Ubisi lwebele Lost. Ndingenza ntoni ukuze asindise ibele?

Ibele - eyona ndlela endalo ekondleni usana kwiinyanga zokuqala ezintandathu yobomi bakhe. Ngoko ke, inkoliso oomama, efuna ukunika ukhuseleko umntwana, izama nzima ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka sisondle kuphela ibele. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba, ngenxa unknown, okubonakala ezilahlekileyo ebangela ubisi lwebele. Kufuneka wenze ntoni kwimeko enjalo, nokuba ukugcina ukuncancisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka?

Sokondliwa lokuqala

Eyokuqala uncancisa ukulungiselela usana ezinxulumene kunye neengxaki ezithile. Ngapha koko, amabhinqa ezisaza akukho ubisi, kwaye usana odla umthubi, a efanayo engqindilili mveliso, nto leyo ephuma umama kunzima kakhulu ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, ekuqaleni, uninzi lwabafazi wenze iphutha xa ugqiba ukuba ufuna ukugqiba ukondla ifomula usana. Nge ngaphezu indlela elula ngokutya, umntwana akhule nje wonqena ukutsala ubisi sikanina, imveliso yobisi lwebele kuya kuncipha, kwaye ayeke ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle "lweehagu supplementary" kutsho kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngobisi ngokuthe apha naphaya, kwaye umntwana kuya kufuneka ukuba adle ubisi.

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Ngaxa ethile umama ukuze kubonakale ukuba ezilahlekileyo ubisi lwebele, yintoni ukwenza ngokuyimfuneko into ofuna ukugcina nokuncancisa. iingxaki ezifanayo ezinokuvela ngenxa ekukhuleni komntwana siphinda- xa isixa eqhelekileyo amasi usana Kusenokwenzeka ukuba awukho. Musa ukuphaphazela, nisele zonke iintlobo iyeza ukwandisa zisanyisa. Iintsuku omnye okanye ngaphezulu kufuneka unikezele usana ubisi umthamo izakuvela kwaye iza Ekufikeni inani elifanelekileyo. Kakhulu yingxaki xa uncancisa periods - kwiveki yesithathu, yesixhenxe weshumi ubomi lwakukhula.

Izizathu nciphisa zisanyisa

Kutheni ubisi lwebele ilahlekile? Lokwaphusa inokuchaphazela phantse yonke into eyenzekayo kunina: uburharha, ukutshintsha kwemozulu, ukutshintsha, okanye ukuqaliswa ukutya ezintsha. Phakathi Iimbangi ezingundoqo le lokwaphusa ukuhla wabiza imeko ngokwasengqondweni entsatsheni, ukusetyenziswa phindeke abafazi amayeza, kwapheliswa ngexesha lokuncancisa, kwakunye kwipilisi zidityanisiwe. Kwaye, kakade, self-ngomlingo okanye icebiso izalamane ukuba ubisi itakane kancinane kwaye ukulayisha.

Indlela "usindiso" zisanyisa

Xa ubisi lwebele ilahlekile, ukuba benze ntoni? Ukugcina ibele, kufuneka mabangezi ngemihla yabo uhlala zonke iinkalo esilimaza imveliso imveliso ebalulekileyo. Yaye ukuba uqhubeka ubisi lwebele ilahlekile? Kufuneka wenze ntoni kule meko? Kufuneka sizame ukugcina zisanyisa. Namhlanje le njongo kukho iti ezikhethekileyo esintu. Uyakwazi ukusebenzisa amayeza iintsomi, nayo ngempumelelo kule meko. Ngoko ke, isandla kakuhle yokuveliswa kwemveliso yobisi, ezifana iminqathe, iimbewu ikumin, iziqhamo womile. Kufuneka usele iziselo.

iziphumo

Ngaloo ndlela, ukuhluza lonke ulwazi elizifumeneyo, iliso impilo yabo, badle ekunene kwaye ube uhlala kweli mood elungileyo - oko isitshixo lokuncancisa ngempumelelo.