Musa Congress, A iikherothi!

Kwengqondo ziye izinto ezinjalo - ". Unyanzeliso ezimbi" "unyanzeliso positive" yaye nokuqiniswa Positive - yinto isiganeko eyenzeka ngexesha elinye naliphi na inyathelo, kwaye yandisa amathuba kwakhona ukwenzeka-. Ngamanye amazwi, i "iikherothi 'efanayo ukuba umvuzo ngenxa yemisebenzi yakhe emihle kunye inyathelo elifunekayo. nokuqiniswa ezincumisayo, apho inokuba ukuncoma, imvume, uyonwabisa ezincinane ukutya okumnandi, yokuthenga ezinqwenelekayo, njl, Soloko kubangela iimvakalelo ezintle.
nokuqiniswa ezigxekayo le ugxekwe okanye self-ukugxeka, ndiwuhlutha nje wena ukuzonwabisa ezincinane iba umthombo neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo.
Ngokutsho bengqondo, unyanzeliso HIV iphumelela kakhulu kuphuhliso iimpawu ezintle, bafumane izakhono luncedo.
Xa umntwana omncinci uqala ukuthatha amanyathelo yakhe yokuqala, abazali bakhe ngamaxesha nomxhelo owonwabileyo nendumiso hayi kuphela iimpumelelo kodwa kuba behluleke. "Yintoni na, mfana - bathi -., Ukwenza kakuhle kangakanani na uye andinako bungasifumani nawe" Kwaye nokuba umntwana lowo, nomxhelo yakhe nendumiso.
Kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, lo mfanekiso uyatshintsha, unyanzeliso HIV isiba menshne kunye navumelanayo - ngakumbi. Umzekelo, ukuba umfundi badla ngokuthi, "Musa ukwenza isifundo - musa ukuya ngumoya", "ukuba aye kwikholeji -. Baya kungena emkhosini" Ngoko ngokuthe ngcembe Babuzinzisa umkhwa umntwana ukwenza izinto ezithile ukuze siphephe iingxaki okanye isohlwayo. Ke ngoku kukho umntu oselemdala uqalisa ukusebenza ngomhla yedwa, "intonga", okt unyanzeliso ezimbi. Ngenxa yoko, uqala ukuziva ukungabikho neemvakalelo ezintle, kunye nako ngokugqithiseleyo kakhulu ezimbi, ukuba kungekudala kukhokelela kuxinezeleko okanye uxinezeleko.
Ukutshintsha le meko, kufuneka ufunde ukumdumisa ngokwakhe, nokuba impumelelo ezincinane, njengokuba kanye, xa usenza amanyathelo okuqala, siye basincoma ngabazali bethu. Kufuneka ukuba ibe mthetho: Nantoni na, nantoni na isakhono okanye lufundiwe - kaninzi kufuneka siziyaleze. nokuqiniswa Positive osipha amandla, kusinceda phambili, ngoxa izitena self-bake indlela yangaphakathi self.
Ukuphuhlisa lo buchule, iisayikholojisti bacebisa ukusetyenziswa ukutya unyanzeliso ezintle. Oku kunokuba intwana encinane imveliso ukuba omthandayo, umzekelo iqhekeza itshokolethi, iqhekeza orange, isibini weminoti, iyogurt, njl Samopohvala, exhaswa ukutya okuthandayo, idala enamandla isigxina amandla ezintle, nto leyo ehambisana ne intshukumo ukuba ufuna ukudibanisa okanye ukuphuhlisa.
Ukongeza umvuzo ukutya, ungasebenzisa enye, umnandi wena buqu ntshukumo: kunokuba uhambe, yokuthenga encinane, ukufunda incwadi elungileyo, iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo, njl