Indlela yokufundisa umntwana indlela yokubala

Ingane yakho isele ikhulile, kwaye wanquma ukumfundisa ukuba abale, kodwa indlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo awaziyo. Okwangoku, kukho inqwaba yezindlela zophuhliso eziza kukunceda ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba angabalwa kuphela kodwa ukuba abhale. Kwi-intanethi ungaya kwiiklasi ezikhethekileyo kubantwana, okuya kunceda oomama bafumane impendulo kumbuzo wokufundisa umntwana ukuba abale.

Kubalulekile ukuqala ukuzisa umntwana kumanani ngaphambi kokuba afunde ukuthetha. Phrinta iinombolo ezibomvu kumshicileli. Kumele ukuba kube ngumlinganiselo omkhulu ukuze umntwana akhumbule ngokukhawuleza. Abazali mabahlale bebala kunye nosana. Unokuqwalasela iziqhamo, izilwanyana, imithi okanye iintaka. Kungcono ukufunda idijithi enye kancane kancane. Emva koko umntwana uya kukwazi ukukhumbula yonke into ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ngokucophelela. Ezi zifundo ziya kunceda abazali bafumane impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abale.

UGlen Dorman, ososayensi owaziwayo wase-Austrian, wenza uchungechunge lwezifundo kwaye wavelisa indlela yakhe yokufundisa umntwana amanqaku. Wanikeza amakhadi akhethekileyo apho i-akhawunti iboniswe kwiindawo ezibomvu. Kwakhona wadala amakhadi alishumi, apho kwakufundwa khona amathoyizi ngokulandelana nenani labo. UGlen Doman wanceda abantwana benomonakalo wengqondo ukuba bafike kwiqondo elifanayo lokuphuhlisa njengabantwana abaqhelekileyo. Ngoku khawucinge ngolu hlobo luni le nqubo echaphazelekayo ekuphuhliseni abantwana abaqhelekileyo abangenalo pathologies ekuphuhlisweni. Unokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abale. Amakhadi akwaDoman anikezelwa ngemiboniso, enokukhishwa kwikhompyutheni lula kwaye kulula. Kwakhona, ezi ntetho zingathengwa kwisitoreji ekuphuhlisweni kokuqala kwabantwana. Ukongeza kwi-invoyisi, umntwana wakho uya kujonga izakhono zokuqala kwaye uya kukwazi ukufunda ngokupheleleyo ezo nzu lulwazi njengejografi, imbali, ukudweba, inkcubeko, i-etiquette njalonjalo.

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abale? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula. Kufuneka kuphela ukuqonda amanyathelo okuphuhlisa ambalwa kunye nosuku lokujongana nosana.

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unokufunda ngokukhawuleza ukubala, kufuneka usebenze rhoqo nalo. Izifundo zakho akufanele zithathe ngaphezu kwemizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu. Yenza ibe mnandi kunokwenzeka. Lungiselela izibongo ezikhethekileyo kunye nolwimi oluthile oluya kunceda umntwana wakho akhulise intetho efanelekileyo.

Ukuba ufuna ukufumana impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukukhawuleza ukubala, ngoko kufuneka ufunde iindlela ezimbalwa zophuhliso. Sebenzisa eklasini amathoyizi, iziqwenga zee-chess, izinto zokwendalo (amatye, ama-chestnuts, intonga, amaqabunga). Ukubala iintonga kungathengwa kwiiofisi zeofisi. Baya kunceda nje kuphela ukufunda amanqaku, kodwa nokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abeke amanani ejometri kunye nemifanekiso. Zama ukukhulisa umntwana wakho ngokubanzi. Mfundise ukuba afunde, abale, athathe, asebenzise, zonke iintlobo ze-appliqués.

Ukuba unako ukuqonda kakuhle imisebenzi yophuhliso, uya kufumana impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokufundisa umntwana ngokuchanekileyo ukuba ubale. Ingqwalasela nothando lwakho kuya kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ngokukhawuleza kungekhona i-akhawunti kuphela, kodwa ezinye izakhono kufuneka abe nazo ukuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kunye nokwakhiwa.