Siyavuyisana, beze emsithweni entsha

Wedding - sesona siganeko ebalulekileyo kubomi babantu ababini eluthandweni. Ngapha koko, le mini sukuba ke benizisa isifungo engcwele sokuzinikela ukuba ubopha isigcino sabo kunye. Ngako oko baya ukukhumbula yonke into eyenzeka kubo ngeli mbhiyozo. Kubandakanywa nabo imibuliso funny ukuba ulutsha, ukuba uya kuqaqambisa iindwendwe ezivela emlonyeni.

Kule nkalo iya kuba zifaneleke kakhulu ukuthetha malunga nendlela yokuqamba efanelekileyo iminqweno amahle lokuhlonipha emtshatweni. Ngapha koko, ukuze nje kukhunjulwa ukuba ukutshata, kodwa ukuze nabo ukuncuma kwakhona. Kwaye yintoni ibaluleke ngaphezu koko ngemini entle?

The Wedding Banquet: ubunzima kunokwenzeka

Siyavuyisana le intsha ivame izandi ngexesha emsithweni. Ngenxa yesithethe, iglasi nganye entsha ekhatshwa umnqweno okanye thowusti. Ngokubanzi, ixesha ukuthetha into ngaphandle xa wamema abaninzi kakhulu.

Ngoko ke, lundwendwe ngalunye kufuneka ilungiswe ngenxa yokuba kwakuza kufuneka athethe intetho ingqungquthela. Ngokuba umntu a elungileyo gab kunye nesigama ezilungileyo, kakhulu umsebenzi olula. into nje kwaye kufuneka ukuba kamsinya kunyuka nge umbuliso omhle oselula.

Kodwa abanye oku kungabangela iingxaki. Kwaye yiloo nto ukuba akukho ubuchule kunjalo, ukuzihlalela bubuciko yenziwe ngaphantsi lee kudidi odlulileyo. Kwaye, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba alungiselele Sininqwenelela okuhle.

Ukongeza, eli qhinga iza kunceda ukuhlangabezana namaxhala ngenxa yokuba ukuthetha esidlangalaleni. Oku kungenxa yokuba umntu uziva nentembelo ngakumbi kwiimeko apho uyazi kakuhle into efunekayo ukuze ithi. Kwaye ke makhe sijonge indlela wena unako ukuza kunye umbuliso yakho abaselula.

ukulungiselela kusengaphambili

Masiqalise nesibakala sokuba sifanele sijonge indlela ifanele ibe okuncoma. Ngapha koko, zininzi iindlela ukuvakalisa izimvo zabo, kuquka iziphakamiso. Cinga iintlobo eziphambili kubo:

1. Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhethe indlela le misebenzi: iprowuzi okanye umbongo. Eyona ndlela yokuqala neyesibini kakuhle awunankinga kulo mbhiyozo.
2. Emva koko kufuneka ukuchaza uhlobo: ulonwabo okanye kakhulu. Apha sele bonke ixhomekeke kukhetho lobuqu kunye ukuncokola.
3. Kufuneka kwakhona kuqondwe ukuba umbuliso kunokuba elide ezimfutshane kunye. Kwaye ngoko ke kufuneka ufumane indawo ephakathi - ukuze onke amazwi ukuba ukukhumbula, kwaye ukuvakalisa ingcinga ephambili thowusti.

Ukongeza yoku, kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo yaye ziziphi izinto ukuya ukutshata ungumntu. Kuyinto enye into - abahlobo yaye omnye - usapho, ingakumbi abazali.

Ukukopa imibuliso abanye abantu

ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe kule ngongoma, njengoko khangela Sithi halala kwi-network, okanye kwimagazini. Ewe, ngokwenene kukho lokuhlonipha elungileyo iminqweno, kodwa kusoloko kukho kungenzeka ukuba umtshato omnye weendwendwe ukhethe halala efanayo namfama. Kwaye ukuba uya woyisondeza phambi, emva koko kufuneka uye kwi-ngadla entsha. Ngaphandle umbuliso yakho lalivakala unyanisekile yaye ufudumele.

Ngoku makhe sikhangele ukuba yintoni umahluko phakathi Siyavuyisana bonke abazali ukuze bakuthathele emsithweni abaselula abo ukulungele ukuxolela iindwendwe.

