Makhe sihlolisise, yintoni iphupha-efile isalamane

Xa waya endlwini lembandezelo, nzima bonke kunye buhlungu. Thina buhlungu ukuba omthandayo ngasekhohlo ihlabathi labaphilileyo, waza wasishiya. Saba kabuhlungu yintoni na ukubona umntu elide balive ilizwi lakhe, ukuba ukuchukumisa izandla. Kwaye ngoku ukuhlangabezana umfi kuphela ngamaphupha. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Kutheni ephupheni, beza kuthi? Ithi into, bonisa ukunike. Oku ulwazi ukusuka apho? Okanye nomini akakwazi zingabe ukufa?

Umyalezo ovela kwabafileyo

Abantu babe iinketho ezimbalwa iinkcazo, yintoni iphupha-efile isalamane. Kukholelwa ukuba olu hlobo umyalezo ovela kwelinye ehlabathini. Lishwa emva kokufa kwakhe iintsuku ezingama-40 udale ubuhlobo phakathi kwakhe ihlabathi ukuba ekhohlo. Umphefumlo wakhe ayiyi kuphumla, ukuba ubomi umntu akanayo ixesha msebenzi wayo. Mhlawumbi umntu ofileyo ufuna ukugqithisa ulwazi ehlabathini ophilileyo. Chaza into aphuphe uswelekile isalamane, akukho nzima kangaka. Bafuna ukuthetha into ethile, ubalumkise okanye inkxaso. Ephupheni musani ukoyika yokuhlangana kubo, hayi. Mamela ngononophelo kwaye ukhumbule yonke into abayithethayo. Ndikholelwe, enyanisweni yonke weva oko kwenzekayo. Kodwa hamba kuba abafileyo - hayi uphawu elungileyo, ukuba afe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba nibiza umntu ofileyo, kodwa musa ukuya emva kwakhe - linda izifo kunye nokusilela.

Sidinga ukuba sikhumbule

Abantu bechaza kutheni iphupha lezalamane kwabafileyo, ngoko: kufuneka uyikhumbule. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba sihleli apha ehlabathini enokuba undilibele ngayo, musa ukuya emadlakeni, musa ukuya ecaweni, ukuyalela inkonzo abafileyo, hayi, bakhumbule. Ukuba ndabona umfanekiso njengephupha oswelekileyo omthandayo omnye, sinikele ingqalelo kuyo ibukeka njani. Ukuba kukho into iimpahla ezicocekileyo, abatsha, yaye isidumbu sakhe simhlophe ngokungathi zikhanyiswe ngaphakathi, uyazi, ngelo ufileyo kakuhle. Ukuba umzimba umbala oluhlaza-ndiyingwevu, ngokungathi ngaphaya ezikrazukileyo nawezonakeleyo kuwo - ingumqondiso ukuba isalamane ilityalwe okanye kungcwatywa yonke imithetho. Emva phupho kuyimfuneko ukuya ecaweni, yaye ngokuthetha kumbingeleli, ukuyalela nkonzo.

Yi notshintsho kwimozulu

Ukuthetha ngento iphupha-abafileyo isalamane, sifanele sikhumbule ukuba iimpawu zabantu. Kukholelwa ukuba emva eli phupha kufuneka silindele ukuba utshintsho lwemozulu. Ukuba shushu, ngoko kuyanetha zemvula phambili. Ukuba liphupha umfi kunye ngexesha kubanda, elinde nobudlelwane kunye ukufudumala ngesiquphe.

Ntoni incwadi phupha?

Ephupheni iincwadi wanikela ezinye iinkcukacha njengoko oko iphupha-efile isalamane. Ukuba waba elide uyise waya kwelinye ihlabathi, ukuba ubuye. Oku kusisilumkiso ukuba ukuqala amashishini amatsha, ukuze enze nezahlulo, ukutshintsha indawo yomsebenzi, uqalise ukuthandana kungekudala. Kananjalo kusenokwenzeka ukuba ulindele bezithatha intetho ububi emva komhlana wakho. Owamfumana ephupheni ongasekhoyo mzalwana? Enyanisweni, jonga kwi indawo yakhe. Umntu kufuneka ingqalelo kunye nokhathalelo yakho. Ndiphuphe kanina, leyo kukade icangcisiwe kwi yokuphumla emangcwabeni? Kwakhona isilumkiso. Yena kunye nabanye ihlabathi ukukhathalele, uzama ukukhusela kubo kwizifo. Emva kwentlanganiso onjalo ephupheni yiya esibhedlele uviwo. Kunokwenzeka ukuba kwixa elizayo, ukuba ugule. I ngaphambili esi sifo elibhaqiweyo, unyango kuya kwenzeka lula ngakumbi. Ukuba ephupha utatomkhulu, ungakhathazeki kwaye ucinga, yintoni amaphupha abafileyo. Isihlobo seza kuwe kwaye linqwenela ukwazisa inguqu elinqwenelekayo ezayo ebomini.

Ndingazani nandoda ofileyo

Vumelanani, bephupha mna abafileyo - namanwele. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Eli phupha has a nentsingiselo entle kakhulu. Uya kuphila ngolonwabo emva, wena ukoyika sifo. Kodwa bemlinga isiphelo unangoku ikufanele. Nje siphile size sinandiphe yonke imihla yokuba ukuhlala kwabo kweli hlabathi yabantu.