Kubukeka njani ukubulala?

Bonke abantu baphupha malunga namaphupha, oku kubangelwa yizenzululwazi. Ngokwezenzululwazi, umntu oqhelekileyo ubona umyinge wama-5-6 amaphupha ngobusuku bonke. Nguwuphi umsebenzi owenziwa ngolu hlobo lwemiboniso engagqithwanga, luhlala lubonakala, kodwa abantu abanalo Kwixesha la mandulo lalikholelwa ukuba bonke ubuthongo, njengesigidimi semikhosi yamanye amazwe, kuyimfuneko ukuphulaphula, ukwenzela ukuba ugweme iintlungu. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, inzala kwihlabathi lamaphupha ayinamandla, nangona kunjalo, iincwadi zamaphupha zanamhlanje kunye neetrekta zithandwa kakhulu.

Namhlanje siza kuthetha malunga nokubulawa kwababulali. Oku, mhlawumbi, ngenye yezophupha ukuba akukho mntu, ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo, angathanda ukubona. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba omnye umntu wabulawa ephupheni emehlweni akho, okanye ukuba waba yintlanzi, kungcono ukuba ungazitholi ngokucatshulwa, kodwa ukufumanisa uncwadi olukhethekileyo oko oku kuthetha ukuthini.

Ukubona ukufa kuphupha akuthethi ukuba konke oku kuza kwenzeka ebomini boqobo. Ngokuphambene noko, kukho inkolo eyaziwa ngabantu: "Ndabona iphupha elibi - bathetha ngenye indlela." Ngokuqhelekileyo imeko enjalo yephupha ayithethi ngeemeko eziza kwenzeka, kodwa zengqondo yakho yengqondo. Umbulali ephupheni kaninzi akwazi, okanye Yena, ofuna ukufanekisa "ukususa" iimeko zakho ebomini bakho. Ukuqulunqwa kwephupha, okuqulethwe kwinqanaba lokubulala, kufuneka lenziwe ngokubhekiselele kumxholo kunye nengqondo yakho.

Zithini iincwadi zephupha? Ukuba ubona ukufa kwezihlobo okanye abahlobo abasondeleyo ephupheni , ngoko ngokwenene kunokuthetha ukwesaba ukulondeka okanye utshintsho olusondelayo ebomini. Ukuba imeko yombulali nguwe, ngokukhawuleza uza kutsalwa kwenye into engathandabuzekiyo Ibhizinisi elonakalisa idumela lakho. Kubukeka njani ukubulawa kwezilwanyana? Njengomthetho, enenhlanhla enkulu, ingakumbi ukuba ephupheni igazi labo bezandleni zakho. Ukubulala umntu ongaxhaswanga okanye umntwana - ukudabuka nokunciphisa intlalo yakho. Ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba unokutshatyalala umchasi onamandla kwaye onamandla, ngokobomi boqobo uya kuhlangabezana nazo zonke iingxaki. Ukuba ephupheni wena ngokwakho ulixhoba lombulali - qaphela, iintshaba azithethi.

Xa sisebenzisana nento ababulawe ngayo, siya kwiimeko ezilandelayo zokuzibulala - ukuzibulala ephupheni. Ukuzibulala kufaka ubungqina bokungabikho kokuvavanya komntu ngokwakhe, malunga nokukhanyela kwakhe "mna". Ngaloo ndlela, ingqondo yakho engathandabuzekiyo ilawula ulwaphulo kulolo nxalenye yobuntu bakho obuphazamisa uphuhliso lwakho. Ukuba le mphupha iphindaphindiweyo, ke le sizathu esibalulekileyo sokwenza ukucacisa kwaye uqonde oko akunakufanelanga yona, kuba iimbophu eziphambene nomnqweno wethu, zivela kwimidlalo elula ye-subconscious ibe yiimpawu zentsingiselo ezibonakalayo kuthi, kwaye ngaphandle kokuncediswa kwengqondo yengqondo Kakade akakwazi ukwenza.

Kubukeka njani ukubulala? Abantu abaninzi babuza lo mbuzo ngethemba lokufumana ukukhankanya kweengcamango zabo ezingapheliyo. Eli nqaku lizama ukuphendula lo mbuzo. Khumbula: nangona ukuphazamisa iphupha, akusayi kuze kube yinyani, kuba ngumdlalo weengcamango zethu, nangona, ngamanye amaxesha, kunzima kakhulu.