Kuyavunywa Kutheni na? Yintoni ephosakeleyo nto?

"Musa ukukhangela ihashe isipho emlonyeni" - eli binzana kuye kwafika kubo bonke, kodwa abaninzi kunye naye andivumi kakhulu, ingakumbi namhlanje, xa izipho yanikwa ukubaluleka phantse ehlabathini. Ngapha koko, kukholelwa ukuba ibiza kakhulu ngexabiso langoku, i liphakamile ixabiso wena ophayo. Kuba baninzi, nakanjani eqhelekileyo "umyalelo" isipho, oko kukuthi kwintsapho ngolwimi olulula ukuba ndikuphe. Kaloku, mhlawumbi oku othile. Vumela lesi sipho ityala yaye akuyi kubakho singumbono omangalisayo, kodwa ndlu ngeke icocekile. Kuyimfuneko, nangona "custom" izinto nemihlali ngakumbi lee izimanga ezingeyomfuneko. Umntu usenokuba, intliziyo yakhe umphefumlo ngotyalomali Present yakho, yaye bengazi into ukunika; elide bakhetha kuye, ngokunyanisekileyo bekholelwa ukuba oyithandayo. Mhlawumbi bekuya kuba nemihlali ukunika into eninzi kakhulu, kodwa akukho ubuchule yemali. Kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba usebenza kuwe ngaphezu kwalowo ukuba kumpha ngegolide, iidayimani kunye iPhones. Wayirhola ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kuni, ayikatshintshi malunga iholide yakho, kwaye oku kukodwa ibaluleke kakhulu.

Noko ke, nisamana abayithandi le "zathi zavela cheap" oqingqiweyo okanye enkulu teddy imvubu pink, kwaye sele sicinga apho lo lihlazo ukuba. Kodwa ke oko akuthethi ukuba engqondweni yakho, ngaba ukhe Kuyavunywa? Hayi, Kakade ke, nika, kodwa ingaba ilungile ubuncinane ukusuka kwindawo ngokusemthethweni? Masithi thaca efanayo ngokungeyomfuneko imvubu pink omnye umntu. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuya kubakho ukufana nabo ndawunikela kuwe. toy Peredaril okanye omnye umntu azi zabaxhasi yakho. Oko kukuthi, masithi nakancinane ukuba abantu bazive ngokusuka entliziyweni wenze isipho, ukuba ngebhaqo ubona into thaca kuwe kwabasemzini. Uya kuba mnandi ukubona isipho yakho ayinalo umntu lowo lona? Kwaye oku nje esinye sezizathu kuphiwa linikwa.

Esinye isizathu kulala into yokuba ekuqaleni isipho wathwala intsingiselo ethile ngokweemvakalelo okanye, oko kukuthi waso wayefuna ukuba ukuthetha into ngale ndlela. Xa ukhetha kundikhumbuza yena, wabeka kuwo iqhekeza umphefumlo wakhe namandla ezintle. Kodwa akazange aqonde nealam ekhalayo, anikwe akufuneki nto komnye umntu, endihleli ezandleni ezakhayo ingaba mibi: esi sipho "lumiselwe" kuwe, uze wazitshangatshangisa, ungabikho. Akuthandeki ukuba le nto iza kuzisa ulonwabo kunye uvuyo kumnikazi omtsha. Ukanti kukho imbono yokuba le wotshi awuthunyelwanga thaca. Kukholeleka ukuba langoku enjalo kubonakale kukhokelela yokuwa ubudlelane (ingakumbi xa bemthanda). Umntu uyavumelana nale athi lithamsanqa, kwaye wayesele amava Ngelishwa yokulahlekelwa emva kunikelwe iwotshi kwakhe, yaye umntu, yaye emva yeshumi "iwotshi alarm" iyaqhubeka sihlale ngokonwaba kunye neqabane lakhe.

Kodwa kunjalo, kutheni kunika Kuyavunywa? Kungenzeka, kuba xa umntu enika kuni ebiza ngenene, ngoko nje isazela kufuneka sivumele ukubaleka nakanjani nto. Wena efanayo / ukuba babe neentloni koko elo xesha yasindiswa kwi usetsho kunye nemali yokuthenga isipho esilungileyo, waza wanikela yokuqala fumene okungeyomfuneko endlwini. Ukuba sizimisele kangako ukuba balahle engafunwayo isipho kwaye noko anikholwa kuzo zonke iintlobo abasephantsi ngeendleko amandla, ngoko, kakade, unako ukunika nto kwabo bawusweleyo, okanye athengise ekugqibeleni. Ngomhla umbuzo kutheni kunika Kuyavunywa ukuba, unako ukuphendula kuphela yakho "I".