Kutheni indoda iphela ngokukhawuleza kunye nendlela yokujongana nayo?

Kwili hlabathi lanamhlanje, amaninzi amanqanaba eesondo eziqinileyo ahlala kwisigxina esinobuchule bokuphila. Ukukhathazeka okuqhubekayo, iingcamango malunga nemali eyongezelelweyo, ukuhlala ngeenxa yokujonga i-laptop-konke oko kukuchaphazela impilo yamadoda kunye namandla angamadoda. Ngenxa yoko, abaninzi abasetyhini babhekana nesimo esinjalo esingathandekiyo njengento yokuhlaselwa kwangaphambili. Kuthekani ukuba indoda ethandekayo iphelile ngokukhawuleza? Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba uMama Wendalo uye wagqiba ngolu hlobo kwaye kuya kufuneka ukuba azibekezele, ngelixa abanye bezama ukufumana iimpendulo kunye neendlela ezifanelekileyo zokulwa. Kuphela kweqela eligqibela, eli nqaku lijoliswe.

Kutheni indoda ihamba ngokukhawuleza?

Ngokwe-andrologists, ngokomyinge, ubude besondo kufuneka budlule emibini ukuya kwemizuzu emithathu. Ukususela kwingcamango yeembono ezikhoyo kule ngxaki, kuyaqhelekileyo ukuchonga izinto ezincinci ezikhokelela ekuhambeni kwexesha elide. Kunomdla ukuba ininzi yabo ikhusela amadoda, aphindaphinda aqinisekise ukusebenza kwawo. Ngezantsi liluhlu olupheleleyo olupheleleyo:

• Ukungabikho kobudlelwane obusondeleyo;
• Ukuvuselela okuqinileyo kumlingane wesini;
• Ukugxininiswa kwi-orgasm njengento eqaqambileyo kunye nokuzinyamekela kwintombazana leyo;
• Iimpawu zesakhiwo sezilwanyana zesini, okufaka isandla ekukhayeni ngokukhawuleza ;
• Unomdla oqinileyo ukusuka kwintlobo yowesifazane ukuba indoda ayikwazi ukuyenza.

Nangona kunzima ukuphikisana nale nkcazo, ezi zide ziphela iimpendulo zombuzo othi "kutheni indoda iphela ngokukhawuleza". Ukuba ufunda ukuba iingcali zibhalela ngale ngongoma, unokugqiba ukuba kude kube yintsholongwane iingcali zempilo yamadoda zazikholelwa ukuba i-ejaculation yexesha elide lixhomekeke kwiingxaki zengqondo, ngokukodwa ngokungazikwazi ukuphumla ngexesha lesini. Kakade ke, kwiindlela ezininzi, oogqirha bethu bakulungile, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba bangabantu abafana nathi, kwaye abantu, njengokuba baziwayo, bathambe ukwenza iimpazamo. Bambalwa abantu abazi, kodwa kungekude kakhulu, izazinzulu zaseFinland naseSweden zenze ukufumanisa, okunika impendulo eyahlukileyo kumbuzo othi "kutheni indoda iphelela ngokukhawuleza". Emva kokufunda amadoda angama-1,300 phakathi kweminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-45 ubudala, iqela lezenzululwazi ezenze le mvavanyo lagqiba ukuba i-ejaculation yexesha elide linxulumene nesiphene kwi-gene elawula ukukhululwa kwe-dopamine, eyenziwa njenge-neurotransmitter yendalo yonke. Ngaloo ndlela, ngoku oogqirha ngaphandle koxinzelelo lwe-anti-depressants baya kuba ngamadoda ukuba banike amayeza anokubangela ukuba i-dopamine ingene kwiingqondo. Kodwa ngaba le nto ayiyiyo enye inzame yokuphelisa uphando endaweni yokutshatyalalisa isizathu? Ngokomntu, ndiqinisekile ukuba ingcambu yesigqibo kukuthatha iipilisi.

Uluhlu lweengxaki

Njengoko uyakubona, kukho izizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokuchaphazela ngamandla amandla omntu. Kwaye zinokuchaphazela zombini kwaye ziyinkimbinkimbi, kwaye kwimeko yokugqibela, akulula ukunqoba ukugula. Nangona kunjalo, abo abangayekiyo ngokukhawuleza baya kufumana impumelelo. Ngoko, kuthekani ukuba indoda iphela ngokukhawuleza? Iyeza zanamhlanje zincoma kulolu hlobo ukuba zikhethe enye okanye udibaniso lweendlela ezintathu ezilandelayo zokuphilisa le ngxaki:

• I-Pharmacotherapy, oko kukuthi, ukusetyenziswa kwamachiza;
• Ulwaphulo lokuziphatha (inkqubo eyenzelwe ukulawula ngokwakho);
• Ingenelelo yokuphanda (kwimeko yezilwanyana zezilwanyana).

Isiphetho esinengqiqo siphumela: okokuqala sifuna ukufumana impendulo ekhonkco kwimibuzo yokuba kutheni indoda i-cums ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ke ukhethe isiphi isigqibo esiza kuzisa iziphumo ezilungileyo kule meko. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, akufuneki ukukhawuleza kunye namacwecwe, kuba kunokwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nale ngxaki ngokuzimeleyo ngokufumana impilo yengqondo nokuphucula ukuzithiba. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinokuphunyezwa ngayo oku, kwaye wonke umntu unokukhetha enye ifanelekileyo ukuba ayifunayo. Okungcono, kungcono kunokuya kumgqirha okanye ukugwinya nayiphi na "i-chemistry".