Uthando nentlonelo kayise nonina

Abazali kunzima ukufumana amazwi afanelekileyo amacebiso. Ngapha koko, kulo mhla bayakhathazeka akukho ngaphantsi oselula, mhlawumbi nangakumbi. Kule nkalo, kungcono ukulungiselela kwangaphambili iminqweno yabo, khon 'ukuze uwise clanger ngexesha engalunganga kulo.

Yintoni, ke, kufuneka kwavuyiswana nawo yi ngabazali ukuze umtshato lo mfana? Okokuqala, iingxelo ezinjalo zisoloko ebhalwe wena, kuba kuphela kwendlela sinako ukubonisa zonke uthando nezoyikekayo ukuba unina noyise baziva ngayo kubantwana babo.

ke Kwakhona congratulation kufuneka isicelo kuphela ukuba umntwana lowo, kodwa isiqingatha sayo. Ngale ndlela abazali kubonisa ukuvuma kwabo umtshato, nokuba uthabathe zibe kwiintsapho zabo umntu omtsha.

Nakuba kunjalo, kufanele kuqatshelwe ukuba kukho ezinye umahluko koko kufuneka wavuyisana abazali umtshakazi mfana, ukususela nogxa wakhe phezu inxalenye uyise nonina umyeni. Makhe sijonge kubo ngokucacileyo.

Emasikweni sisinye prepodnosheniem

elide Kuye kwaba kwindawo yethu kukho umsitho womtshato, awathi kuphela isibini esitshatileyo zingeniswa kunye saze. Thaca kunye nabazali bakhe, kunye nembeko yokuqala ethi Sithi halala kwi ekunene bobabo kunina umyeni. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kuba, and vice versa, kukho sele onke kuxhomekeke iimpawu izithethe ethile mmandla.

Kodwa ke umongo ihlala esifanayo: umntu kufuneka athi ezimbalwa amagama uhlobo namfama. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba isafobe eziya ukudibanisa ubomi bentsapho kunye nesonka. Kungenjalo umoya ezikhethekileyo le lakudala uya kwaphulwa.

Nantsi eminye imizekelo yendlela ungenza ukwenza siyavuyisana enjalo abazali bakhe kumtshato namathole:

1. "dear yethu (amagama umtshakazi nomyeni), apha kwafika imini ekudala elindelwe xa ekugqibeleni ube usapho kudala akummandla wethu kwakukho sisithethe emangalisayo - ukuhlangabezana young iluhlaza ilofu Ngenxa Libonakalisa bungcwele ekhaya. : ukufudumala - ingumqondiso yemeko yokomoya endlwini, Kwanobumnandi intlama - ukuba incasa uthando, kodwa ipateni ogqibeleleyo - uphawu nobutyebi nenkqubela.

Ngoko ke asitye isonka enye ngokungafihlisiyo inxaxheba ngendlela elide kwaye wonwabe! Kwaye abalinganiswa bakhe ngamaxesha onke ahambe nawe ze ushiye ikhaya lakho "

2. "Siza kukunika esi sonka engcwele ubushushu bakhe bonke bafudukela endlwini yakho. Kwaye nokuba kukho ilishwa kwenzeka, ndawonye ngokuqinisekileyo uya ukumelana nazo. IBhunga kunye nothando nawe!"

Ukuba, umzekelo, siyavuyisana kwi isonka ufuna ukuxelela bonke abazali, unako ukwenza umzobo encinane ulipeyinte inxalenye. Umzekelo, ezahlulwe eziliqela ziinxalenye congratulation, uze uvule ukubaxelela.

Sithi halala kwi-abatsha abazali umyeni

Umama usoloko ucinga kuya kuba kuhle ukuba unyana wakhe emtshatweni ngayo. Enjalo intliziyo sikanina, yaye akukho nto enokwenziwa ngayo. Noko ke, umntu kufuneka akhumbule ukuba nentombi ochaphazelekayo kakhulu ngale nto, yaye oko kufuneka ingqalelo yi-mthetho.

Ngoko ke, halala kubantu abatsha abazali umyeni kufuneka kuqala ube uhlobo sokudlulela phambili kunye nentsikelelo umanyano lwabo. Ukulungiselela le njongo sisebenzisa amabinzana afana, "Iqabane sihle ngakumbi, ayikwazanga kufumaneka ehlabathini liphela" "siyakuvuyela ukuba weza kwintsapho zethu", "nathi ngentliziyo ukuxhasa ukhetho unyana yethu" njalo-njalo.

