Ngoobani asexuals? Into ekufuneka uyazi ngolu obufanayo

Indlela abantu abaninzi bayazi malunga ngubani na asexuals? Practice ubonisa ukuba abemi abanolwazi ezifana kwilizwe lethu lincinane kakhulu. Kwaye, ethetha ngqo, le nto ayimangalisi, kuba le nto yabonakala kutshanje. Kwaye ngoko ke zama ukuqonda ngokwabo kule nzima xa uqala, lo mbuzo.

Ngoobani asexuals?

Ngoko maqanda abantu umnxeba abangenazo namava umtsalane ngokwesini. Ngelo xesha linye azikuthandi naluphi na uhlobo ngesondo, bobabini kunye nabantu besini esahlukileyo, kunye. Ngoko ke, kufuneka mazingabhidaniswa gay or lesbian, kodwa nkqu ulala kakhulu ngakumbi.

Izazinzulu kwengqondo abanakukwazi ekugqibeleni ndawonye ukuba yintoni unobangela, uThixo wonityhilela naleyo njengesakhi ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Nangona kunjalo, kuyaziwa ukuba abantu nyaka ngamnye ngakumbi nangakumbi zivulekile malunga asexuality zabo.

Kutheni abantu iingcinga ezinjalo?

Abaninzi banomdla lo mbuzo: "njani ukuba maqanda?" Kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nokuba yintoni ebangela abantu ukuba bayeke ngesondo. Ke ezintweni zonke uThixo kule yantlukwano ulwazi kubonakala ukuba inguqulelo kakhulu lililo oku kulandelayo:

1. neentlobano zesini Ukungaphumeleli. rhoqo unobangela into eyenzekayo inokuba unxunguphalo esuka kumfowunelwa yokuqala olusondeleyo. Ngokomzekelo, xa omnye okhestra ibe mdaka kakhulu, nokulingana nelinye. Okanye xa inyaniso yahluke gqitha ukusuka ngqondweni zabantu, yaye ngoko ke akusekho nomtsalane kuye.
2. ukuphatheka Psychological. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu baba maqanda emva kudlame ngokwabo. Emva kwale ntlekele, baye kudala ezinxulumene sex into ezimdaka kunye ezinezothe.
3. Bekhubazekile. Nakuba inqabile, kodwa abanye abantu bazalwa asexuality bekhubazekile. Kulo mzekelo, oku kungaphezulu isithintelo nokomzimba ngaphezu umoya.

Le ndoda-maqanda edumileyo kunye nentshukumo yakhe entsha

Umntu ukubaleka ibali malunga asexuals kwaye hayi ukuba ndithetha ngomfana efana Devid Dzhey. Lo wenkqubo entsha esuka America ndisemncinane wayesazi eyahlukileyo ukuba oontanga babo. Nangona bonke abahlobo bakhe bathetha kuphela ngesondo, wayengakwazi bana phandle yintoni okhethekileyo ngayo.

Kuba uDavide oselula, kwaba isenzo zimdaka, injongo yakhe eyodwa ukuzala, kwaye kungekho ngaphezulu. Xa wayeneminyaka engama-23 ubudala, waba uqinisekile ukuba ngokupheleleyo akanamdla ngesondo. Kodwa ke ukwazi okuncinane ngubani na asexuals. Wayefuna ukufumana abantu abanazo ehlabathini lonke.

Ngoko ke, ngo-2001 waseka uthungelwano lwehlabathi ezinikezelweyo ukuze iminqweno asexuality. Kwaye, Isimanga, kungekudala indawo yakhe waqalisa ukuqokelela amawaka iimbono. Bole Ukongeza, ekuhambeni kwexesha, kwakukho intshukumo yonke, leyo simanyene phantsi amantombazana ayo kwesibhengezo namakhwenkwe kulo lonke jikelele.

Ihlabathi emehlweni abantu 'omtsha'

Ngoko ke, abo asexuals, waqonda, ngoku lixesha lokuba ukuqonda indlela ukubona ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Ngapha koko, njengaye nawuphi na intshukumo, baye imithetho zabo nezimvo ukuba zahluke kakhulu kwezo eziqhelekileyo kuthi.

Kuqala kwinto zonke, zonke asexuals ibanda kakhulu ukuba neentlobano zesini. Bachaza eli nyathelo njengoko iintshukumo ezingeyomfuneko ezimdaka, uyawabhuqa yonke nobuhle iimvakalelo okwenyaniso. Kulo mba, phantse onke amalungu ombutho ukushumayela uthando kaPlato.

Kulo mzekelo, kukho kwanabo musa ukwamkela ukwanga, bewagqala indawo izimfimfithi-iintsholongwane. Nangona esi simo sengqondo nangoku kwakufana nokuba ngenxa asexuals. Ngokubanzi, bonke kuphela zokuzila eqhelekileyo ukususela neentlobano zesini.

Kodwa kuthekani abantwana?

Abaninzi beva malunga asexuals, uzibuze apho kuza ebantwaneni. Kodwa nantsi ke kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba aba bantu azikho bangenamandla okanye engazaliyo - ukuba nje ongazithandiyo ngesondo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba igqithe iinkolelo zabo ukuze kuphunyezwe injongo ekugqibeleni.

Nangona kunjalo, oko kwenzeka ukuba omabini amaqabane nje akubanyamezeli na isenzo sesondo. Ngoko ke isigqibo nje ukwamkela umntwana. Ngakumbi rhoqo oko kwenzeka kwabo ixesha elide awukwazi ukufumana ukhulelwe kwaye akafuni ukucinezela onguye.

Ngubani na isengozini?

Ngesizathu esithile, abaninzi baba nemvukelo engachanekanga olu hlobo yokucinga ingaqala kuphela abo sele kakuhle kwama-40, okanye ukuba iyivume isono. Enyanisweni, uphando luya oyinyaniso, yaye oku kungqinwa vo ezininzi.

Ngoko ke, lo mntu-aseksual - into enye eqhelekileyo, ngathi ngumfazi. Kulo mzekelo, kaninzi Iimpawu zokuqala kweli hlabathi ziqala ukuvela phakathi kweminyaka eli-16 ukuya kwengama-25. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba iminyaka 20 maqanda sele uyazi ngokupheleleyo iimfuno zabo nezimvo.

Kutheni baza kwaziwa kutsha nje?

Enyanisweni, asexuals ezininzi kwaye ngoku ukufihla iimvakalelo zabo oyinyaniso. Isizathu kukuba noloyiko uluntu uyokulahla. Ngapha koko, ngubani na ofuna ukwakha ubuhlobo nomntu akafuni ngesondo?

Ingongoma zatshintsha kwakuyinto le gabalala kolwazi malunga aba bantu ukuba akuwedwa. Ngale asexuals ukuba, ekugqibeleni, liphuma izithunzi uze ukhangele isibini phakathi ngohlobo lwazo.