Intlawulo yokugula ukuba umntwana

Imeko ye abasebenzi yokukhubazeka yexeshana ukusuka imfuneko ukunyamekela umntwana ogulayo kakhulu eqhelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba amalungelo akho. intlawulo yokugula ngokuba umntwana yahlukile lowo zingafumaneka ukuba umqeshwa igula ngokwakhe. Kukho izinto ezifika zibe yimiqobo ezithile ezinxulumene ngexesha intlawulo, kwakunye nemali amalungiselelo ikhefu lokugula ezinjalo. Makhe sijonge ezi ngongoma.

Intlawulo ye esibhedlele umntwana nonina kuya kwenziwa, uyise okanye nezizalwane umntwana, ukuba basebenza phantsi ngokwemvumelwano yengqesho. Kwezinye iimeko, umsebenzi akanalungelo ezinjalo iintlawulo. Ukuba umntu umntwana, nto leyo akazalani khathalela, bekuya akhuphe isiqinisekiso sikaqhirha awukwazi, ngoko ke, apho kuya kubakho isigxina. Isibonelelo unako kuhlawulwa kuphela ukuba umntwana lowo uneminyaka 0-15. Xa kufikwa koomama bethathe ikhefu lokugula kunye umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka enye enesiqingatha, koko wakhupha ikhefu lakhe lokugula akuhlawulwa. Ukubalwa esibhedlele kukhathalelo umntwana iyaphunyezwa ngokuxhomekeke kumava inshorensi yomzali, nto leyo ukwenza ukhathalelo, kwakunye unyango emiselweyo.

Xa kubalwa ubude nkonzo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba elingaphezu kweminyaka esibhozo, intlawulo eyenziwe 100% volume, ukuba amava phakathi kwiminyaka 5-8, intlawulo yenziwa yi-80%, ukuya kwiminyaka emihlanu - 60%. ixesha count iqala kwiirekhodi ezikhoyo engqesho. Kulo mzekelo, akukho mahluko, baba kuwo yaphula okanye hayi. Xa kufikwa unyango ngaphandle-nomonde, umntu ekhangela emva kokuba umntwana, ahlawule, kuxhomekeke ubude iintsuku ezili-10 zokuqala neentsuku 11 intlawulo yenziwa yi-50% yomvuzo avareji. Xa kuziwa kwi-isigulane unyango, intlawulo yenziwe ngokuxhomekeke kumava umntu wenza ngenkathalo. intlawulo yokugula kukhathalelo umntwana lwenziwa kunye nomqathango ngobude lokuhlala ikhefu lokugula. Ukuba ukunyamekela umntwana ukuya kwiminyaka-7, kuya kuhlawulwa ezona zininzi iintsuku ezingama-60 ngonyaka kangangeminyaka 7-15 abahlawuli ngaphezu kweentsuku ezingama-45. iintsuku 120 ngonyaka angasinika lo ukukhathalela umntwana ukhubazekile. Ngokuba abantwana iingxaki ugonyo umbala okanye yi-HIV uhlawula ixesha lonke.

Ukuba isibhedlele idlula ngexesha elimisiweyo kuwiso-mthetho, umqeshi unelungelo axhuzule iintsuku ezingaphezu kwemfuneko lokungabikho, leyo kunokuphumela ekugxothweni. Kwimeko enjalo kunye nentlawulo yekhefu lokugula kufuneka awabe ngokwemiqathango unonophelo phakathi kwezalamane eziliqela. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ezo iintsapho apho abantwana bayagula kwaye kufuneka inkathalo.

intlawulo yokugula kukhathalelo umntwana ikhutshwa phandle ngokupheleleyo kwimeko enkulisa yedwa. Umthetho ezifanelekileyo uthi xa ndzivalelo ixhomekeke umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka engama-7 ubudala, ukuya ezizodwa iziko pre-school, esi sibonelelo siya kuhlawulwa loo uMntu oKhuselwe ngeInshorensi ukuze lonke ixesha yedwa. Kule meko ubungakanani mali kufuneka abekwe Njengomthetho jikelele, oko kukuthi, zingaphelanga iintsuku ezili-10, kwaye ngomhla we-11 kwi isiqingatha rate. Kwiimeko apho umntwana losulelwe ayikho kokuya esikolweni nasekhaya unesi okanye mini-umyezo, awusebenzi lo mthetho.

Abazali abantwana abagulayo rhoqo kwaye okuninzi, bangazikhusela ngokuhambisa nje ukukhathalelwa komntwana kwezihlobo. intlawulo yokugula ukuba umntwana phezu mda ukuze kumiselwe isivumelwano esihlanganyelweyo okanye isivumelwano ezithile sengqesho zincedisa iphakheji lwentlalo. iintsuku ezongezelelweyo kulo mzekelo, ahlawulwa kwiNgxowa-mali lwemivuzo.

Ngoku uyazi indlela iintlawulo zenziwe kwi esibhedlele umntwana, kwakunye nabanye ngomahluko kulo mzekelo ongase nazo.