Ezinye izinto ukubulisa umtshakazi nomyeni linokuthetha nawuphi na iingcebiso kunye nengcebiso. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba avela entliziyweni, yaye bakwazi ukumkholisa namathole. Ngokomzekelo, apha ezimbalwa iingcebiso ezilula.

1. "Inkwenkwe angawethu Enkosi into wanyula njengomfazi wakhe intle kangaka yaye intombazana nobubele. Sonke intliziyo yam, ukuba umthande yaye bavuyiswa gqitha ukuba ekugqibeleni waba yinxalenye yentsapho yethu. Uthando kunye nokwazisa namacebiso abanye kuwe uthando ! "
2. "Intandokazi abantwana bethu kule mini oluhle, sifuna ukuba anisikelele kunye nekhaya lakho elitsha Makudlule zonke iimbandezelo ecaleni lakhe, ze ikukhathaza bazityhafisa Live in ukulunga kunye nemvisiswano kunye nabanye, kuba ngoku lonke Kungoko ...! - yobukrakra! "

Ngamazwi anothando abazali umtshakazi lowo

Sivuyisana abazali umtshakazi mfana musa zahluke kakhulu kwezo eboniswe ngasentla. Nakuba kunjalo, kukho iqela iimpawu eziphambili ukuze yazi ukuba. Cinga ngazo ngokucacileyo ngakumbi.

1. Okokuqala, abazali umtshakazi kufuneka bajolise ingqalelo kwabo umyeni, ingakumbi, bephawula iimpawu zayo ezintle: nobukrelekrele, amandla, ukuthembeka, ukhuseleko, inkathalo njalo njalo.
2. Kwakhona Ukugunda kakhulu ukukhankanya yokuba abangoyikiyo Intombi yakhe ezingalweni zakhe, ngokokuba bengakholwa ukuba uya awugcine.
3. Ngaba kufanelekile kakhulu ukuba ufuna nenkangeleko ekhwankqisayo abazukulwana, musa ukulibala ukukhankanya ukuba kudala efuna ukuba nootatomkhulu.

Ngoko ke, apha eminye imizekelo ezilula yendlela ukuba ukubulisa umtshakazi nomyeni evela kubazali sentombazana.

1. "Othandekayo, intombi yethu, babe nokuthantamisa, ngumfazi olungileyo kumyeni wakhe. Kakade ke, nguwe indoda yokwenene, Yomelelani nibe ngamakroti. Khathalela ekhaya nosapho, logama nje uyawalwela-ntle intsapho yakho. A iingokuhlwa efudumeleyo nokuba yile ukhuthazo nenkxaso, ekwaziyo kwehlise igama uze ukhuthaze icebiso elihle. Thandanani! '
2. "Apha sijonga wena khumbula ibali weentaka ezimbini. Ngapha koko, njengabo, uthando lwakho lunamandla kwaye oluluqilima. Emva Andrew njenge dada ezindilekileyo, usoloko ukhusela intanda yakhe kuzo zonke iimbandezelo. Nangona Nastia ukubulawa nexhala labo elincane kodwa esidulini nembeleko. Bayekeni iyafana naleyo weentaka, uthando lwakho ihlala ngonaphakade; ngokuba wena ube mhle njengoko zinjalo. "

Halala amadala kunye nangaphezulu

Le Usuku lomtshato ngumzamo enkulu iwela emagxeni eziphezulu. Ngapha koko, kufuneka uze ukonwabisa iindwendwe kunye nomtshakazi ukusuka 'amasela' ukuba zikugcine; kwaye emsebenzini Toastmasters baphendule. Ukongeza, baba ngabokuqala ukuba nithi umbulelo, ke ngoko, ngumntu wonke, nkqu abaphulaphuli azilinganise ziya riveted kuyo.

Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kufuneka ndilungisele kwangethuba umbulelo elungileyo, siyavuyisana, ukwenzela ukuba ningethi ubuso phambi kwabaphulaphuli. Into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nemithetho ekwenzeni umbulelo onjalo?

