula Okokuqala, intsapho zigcwaliswe phezulu kwiimvuthuluka esinye ngaphezulu emehlweni ubawo sikama kunye uncume.