Indlela yokukhetha ikgs kubantwana

Imfundo eyongezelelweyo kweli lizwe inikezela iikgs kubantwana. Ukususela kumaxesha aseSoviet, kuye kwaba yinto yesiko ukunika umntwana kunoma yiphina isigaba okanye isangqa, ukuze uxakeke ngezoshishino kwaye akayi kuhlambalaza ngokungahambi kakuhle kwisitalato. Kwiminyaka emashumi asithoba ekhulwini elidlulileyo, la maziko awazange afumane ixesha elihle - ootitshala nabaqeqeshi bahamba, izakhiwo zalahleka, ukuzala kwancipha, oko kwakuthetha ukuba kwakungekho namnye onokujamelana nayo.

Namhlanje imeko iphucula kancane. Ngokunika umntwana wakho iindidi ezahlukeneyo kubantwana, unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kufunda into entsha phantsi kolawulo lwabafundisi abanolwazi. Kodwa ukukhethwa kwesifundo esifanelekileyo kumntwana kufuneka kuthethwe ngenyameko. Umzekelo, ukuba unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho uyakuthanda ukudweba, ukukrola, ukwenza isicelo, ungagxininisi ukuba umntwana aye kwiindawo zezemidlalo. Ukuba inkwenkwe ingenakucholwa kwibhola lebhola okanye ithanda ukugijima, ingesabi ngamanzi kwaye ivuyisa ngokukhawuleza kumagagasi, ukhetho kufuneka luqwalaselwe ngokumchaza ngenxa yezifundo eziza kumnceda aphuhlise amandla akhe.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba izangqa zezingane eziyiminyaka emithathu ziyahlukahluka kwezo zinto ezijoliswe kubantwana abasesikolweni abadala kunye nabantwana besikolo. Kule minyaka, izifundo ezithakazelisayo nezibalulekileyo zidweba, imodeli, njengoko zinceda ukwakha izakhono zengqondo, ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Ngoko ngokunenzuzo kwabo, umntwana uya kufunda ukuba ahlule kuphela imibala, kodwa nokuba ubambe ipencil ngokuchanekileyo, ukukhetha i-shades. Imisebenzi enjalo ihlakulela ikhono lokudala lomntwana, ufundise ukucinga ngezinto ezintle.

Xa ukhetha amakhonkco kubantwana, kufuneka uqale ufike nabo kwiinkalo zokuqhubela phambili, apho uza kuqhelana nomsebenzi. Vumela umntwana ngokwakhe azame ukwenza into okanye ukudansa, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba aqonde ukuba kulungile kuye. Emva koko, kudla ukuba kwenzeka ukuba abazali babeke ingcamango yabo kubantwana, baxoshe ukuba bakhethe icandelo elingayi kuzisa uvuyo. Okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, baphoqeleka ukuba bazenze "ngaphantsi kwetonga." Njengomthetho, amabali afanayo akwenzeka xa abantu abadala benza izigqibo kumntwana.

Ama-Mugs kubantwana bavula iingcango zabo kubo bonke abaxhamli kwiziko leenkulisa, izikolo, ukuphuhlisa amaziko abantwana kunye nolutsha, iigyms kunye nebala lezemidlalo. Yiba yidolophana encinane okanye isixeko esinabemi basezigidi, kukho indawo kuyo yonke ilali apho baya kujongana nabantwana.

Ukuba sithetha ngabo bana bantwana abaya kwiqela elilungiselelwe isikolo, okokuba loo mijikelezo apho (nangona ngokukodwa) ukuphuhliswa kweenkqubo ezichasayo zikhethwayo. Lo ngumsebenzi wokwenza umbala, ukubetha, ukudansa, usebenze. Umdlalo uphinde uncede ukwakha ingqalelo ngokuzithandela, kuba zonke iintshukumo zenziwa ngumyalelo, oza kuwuva nokuwaqonda ngexesha.

Ukuqwalasela ingxube yomntwana, iminyaka engama-4 ubudala izalisekile, akusiyo isono ukubonisa ukuba uzama ukuya kwiiklasi kwizemidlalo okanye kwi-gymnastics yobuciko, ukukrazula. Qalisa ukubandakanya kule midlalo ithathwa kule minyaka, xa i-skeleton yabantwana ingagqitywanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye kukho ithuba lokuphuhlisa ukuguquguquka kunye neeplastiki.