Ndlelantle umyalezo kumhlobo

Asingabo bonke abanayo imfundo eyoneleyo nobuchule ofanele ukuhamba, ukuba ashiye ubomi umntu, kungekhona ukumbakraza ucango, kunye nelifa lemveli, kwaye eshiya ngasemva a ucoceko, umyalelo kunye Iingcinga ebendinazo. Ukanti ngamanye amaxesha azinazo nesibindi ukuze sithethe kanye omthandayo kunye iliso ngeliso, ngenxa yokuba kule meko sinakho ukubhala ileta eya kumhlobo ukuba ithe i. Kakade ke, le ndlela engcono ngaphandle akufani ndlela efanelekileyo kuthi ndlela-ntle, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akukho ndlela yimbi.

kufuneka njani ibukeke ileta ndlelantle umhlobo? Kukho iindidi ngeendidi iintliziyo ezifanelekileyo kunye neentyatyambo, lihla iinyembezi negazi imibhalo uya kukhangela ayinyamezeleki yaye ziziziyatha. Ngoxa wonke umntu nendlela yabo zonxibelelwano kunye nendlela yokuzahlula. Ileta eya kumhlobo, uya kubona nabo, kufuneka ngqo, eqaqambileyo nangokunyaniseka. Kuyo kufuneka kungabikho izithuko, ukuthotywa, zonke iintlobo izinto ezingcolileyo. Konke oku koko uya kuba neentloni ufuna ukutshintsha yonke into. Ileta eya leta kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukucinga izinto, ukuba ubunzima, makathathe igama elihle.

Ngoku, iinketho ezimbini iileta ntle kufuneka kuxoxwe. Kwimeko yokuqala, ukuba ulixhoba. Umzekelo, wena owone, bathotywe, uya zitshintshile, kuba ndingcatshe, yanyathelwa, kwaye ufuna ukuba uyeke ngayo olo lwalamano, kodwa ngokuchaza ukuba buhlungu embi ngayo. Le ndlela yesibini inzima kakhulu ngakumbi: ixhoba nguwe. Kuza kufuneka uchaze ukuba kutheni liphoseni omnye othandekayo. Kwaye ukwenza oku kuya kuba yeyona echanekileyo, ngaphandle kokushiya amathemba, hayi ukunika ithuba ukuvuselelwa ubudlelwane, kungenjalo kuya kuba bubugwala kwenu.

Kwimeko yokuqala, ileta eya kumhlobo, obeyindoda umngcatshi, hayi kubonakale ayinyamezeleki. Kufuneka aziphumi iinyembezi, ukuba amalungiselelo umcu uxolo kuphumelela umphefumlo ngaphakathi ngaphandle. Kungenzeka, nguwe kanye kwakhona sihleke. Kufuneka icace, ngqo, ubande, kunye nokubhuqa omkhulu acacisele lowo ukuba akusekho unomdla kuwe yaye yintoni obungathanda ngokuzolileyo nozolileyo uyeke bonke ubuhlobo. Akukho mfuneko ukungena nakwesiphi ehlaselwa nembalelwano, akasayi kukhokelela nantoni na elungileyo. Unakho ukubhala yinqakrzaze phantsi ephepheni kwaye anike umntu kunokuba ukuthumela nothungelwano olukhulu loluntu, uyakwazi ukubeka phantsi komthi weKrismesi unobumba a la «New Year ukuba umhlobo ukuba unalo akukho ndawo ebomini bam", yaye kusenokwenzeka ukuthumela ileta ngeposi. Jonga uthunyelwe ezi ngcono ngokusemthethweni (umzekelo, Sergei, UKaterina Olga), musa ukusebenzisa amagama isinciphiso kwaye ukuwela ngezithuko. Kwanele ukuba izivakalisi ezimbalwa kunye nesicelo nto ibingenakuwahlupha kuwe.

Kwimeko yesibini, kufuneka ulungiselele kakuhle. Ngapha koko, uya kwenza ngumwexuki. Kuya kufuneka uzame kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukugudisa amava intlungu nganye, wafumana le leta. Kufuneka kuchazwe kwaye kuqatshelwe ukuba nokujula umntu ngeeleta okanye ukuvumelana ngandlel phantsi, ngoko ke uya kuba mkhulu ukuba usafuna chwetheza ndanesibindi sokuthetha nomnye umntu buqu. Ukuba nesibindi - oku na ingongoma zenu, siya unganciphisa unobumba. Umhlobo, funda umyalezo wakho, ukuba imali kwizakhiwo ezongezelelekileyo kunye ukucalulwa, ngoko kuya kuba kuhle ukuba ndicacise ukuba yindoda enkulu, yaye ngumtyholwa makenjenjalo ligqobha indlu, ngenxa yokuba i "..." (more ukulandela ezahlukeneyo yezizathu).

Uyakwazi Ngokuqinisekileyo ukufunda kumava ezakudala: funda Marquez, Zweig, Pushkin, Yesenin, kunye nezinye ababhali amaninzi, ebuza imibuzo ileta-ntle. Oku kuya kunceda Tune okugqibela, ukuze uqonde ukuba ayinguwe wedwa kweli hlabathi, ukuba abanye abantu, kuquka aneziphiwo ngokusebenzisa kweli nqanaba ubomi nzima ababhali, famous abadlali, iimvumi amatye kunye neembaleki. Ukuhlukana - kusoloko kukho ilahleko, lo kulahleka iinyembezi kunye iintlungu, kodwa ngenxa yokuba, ngomqukumbelo ngodlame ubomi obutsha ezele adventures kunye nezihlobo ezintsha. Ileta eya kumhlobo, nokuba kobokuqala, kufuneka ube nje wokuweza, ukuba ekuthathela kuyo KDE ukusuka ibhanki enye ukuya kwenye ubomi. Musa ukoyika ukutshisa iibhulorho, musa ukukhangela emva hayi, kuba ubomi intle kangaka, ukuba intliziyo yakho ucinga ukuba wenza into elungileyo.