Ukuba akukho ubisi. Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa lokwaphusa eyoneleyo?

unina Young kumnandi ukuchitha nosana lwakhe ngesiquphe kufumanisa ukuba akukho ubisi. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kule meko? Kuqala kwinto zonke, musani ukuphakuzela, ngokuba xi ongenakho ukuba kumiswe zisanyisa. Kuyimfuneko ukufumana ukuba ingaba ikhona na ingxaki, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ingaba oko ngendlela okanye okwethutyana.

Itakane ujongene, kwaye usoloko ubuza esifubeni sakhe? Kwaye xa kuthatha kuphosa ikhala ngokukhawuleza? Oku kwenzeka xa besebancinane kakhulu, kwaye kaninzi ngaphezu na ingxaki leyo ilahlekileyo ubisi koomama abalupheleyo. Umntwana lisenokubhidekisa ngenxa yokulunywa, ukuqhina, ukuba unako ukuthomalalisa nje kufuphi esifubeni kunye nevumba ngumntu omthandayo kuye, ingakumbi ukuba akukho dummy. Kungekudala emva koko, iingxaki ukondla inokuba luphawu iinkathazo ezingenakunqandwa zamazinyo, ngoko musani ukuphakuzela ngaphambi kwexesha.

Olunye uphawu kophulwa kanina phindeke kunokwenzeka basenokufumanisa ukuba kungavakali ukuzaliswa incum kunye, umzekelo, zokumpompa ayisebenzi. Oku kwakhona akukho sizathu ukuxhalaba, kuba umsebenzi owenziwe uvelisa ubisi kangangoko umntwana azidingayo. Apha ukuze kutshekishwe ukuba usana eqolo okunene, oko uthelekiswe phambi nasemva ukutya nganye. Ngaloo ndlela, ungenza ngenene ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubisi uyile. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kule meko? Kukho iinketho ezininzi.

Okokuqala, oko kuyimfuneko ukuphelisa naziphi na izinto ezimbi .. Ntshikilelo, nokungalali, ngoko yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya kufuneka okwethutyana elinye ecaleni kwendlela, umama oncancisayo kufuneka kuphumla kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Okwesibini, uyakwazi ukubhenela "kubancedi" ezifana neti namancedo ngamayeza ezivuselela zisanyisa. Kwakhona, umama kufuneka badle ngokupheleleyo kwaye asele izinto ezibumanzi ngokwaneleyo. Indlela elungileyo ukuthintela ezi ngxaki ngokwemveli ingqalelo obuluhlaza leti ubisi kunye nazo zonke iimveliso zobisi. Into ebalulekileyo ibele rhoqo, nokuba kulilize - Kwakhona kukhuthaza zisanyisa.

Kutheni ubisi ilahlekileyo? Izizathu oku kuba baninzi: ntshikilelo, chronic fatigue, ukutya ezongezelelekileyo ukuze mix. Ewe, kumnqweno wabo ukupholisa umama usana uzinike dlel. Abantwana abaninzi, emva zama ukuxuba ibhotile, engafuni ukuba abuyele esifubeni sakhe. Abanye azikabi baziphathe ngale ndlela, kodwa abambalwa, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba mithi.

Maxa wambi umama oncancisayo, baze baba, nto leyo ebonakala isekiwe zisanyisa kakuhle, kananjalo iingxaki, kwaye efumanise ukuba ubisi uyile. Ndimele ndenze ntoni na le nto? Kwakhona ukuba kuyo ngasese. Njengomthetho jikelele, ukususela ukupha ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka malunga 2-3 kukho ingxaki enjalo, kodwa kunqabile ukuba kukho ixesha elide. Kubalulekile kweli nqanaba ukuba izakunikezela kwaye hayi uye umxube - uyancancisa Okunene lugqitywe. Ukuze uphephe oku, kufuneka ukuba nkulu ngokuzola ukuthatha yokuba ubisi uyile.

Kuthekani ukuba emva zonke ngaxa lithile nomama wam yaye wabapha umxube umntwana? Ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka emva esifubeni. Ukuba umntwana uyala, linings ezizodwa ingasetyenziswa ukondla izimvu zakhe, benza lula owanyayo. Uyakwazi futhi ukusebenzisa SNS-System - kunye nakuncedo uyakwazi ushiye usana ukutya, ngokunjalo ukukhuthaza zisanyisa. Luhle abo bangakwaziyo ukuseka ibele yesiqhelo.

Simele sikhumbule ukuba ubisi sikanina - yinto ukutya efanelekileyo zeentsana ukuya malunga neenyanga ezintandathu. nesakhiwo sayo avumelane neemfuno zomntwana ngamnye, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba ukuncancisa, ukuba kunokwenzeka. Kwaye eyona ndlela ubhetyebhetye ukuseka lokwaphusa - isicelo rhoqo.