Indlela yokuhlakulela ingqondo kunye nenkumbulo kunanoma yiphi ubudala

Umphathi wanikezela umsebenzi omncinci phakathi kwabanye, kodwa ngaba wakhumbula ngokupheleleyo ngaye? Ukwenza ukuxolelana, ulahlekelwe ngenye idatha, ngenxa yoko kubalwa kwakho ukubala kwiphutha? Kwaye uthini ukukhusela? Ndilibale ... Ndiyasasazeka ngobomi ... Nobomi bemihla ngemihla? I-kettle yamagesi eyancibilika kwisitofu segesi, okanye indlu evulekileyo isisisiqingatha seengxaki. Kunobungozi kakhulu ukuba ungagcini igesi okanye isinyithi. Kunokwenzeka ukulahla yonke into eyenzeka ukuguga okanye ukukhathala, okanye ukucinga nje ngezinto ezincinci xa ikhanda lihlala linengcamango ebalulekileyo. Nendlela yokuhlakulela ingqiqo, ukuba uzalwe njengawo?

Nangona kunjalo, kukho indlela enjalo. Yaye ukuba ukhathele ukuchitha yonke ihafu yesixa ukukhangela izinto zakho, ngoko lixesha lokulifaka. Jonga ngokukhawuleza kwimixholo ethile. Emva koko vala amehlo kwaye umcinge, ngokukhumbula ngokucophelela zonke izinto ezincinci, ukuya kuthi, zijikeleze kunye nezinye izinto. Ukuba imeko iyavuma, chaza le ngxolo ngokuthetha. Umzekelo: incwadana egciniweyo, i-thickness, malunga nama-300 amaphepha. Kwitheyibhile kwakukho neengubo ezimhlophe ezimhlophe eziboshwe ngeepateni ezibomvu zejometri, kwaye kwi-napkin kwakukho i-vase ... "njl njl. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuhlakulela ingqiqo kuya kuba ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe ukutshintsha into ethile kwisimo segumbi lakho. Zama ukuchonga olu tshintsho.

Ngaba unomkhuba wokuzenza nje ukuba uphulaphule umnxibelelwano, ngoxa ngeli xesha ucinga ngento ethile? Cinga ukuba kutheni oku kwenzekayo. Ingqondo yakho engekho inokuthi ibe nezizathu ezintathu: uyazi kwangaphambili oko kuya kutshiwo kwaye utyhafile kwaye ungathandeki; Uphazamiseka ngoluhlobo lwe-interlocutor, ilizwi lakhe, indlela yokubamba okanye isandi esingaxhamli; Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ujabule ngento kwaye ezi ngcamango zizalisa zonke. Indlela yokuhlakulela ingqiqo, ukuba uyintlangano echanekileyo? Zama ukugxila ngokupheleleyo kwisihloko sencoko kwaye uziphazamise, ukuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo kubini kwisithethi nakwisimo sengqondo sakho kwisihloko sencoko. Ngexesha elide, cela imibuzo yokucacisa, ugxininise kwimiba ethile yesihloko engxubusho.

Indlela esebenzayo yokuphuhlisa imemori kunye nengqiqo nakwixesha elidala, umhlala phantsi, uza kwenza idayari yoshishino apho ubhala phantsi zonke izicwangciso zakho kunye neentlanganiso ezicwangcisiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, musa "ukuthathwa" kwiirekhodi. Ukuhlanganiswa, emva kwesiqingatha seyure, ufunde kwakhona, uvale ngokukhawuleza kwaye uzame ukukhumbula ngokulandelelana ngokulandelelana. Ngokuhlwa, qiniseka ukuba uzihlolisise ngokwakho - yintoni olahlekileyo? Ngaphambi kokuba udlule umsebenzi owenziwe okanye uthumele ileta, yifunde kwakhona-mhlawumbi into ekhohliweyo?

Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhohlwa kunye nokungabikho kwengqondo kungabangela umxinzelelo kunye nokungabi nciphiso kokulala okanye ukukhathala. Indlela yokuhlakulela ingqondo kule meko? Zama ukulala ubuncinane kwiiyure ezisixhenxe ukuya kwezi-8 ngosuku. Xa uhlala unomsebenzi emva kweyure, soloko usukuma kwaye wenze umzimba omncinci - uphonsa intloko yakho kwaye uhambe ngokukhawuleza ukuya ngasekunene nakwesobunxele. Oku kuza kuzalisa ingqondo ekhathele ngomoya kwaye ibuyisele emsebenzini. Kukho abantu abanombono obonakalayo ophuculweyo, kodwa kukho abo banombono ophakamileyo wokuva. Ukuba ungowesiqalo sokuqala, bhala phantsi ulwazi olukuzwile ngeendlela zeempawu, kwaye ukuba okwesibini, funda umbhalo ngokuvakalayo.

Abantwana abancinci basasazekayo, kuba abanakuhlula okubalulekileyo ukusuka kwinqanaba elinesibini, kwaye ke kunzima ukuba bagxininise into ebalulekileyo kwaye baphazamiseke kwimifanekiso okanye emisindo. Indlela yokuphuhlisa ingqalelo yomntwana ukuze angenayo ubunzima ekufundeni esikolweni? Okokuqala, mnike ukuqala koqeqesho lwangaphakathi, ukuze umntwana, alalele ulwazi, angagxininisa okungenani imizuzu eyi-15 kuyo. Oku kunokwenziwa kwifom yomdlalo. Okokuqala kufuneka uchaze kwi-crumb yintoni ekuqwalaselwe ngayo. Emva koko, ukuba inkunzi ivele inomxholo weentyatyambo, yenza isabelo: ndifumane umbala obomvu. Makhe akhankanye izinto zethunzi elibomvu. Qinisekisa ukumdumisa xa kwenzeka impumelelo. Emva kweminyaka emihlanu ubudala, imidlalo kunye nemidwebo "Fumana ukuhluka kwe-10" ifanelekile.