Indlela yoMama weNdlu ukufumana uYobhi kwaye Musa ukuzisola

Ukususela ngamaxesha, umama wendlu uhambela ukuphelelwa lithemba, kwaye umnqweno wokutshintsha ngokutsha ubomi bakhe unganakwenzeka. Ngeli nqanaba, ndifuna ngokwenene ukufumana umsebenzi, ukuqesha umgcini-ndlu, nokuyalela ukutya ekhaya. Ibhinqa "elivuthiweyo" lifuna ukuba limele limelele kuwo wonke umntu kunye nayo yonke into kwaye iqalise ukuzithuthukisa, kodwa ifumane imali eninzi.

Ngoko ufumana njani umsebenzi, kwaye emva kwosuku ungazisoli?

Okokuqala, kwinkqubo yokuphenya awudingi ukuxosha imali eninzi. Kwinqanaba lokuqala, oku akuyimfuneko. Ngaphezu koko, akukhuthazwa ukuba kukhuphisane nabanye.

Ukukhetha uhlobo lomsebenzi, kufuneka wenze isigqibo malunga nokukhetha imisebenzi efanelekileyo. Umsebenzi kufuneka ube mnandi kwaye uhlawulwe ngokulinganisela. Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukubunjwa koqhelwano lomsebenzi wexesha elizayo. Kakade ke, ukufumana imali kubalulekile. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba nangona awukho umvuzo omkhulu, kunye neqela elifanelekileyo lomsebenzi liza kwenza umsebenzi ube luncedo kunye nokuzonwabisa.

Kufuneka uzilungiselele ukuba, kunye nomsebenzi, urhulumente uya kutshintsha kakhulu (kuya kufuneka ukuba usebenze ngexesha, kwaye ushiye ngexesha elifanelekileyo).

Ukuze ungathinteli ubuso eludakeni, kufuneka ufumane ulwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ubhalise, umzekelo, kwiikhosi okanye kwithala leencwadi kunye nokufikelela kwi-intanethi. Le ntokazi kufuneka ikhumbule ukuba kunokwenzeka ukufumana umsebenzi omtsha (ongaqhelekanga) nawuphi na umdala. Kwaye ukuze kwenzeke oku, musa ukuzisola kwaye uchithe ngokwakho, intanda yam. Kunoko ulwazi nolwazi.

Kubalulekile ukubeka izinto eziphambili ngokufanelekileyo nangethuba. Ngokomzekelo, ngaba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umngane wobomi odelelayo kwaye akakholelwa kwimeko yesiqingatha (nokuba yintombi)? Ngaphandle kwesi sihlandlo ukuhlala ngokuhlangeneyo kuya kuvuya? Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhanjiswa kwansuku zonke kwaye kubiza ukutya, xa kukho ixesha elaneleyo lokulungiselela izitya ezimnandi ezenziwe ekhaya.

Namhlanje, ukwenza nantoni na into ongayenza ngokulula kumfazi wendlu okhuseleyo ube ngumfazi wayo, ubonise ukuzimela, amathuba kunye nezakhono.

Kubalulekile ukukhangela imisebenzi ekuthandayo. Musa ithemba "mhlawumbi". Ukuba umgca womsebenzi awuzange ufikelele ngokukhawuleza, ukuba emva kwexeshana isimo sengqondo somsebenzi onjalo asiyi kutshintsha.

Ungathathi ngokukhawuleza izigqibo. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde kakuhle kunye neempawu zomsebenzi kwaye uhlolisise ngokusemandleni akho amandla.