Indlela ukuba ayeke ukusela ndoda?

Uninzi lwethu abachasene ubunxila. Kodwa ke, nangona oku, kodwa sivumela ukuba bubuthathaka onjalo yaye baqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba akukho nto imbi aya kukwenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bantu Aniyiva na into enye na wonwabe apha kwaye bachithe ixesha labo mahala ngale ndlela. Kodwa kungekudala emva kokuba nangoku bemangalisiwe, "Indlela ukuba ayeke ukusela Indoda" - kuba ekugqibeleni le ndlela yokuphila kuzisa ezininzi iingxaki.

isihlalo yenkathazo

Ngokufuthi abantu abajongene noko kubonakala ukuba ube kufuphi ethandwayo usapho, kunye nomsebenzi ozisa ingeniso elungileyo, kodwa uvuyo isekhona kancinci ngandlel 'ithile. Loo mntu ke uthatha ibhotile ngenjongo sinochulumanco encinane. Ixesha lihamba, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ziingcathu akanakuba konwaba kwaphela. Wathi ethe cwaka cinga ngendlela ukuba ayeke ukusela. Kodwa urhulumente azilinganise yena ndamcaphukisa bakhe mood embi. Kakade ke, isiphelo akusoloko efanayo. Asiyiyo yonke ekugqibeleni babe otywala ezingapheliyo. Ezininzi ukubamba ubomi bam bonke, okoko nje ukuba impilo yabo. Noko ke, aba bantu baye balahlekelwa ukukwazi banandiphe nje ubomi kwaye andazi ukuba njani izinto emva kwakhona. Logama nje sivumela ukuba basele nangaliphi na ixesha, siza kuba endleleni.

Kutheni na, ndithi "No"?

Abaninzi kuthi nakanye wacinga ukuba angenza ntoni ukusela okulungileyo, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, qhubeka ukusela utywala isihlandlo nangaphandle. Le meko iye neengcaciso ezininzi. Isimo sengqondo esihle etywaleni abaninzi kuthi, kwakusekho umntwana. Asizange ukuqonda, kodwa babona itafile enkulu apho eyenziwa ibhotile enkulu. Emva kokuba kudla yokuya ezininzi iindwendwe, kakuhle enxibe kwaye rhoqo bencumile. Endlwini kukho umoya iholide kunye nesimo elungileyo. Ukuba iziganeko ezinjalo ezinqabileyo endlwini yethu, ukuba ezinxulumene iimvakalelo kunye neebhotile ezintle. amaxesha amaninzi sifunda ngayo utywala kuyingozi kwimpilo yethu ngayo. Kodwa iholide olunye asikwazi ukucinga ngaphandle utywala. Kweli hlabathi namhlanje yiyo eyomeleza ngempumelelo nomfanekiso into yokuba utywala luphawu ubomi obuyimpumelelo. Siyazi ukuba ukunceda njani ithamo yewayini phantsi koxinzelelo, yena nokuba nako ukucoca iimpahla. Kaloku, lo imo elungileyo kunye ubuhlobo kunye abathethi nto! Namhlanje ukukhuthazwa utywala oluqhutywa movie, iingoma kunye neencwadi! Akukho namnye kakuhle yaziwa abantu abanetalente babecinga ukuba ayeke njani ukusela. Eneneni, abaninzi baye bacinga ukuba ifuthe elipheleleyo "unyango utywala". Ukusela, abantu bafuna ukuba ubalekele iqiniso, kuba ngokufuthi ayingqinelani iminqweno yethu. sele abaninzi babanjwa ngokwam yokucinga ukuba silindele ngoLwesihlanu olulandelayo ukulibala ngokukhawuleza. NgoMvulo, abantu kwakhona cinga ukuba ayeke njani ukusela, kodwa ekupheleni kweveki iingcinga ezinjalo shwaka kwakhona. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba abantu abaphumeleleyo esele kudala bamshiya iindondo. Akazange kufuneka ukuba bazichaze ubunyani wakho, kuba mhle. Ekugqibeleni olisela Umntu uyaphelelwa ukwakheka kwalo kwaye uqalisa ukukhangela zonke iintlobo iindlela ukwala utywala. Namhlanje, kukho amayeza iintsomi, ukuba ayeke njani ukusela, kodwa ixesha elininzi abantu abazi nokuba ukunceda. Ngapha koko ke, amaxesha amaninzi babhenela kubo kakhulu emva kwexesha.