Ubomi Social: Ndingubani na mna?

akukho okuhle iindibano loluntu Ngubani thina? Man, njengokuba Rasa tabula, i drive kunye kugqame ngayo sonke ukuba uluntu zizityebi, okanye mandithi oko kubalulekile ukuba umntu ngaphakathi eluntwini.

Xa yokufuna iinzuzo zentlalo, abantu bayakhohlwa malunga mbini indalo yakhe, ukuze, ukongeza kwihlabathi amadlavu kunye oomatshini, iindima kwezentlalo kunye nobume eluntwini, kukho ihlabathi nganye, kukho uxolo ngaphakathi. Silusizi ukubona ukuba abantu abaninzi abazange abayityhilela, pozitsiruya bona ndawonye nehlabathi yezinto. Oku kungenxa yezizathu ezininzi:

1.kto kulula woyika ukuba abayiqondi, mhlawumbi ukuba amava embi emva kwakhe;

2. Ngubani idlala umdlalo kabini kwi ukusukela "impumelelo" eluntwini;

3.A mntu unendaba ngento ihlabathi ngaphakathi ekhona onke.

Man, ngenxa yobuchule bendalo usoloko ufuna i kernel isitali oko konke, nenokuthi kuba isiqalo befuna elilandelayo. Ed hoc uhlobo bobukho, leyo ufuna ukubona kunye nabantu ngeenxa zonke kuye. Kodwa kuphela izinzile ekuqaleni womntu umphefumlo wakhe. Abantu badla yenza iimpazamo kwezinye ngenxa yokuba abakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwezentlalo kunye ngamnye umntu. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba abantu ekuhlaleni, isihlwele uqala ukubonisa uncharacteristic ngaye nakwimo eqhelekileyo ezingqondweni ngamnye iimpawu zokuziphatha, kuzo ebezintle nezo zingentle.

Kwaye yintoni na umntu lo yena-for-ngokwayo?

Ukubuza umbuzo ofanayo, ukuze ngokuzenzekelayo impendulo enye, akukho ngaphantsi ebalulekileyo: "? Kutheni abantu baziphathe ngale ndlela yaye hayi ngenye". Kwaye ke impendulo bonke kwezentlalo.

Man ukhetha iinzuzo bakhe kwezentlalo, impumelelo lwentlalo, kunokuba umntu zokomoya njengoko iimpawu zentlalo ngokucacileyo, kunye nabantu abaninzi bayavuma ukuba self-ngoluvo, iziphumo eziza kuba kakhulu ngokucacileyo babonwe ngabanye.

Kutheni wonke umzi?

Nazi ezinye lobubi sociality:

1. Xa ezahlukeneyo, ukuze wazi: wena amsunduze beingness yakhe nemvelo yangaphakathi

2. Kwimeko ukusilela zentlalo, ukulahlekelwa kokuba lindele, wasala yedwa kunye naye, eqonda ukuba engenangqondo bobukho bakhe.

Kananjalo oko ngokwenene?

A indoda okunene ethi ibe imaski lonke ixesha, kodwa xa badla itshintsha, ezama ukuba iphunyezwe ngokufutshane kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo, kunzima ukuchonga ngokucacileyo kakade, mna sutselnoe ngaphandle Kunikwa i Okunye. ndiyile nto okanye umntu endinguye? Buso, le makeup iqinisiwe kakhulu kuwe, ukuze sociality umzimba wakho ukuba balahlekelwe ikhono ukususa kubo, ukuba siqhelane, umzimba wakho ikhule ibe beingness ngokomoya. Ndicinga ukuba le yenye ngemvelo ezininzi iindlela zokufumana.

Ke kaloku, njengokuba ube yinxalenye imaski, kwaye ngokwasentlalweni, njengoko loo uthuli ecace umphefumlo wakho, wakho ihlabathi ngaphakathi.

I musa ukubiza ngxabano ingundoqo ngokwayo yaye ihlabathi ngaphandle, ukuba uhlobo impenetrability, oko nje ukuba akwazi ukulungelelanisa kule eweni.

Abantu bacinga ukuba bonwabile. Happy, ukuthenga iimoto, ukwakha izindlu. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo? Ndikhumbula utoliko Aristotelian lolonwabo, ebandakanya iinzuzo eziziprayimari nezizisekondari. Inzuzo ephambili - oku ulonwabo ngokwayo-ngokwawo-ngaphakathi kwethu, kwinqaba iShushan elityebileyo nenzolo. Kwaye ke abantu ukuze bafumana ukuphathwa yayo yi iindlela zangaphandle ukuphumeza kuyo. Kodwa abantu baninzi, ngelishwa, zithabathe ngenjongo yokuqala, umxholo, enyanisweni, encinane. Ngokuqinisekileyo baqonde ukuba abantu abane ubudala ungabi konwaba, kodwa ukunciphisa kuphela bha iminqweno yabo, kodwa ...

Umntu uzenza ikhoboka iimeko kunye nokuzinikela.

Le meko yonke isebenza kuphela obulula ukufumana iindlela zolawulo loqhagamshelwano ngaphakathi eluntwini. Thina umi nokuba bazame ukuya ngaphaya koko, akukho namnye uya kunilwela ulonwabo yakho, ngaphandle wena, ngokuba uyazi wena uze uzive ntoni kwaye kufuneka isebenze ngayo.

Yiba ngokwakho: nezinye iindima eziphambili sele athathwe!