Njengoko ozithandayo kunye nomdla abazali okuphembelela uphuhliso kunye nesimilo umntwana

Kubonakala ukuba nomdla abantwana kunye nomsebenzi ethile kakhulu kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu omdala. Eyona njongo ephambili yale ikuba - ukufikelela uvuyo imo noxolo lwengqondo nolwaneliseko. Izinto endizithandayo kunye nomdla - i iklasi apho umntu ozibandakanye ngenyameko, ngokuzithandela ngokupheleleyo.

Kungani umntwana umdlalo

Kwengqondo ziye zabonisa ukuba imidla yabantu nangezinto ozithandayo wenza ubuntu entle. Ndinikela umdlalo abantu ukumelana neemeko uxinezeleko kunye kwethu. Zonke ezi nyaniso icace ngokunxulumene nabantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, umbuzo kusenokuvela: "Kutheni izinto zokuzonwabisa ezithandwa abantwana?" Ngokutsho kweengcali, umsebenzi owuthandayo lineziphumo luncedo kubomi kunye nesimilo mntwana.

• Umntwana ufunda lula ngakumbi izakhono ezithile practical.
• Ukuphuhlisa italente yendalo kunye nomfanekiso- ngqondweni.
• lula Abantwana ukunxibelelana nabanye.
• Ingaba abahlobo kunye izinto ezifanayo.
• Umntwana efunda ukucinga ngobuchule.
• Ukwandisa lawo.
• Abantwana baba ukuzithemba ngakumbi.
• Ukuthatha Ukuphuhlisa ubuchule ngengqondo neengqondi bomntwana.

Indlela abazali ukuphembelela zokuzonwabisa bomntwana

Yeyona abazali nefuthe ukhetho ohlobo umdla komntwana wakhe, ukuba amncede, ukufundisa nokunika inkcazelo engakumbi. Abantwana khangela ihlabathi kwamehlo abadala kwaye ukhethe ukuba uthanda kakhulu oyintanda kunye ohloniphekileyo abantu babo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba lo msebenzi uwuhlangule kid fun.

Ixesha elininzi lichithe nabanye abazali babo, a kwamnceda lo mfana, imisindo naye kwiseshoni kwi "ivila" kwi khompyutha kunye TV. neemfuno zabantwana nangezinto ozithandayo yomntwana kwixesha elizayo kuchaphazela ukhetho wobomi msebenzi.

Banokubenzakalisa umntwana luncedo ukuzenza abazali

Abazali abathanda izinto ezithile, yaye uzama ukuba qhoboshela umntwana wakho isifundo esifanayo. Kodwa kunjalo akunakwenzeka ukwenza ngamandla, ngenkani. Ukuba unyana okanye intombi akayithandi umzali olikhoboka lotywala, ungafumana isiphumo esahlukileyo.

umntwana Minor, Kakade ke, kuya kuba kuxhomekeka omdala. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuzuza uphuhliso lwabo kunye nentlalo-ntle. Ukongeza, ukunyanzela kubuhlungu ukufumana uyolo kwinkqubo. zingachaphazela njani indawo lwexesha elizayo abaphezulu yomntwana: "endizithandayo kunye nomdla kufuneka ibe kufana nonyana wam?" Nalu uluhlu kwenxenye iingxaki ezinokuvela:

• ukuphoxeka ngokwakhe kunye namandla akhe;
• ubuntu ezivaliweyo;
• low self-esteem ;
• umsebenzi iba kuze siphumle, kwaye kwabe uthiyiweyo;
• kusenokuba sengqondo esibi kubazali.

abadala Uqaphele nonothando iza kuzama uqaphele ukuba umntwana wabo ngakumbi athambekele oko kakhulu uthanda ukwenza, zokuzonwabisa kunye neemfuno ukuze uvuyo nolonwabo.

Ndazi njani ukuba yintoni na ishawa usana

Zengqondo kudala kubonakele ukuba ikuba, ukukhetha imisebenzi ozithandayo kwimisebenzi yabo ngexesha abangenzi nto kuxhomekeke kuhlobo womntu. Umntwana kunzima ukukhetha into ayithandayo, ngokuba kangako uyazi. Umsebenzi abazali - ukunceda ibonisa ubuchule bakhe kwaye ufuna ukuthumela umntwana wakhe.

Nangona isibakala sokuba imisebenzi zemidlalo - ukuba izibonelelo zempilo, ayizizo zonke ezifanelekileyo zokuzonwabisa kakhulu kunye nomdla. Rock ukwenyuka skydiving, longele imidyarho yaye ikhethwa abo rhoqo kufuneka rush adrenaline. Imisebenzi yezemidlalo bakhulisa usukelo, ukwandisa ukumelana noxinzelelo engqondweni, ntshikilelo. NeMidlalo, Kakade ke, izisa umlinganiswa nasemandleni kokuzimisela. Nakuba kunjalo, iziphumo imizamo kufuneka ungenise kuphela ikratshi abazali babo, kodwa ndavuyiswa umntwana.

abantu Creative, intloko encinane amafu, sonke siyazenza izitampu ukuqokelela, imisebenzi yobugcisa, ukuba eyimveliso konke bayihombise ikhaya lakho. ozithandayo kunye neminqweno enjalo sikhetha abantu kancane fi hlo. Kodwa isitampu yokuqokelela, anganithi nezimfakamfele, isitiya kunye scrapbook ukuphuhlisa ukukhuthala, ukwazi, ukomeleza inkqubo luvo kunye umntwana abadala.

Enoba ixesha imisebenzi spare Sizibandakanye abazali, kubalulekile ukuba akuhambise ngononophelo bazise ngayo abantwana babo. Emva koko, nkqu phambi zabo predilections usana lukhula umntu bazithembe, ezizimeleyo umntu onwabe.