Indlela yokuhlawula ikati ngokuchanekileyo?

Abaninzi bethu ekhaya okanye kwipaki, banayo ikati okanye ikati. Esi silwanyana, nangona sithathwa njengekhaya, kodwa sinomdla onothando. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba kukho ukungaqondi phakathi kwekati kunye nomnikazi wayo. Isilwanyana sakho asiphulaphuli, siyayigcina, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sinobudlova? Emva koko kufuneka uzame ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo yokuphakamisa ikati, ukufumanisa indlela yokuhlawula ikati ngokuchanekileyo, ukuze baqonde ukuba yintoni iphoso labo. Oku kuya kuxutyushwa kule nqaku.

Umzuzu obaluleke kakhulu kwisijeziso sithuba, oko kukuthi, isohlwayo kufuneka silandele ngokukhawuleza emva kokuthunyelwa kwecala, kwaye kungekhona emva kwexesha elide. Ngaphandle koko, ikati ayiqondi ukuba kutheni wahlwaywa. Oku kunokubonwa nguye ngokungabi nabulungisa. Isiphumo kukubuyisela kumnikazi wekati. Uya kucinga ukuba akasamthandi, kwaye uya kuyika.

Indlela yokujezisa ikati ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle kwabo? Ngokomzekelo, ikati idonsa into etafileni. Mbonise ukuba awuyithandi. Unokuphakamisa ilizwi lakho, kodwa akudingeki ukhangulule. Unokumsongela ngomunwe ukubonisa ukungafuni, ukuthetha ngexesha elifanayo: "Awukwazi!" Akunjalo na ukuba unokubetha ikati, ngoko uya kulimaza impilo yakhe. Unokuyikisa ngesilwanyana ngokusebenzisa ezinye izixhobo zokujeziswa. Ingaba ithoyile ekhishini, ukupomfa ngamanzi kwi-atomizer, ukwenza isandi, ukubetha izandla. Unokuqakraza okanye uphononise ekhaleni lekati, abayithandi loo maqhinga.

Indlela yokujezisa iikati ukuba ziphanga ifenitshala okanye iphepha lodonga? Kule meko, kufuneka ufumane enye indlela: ukuthenga ithoyi yokutshiza, amathoyizi afanelekileyo, ukuze ikati ithole umsebenzi xa ungekho ekhaya. Yizisa ikati kwi-kitten, xa ubona ukuba isilwanyana sakho sifuna ukuphazamisa izinto. Okanye ngexesha lokubetha ifenitshala, ufefe ikati ngamanzi, uphonsa incwadi phantsi, isiqhosha seentshixo. Kwakhona, ungathatha ikati nge-scruff entanyeni kunye neengcambu kuye. Xa uthetha naye ngolwimi lwakhe, uya kumxelela ukuba akalungile. Yiloo ndlela umama enza ngayo ikati ebuntwaneni bakhe.

Ukuba isilwanyana sakho sasingadingi indawo engafanelekanga - indlela yokujezisa ikati kule meko? Kodwa apha kufuneka ukhangele isizathu sokuba kwenzeke ntoni. Mhlawumbi indawo "yangasese" ayizange ihlambuluke, okanye ikati ibuyisela into ethile. Okanye mhlawumbi umane ummandla. Kwenzeka, ukuba isilwanyana sifike endlwini. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, unako ukugubha ikati kwindawo eselenziwe ngayo.

Indlela yokujezisa ikati, umnini ngamnye uzimisela. Ngokwemvelo, kukho iindlela ezamkelekileyo, kodwa iikati, njengabantu, zinomlinganisi, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo ziphelile. Khumbula ukuba imfundo yeekati ayikho nje isohlwayo, kodwa ngokukhuthaza. Zama ukunyamezela into oyithandayo, isinyithi, ukutya kunye nezinto ezihamba phambili, uthetha ngakumbi naye. Iikati ziziva kakuhle kakuhle inkosi yazo, iimoya zakhe.

Zama ukujezisa ikati xa akunakunqandwa. Okokuqala zama ukufumana isizathu sokungathobeli kwakhe, umlinde, ubonise ukunyamezela. Yonke into ingaba yinto nje - ikati ayinayo ingqalelo yakho. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, isilwanyana sakho kufuneka sibone kuwe umhlobo wakhe, kungekhona intshaba.