Ngoko ke, kuqala sinako ukuvakalisa umbulelo wethu ngenxa yokuba ulutsha wayinikela kubo ubaluleke kangaka. Emva koko ke baxelele ukuba lucky ukuba bayahlangabezana, kuba ngaphandle koko, iindwendwe babengayi ehleli kanye apha ngoku. Ke ngoko nje kufuneka uye ngqo okuncoma ezininzi. Umzekelo: .. "Ndothuka inhliziyo ngenxa yokuba (igama umyeni) wandimema ukuba abaphezulu emtshatweni wakhe nembeko enkulu kum, ngokuba nimazile iminyaka emininzi kwaye ucinge ukuba umhlobo wam osenyongweni ntoni, thandwa ( amagama umtshakazi nomyeni), namhla eqaqambileyo, entliziyweni yam Ndifuna ukuba sininqwenelela kangangoko kunokwenzeka mathuba eqaqambileyo sonwabe ebomini bam. Ngoko ukuba ebudaleni, ehleli kunye kwisitulo phantsi nesibhakabhaka esimnyama, uyakuvuyela ukuba ukukhumbula yonke imihla ezidlulileyo. nikhumbule, ngoku yonke into isuke ezandleni zakho. iBhunga kunye ndiyakuthanda. 'uKiss! "

Siyavuyisana ezivela abakhulu

Abahlobo - uhlobo olulodwa iindwendwe abaye babe into ukukhumbula ubomi abaselula. Yiloo nto ke kufuneka bakhokelwe ekugqibeni lokuvuyisana zabo kunye neminqweno. Ngapha koko, akukho nto emehlweni umphefumlo, njengoko amathuba achukumisayo zeziganeko iintsuku ezidlulileyo.

Noko ke, simele siqonde ukuba yonke into zinganikezwa ngokubanzi. Ngapha koko, ngubani owaziyo ukuba izibakala ezininzi ukusuka idlulileyo indoda yakhe ukuba ibe ngumfazi wayo eziqhelekileyo. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba Sizakukhankanya kuphela mathuba okulungileyo Kukhazimlayo, ubomi amaqabane.

Ukwakhiwa Sithi halala kwi ndinyana

Kakade ke, lo izibongo mhle thowusti yokuvuyisana - yeyona ndlela ingcono ukuyinika i iqhekeza umphefumlo wabo. Ke ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukubhala ngokuzimeleyo umsebenzi onjalo, iingxaki kuvela.

Ukuba isicengcelezo Friend yakhe, ungakwazi ukukhangela lowo mibuthoinganceda oku. Ngokukodwa, imibuliso-odolwa iingcali abaselula ndinyana. Noko ke, ukuba indinyana yokuqala kunjalo kuya kufuneka ukuba ahlawule isixa esithile, nangona amancinci.

Siyavuyisana iprozi entsha

lula kakhulu kunjalo kunye neminqweno eziqhelekileyo. Akukho mfuneko ukukhangela isicengcelezo, yaye ngakumbi ke ukuba ukulandela ulandelelwano imigca kunye namagama. Ngenxa yoko, umbuliso original iprozi oselula ungabhala nawuphi na umntu.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukulandela ezimbalwa iincam ezilula:

• Sebenzisa isikweko ezintle.
• Jonga abaselula ngamagama.
• Ndingathanda ukuvuyisana umyeni kunye nomtshakazi.

Nanku umzekelo encinane, izicelo ezinjalo:! .. "dear wam Akwaba sezulu okulungileyo ukuqubha ebomini bakho, isaqhwithi namaza musa kuphazamisana ngeenqanawa yakho yomthengisi ngokukhuselekileyo ukudada kwizibuko ebizwa ngokuba" iphupha "Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, makhe kwakho njalo moya kuphela tailwind. Ngoko ke nje bendingasela kuwe! 'uKiss! "

Ezihlekisayo kwi iiglasi kunye neminqweno

Siyavuyisana abaselula kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngendlela ehlekisayo. Loo nto nje ukwenza umbulelo kunzima kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba kufuneka ukuba nibe nako ukuva umgca omhle esahlula ezilungileyo uburharha embi. Ngelishwa, le ubuchule ayikho ukuba wonke.

Ukanti, ukuba umntu ugqiba kuwo, kufuneka sikhumbule kulawula enye ebalulekileyo: akukho jokes inhlamba. Ngapha koko, xa abahlobo kunye nokwazisa umbulelo enjalo, oko kukuthi nzima ukufumana ngayo nezalamane.