Indlela ukufumana isibonelelo zalowo

Nokuqashwa - into ngokwanelisayo ezintsonkothileyo, its not ilula: ukuthatha uxanduva ubomi, ukhuseleko kunye nemfundo umntwana. Ingakumbi usana intsapho lomnye umntu. abantu abaninzi ukuhlangabezana nale ngxaki yaye wazimisela ukusingatha iimbopheleleko ezintsonkothileyo. Oku kungqinwa linani elikhulu lezikolo zokubhoda ezintandane. Noko ke, abo baye kwenziwa ukuba wenze into entle kangaka, awusoze uzisole.

Urhulumente angazishiyi ezi ntsapho yedwa imbandezelo zabo. Zonke nyanga ayanikezelwa izibonelelo ngabalondolozi ngenxa iinkedama kunye nesiqingatha-iinkedama ukucwangcisa iinkqubo ezizodwa exhasayo ukuba negalelo kuphuhliso lwabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze ukwazi ukufumana ezi nzuzo, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana aqeqeshwa kumaziko emfundo. Ukuba ayithanga izenze oku - izibonelelo onelungelo ezingahlawulwanga. Oko kukuthi, ukuba ngaba umkhathaleli, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umntwana uhamba isikolo, ngoko ubhalise kwikholeji okanye iyunivesiti. Nangona akufundayo, imali yesondlo yayo iya kuhlawulwa nyanga zonke ngaphandle naluphi na uhlobo kokulibazisa. Nakuba kunjalo, ukwenzela ukuba ngokusesikweni isicelo ngemali, kufuneka unikeze isiqinisekiso emzimbeni lokukhulisa umntwana ayikho ngenkxaso karhulumente ngokupheleleyo.

Kwimeko nokulindwa, abantu abathatha uxanduva umntwana, kukho uhlobo lomvuzo uhlawulwe ngesantya malunga 3000 engange. Kwakhona ifakiwe kule ncwadana. Nangona le mali yi fanekisela, yaye inceda kancinane. Ngokuqhelekileyo, wena begqulana ngenyameko, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukwenza oku akuthethi ngenxa imali, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu yokuziphatha okanye ngenxa ububanzi umphefumlo wakhe. Ukuba, ke, ingongoma ephambili - imali, yima kwaye musa ukuyenza loo nto! Imali akazange banceda abantu ukuyithanda usana! Wena nje ezonakalisa wena ubomi bakhe!

Ziziphi nabondli iinzuzo ngo-2012? Ngokutsho ezinye inkcukacha, lesibonelelo 10 MCI. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko nganye, le mali ukuze kubalwa imizimba ngabalondolozi ngeendlela ezahlukileyo ngokuxhomekeke meko. Noko ke, ubukhulu of Trustees iingenelo zange iyakhuthaza. Le yi-avareji yomvuzo wenyanga njengesiqhelo. Hi ndlela leyi, i "umvuzo" kuthiwa ngokuba yimfundo yomntwana iya kukhutshelwa umzali ngamnye.

Yintoni efanele ukwenziwa umgcini ukufumana iinzuzo onelungelo? Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuba ngokusemthethweni nokulindwa, ngoko ukufaka onke amaxwebhu ayimfuneko ukuya nokulindwa. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uvule i-akhawunti eyodwa, apho iya ukutshintshela iimali. Kwaye ngoko ke iinkcukacha kufuneka ingxelo kugunyaziwe guardianship.

Nangona kunjalo, i-trustee kufuneka nje ukuthatha unonophelo maxwebhu, kuyimfuneko kwakhona ukudala iimeko ithembisa ukuba ubomi bomntwana. Ezi iintsapho nokuqinisa rhoqo zityelelwe ngootitshala zentlalo, kuba uya kwenziwa esweni rhoqo, kunye nomntwana iza kuhlola ngokwezi hlandlo ukuthetha ngengqondo ukufumana phandle indlela umntwana aziva ekhululekile kwintsapho yakho.

Hi ndlela leyi, wakube ngokusesikweni ukwamkela umntwana, intsapho yakho, ubeke phezu-akhawunti nje kakuhle. Kwaye ukuba wenza into ephosakeleyo, nje ziya kubekwa esweni wena ukulandelela nayiphi na ingxaki. Ayizi akukho mfuneko sengqondo esibi kule hlobo nokungena ebomini bakho yaye onke amalungu osapho lwakho. Ngoko ke urhulumente kubonisa inkxalabo yayo loo mntu uye ngokwakho.

njani tirhisa isibonelelo zalowo? Ngokuqhelekileyo, ootitshala kunye noonontlalontle sisoloko ukunikela ingqalelo njani umntwana wakho unxibe ntoni na imeko iincwadi zakhe, ukuba kukho into efunekayo ukuze inkqubo yemfundo eqhelekileyo. Ukuba akwenjinjalo - uya uthethe yaye mhlawumbi emva izilumkiso eziliqela, awonihlutha ukugada. Ngoko nizithathele ishwangusha ukuba umntwana wakho kwamkelwa zange evinjwa nantoni na ngokwemiqathango yokwenene.

Kunqweneleka ukuba wawubhala kwezinye izangqa. Kubo, kakhulu, kufuneka ukuba ahlawule. Ngokubanzi, uninzi zonke iindlela leyo bathi iingenelo onelungelo, kufuneka achithe phezu komntwana.

Accounting kunye nerhafu olu hlobo imali ayengaseleki. Awukwazi ukuchaza isibonelelo njengomthombo ingeniso.