Imbeko, ubuchule kunye nentlonipho abadala - abanyanisekileyo esemthethweni

Ukutyhubela imbali, abantu liphuhlise imigangatho ethile yokuziphatha. Noko ke, sonke uphawula ukuba abaninzi kubo ngqo kwaye endaweni yokuziphatha. Umzekelo, ukuhlonipha abazali luboniswa ukuziphatha okunjalo, njengosuku lokuqaphela lwamalungelo abo kunye nendawo ephambili. Ngenxa nootatomkhulu bethu, ooyise noonina, ukuba imali amandla ethu engqondo, yonke imihla thina Usihlube ihlabathi, ziye zakhula ngengozi ukunika izakhono esiyenzayo kwananje yokuziphatha.

Ezi ziintanda kuthi bantu ndimvelisile kuthi ukuhlonipha abantu abadala, ubudala kunye namava amaninzi, iziganeko okanye iimpazamo ubomi, bafunda ukuqaphela ixabiso abantu abasingqongileyo, ezibandakanya amalungu entsapho kuphela, kodwa abamelwane, abahlobo, oogxa, iinkokeli zasekuhlaleni okanye esizweni, abemi beli. Iikhrayitheriya le yokuziphatha kufuneka bathi hayi kuphela ilungelo wendalo yonke mmi welizwe kunyango enobuntu, kodwa zuza izenzo zakhe buqu kunye nobume igunya.

Enye iintlobo eziphambili lokuziphatha ibonisa intlonipho abadala, esibonakaliswa comity. Xa oko luqulathe ntoni? Xa sibhenela ulwimi Endala Slavonic, uyise Russian ngoku, kuye kucace ukuba "Tower" yingcambu ilizwi, nangemihla Kwakudala kwakuthetha "ulwazi". Kungenxa yoko le nto umntu ngentlonelo - nguye oyaziyo imigaqo yokuziphatha kuluntu kunye nexabiso imbeko. Noko ke, kule mihla kuba abaninzi imbeko - oko ngokulandela imigaqo incasa elungileyo, engaquki ukubonisa intlonelo yangaphakathi kubadala, uye usana kunina. Oku yahluke ngokupheleleyo ulwalamano ufanelwe okwenyaniso ngokusekelwe omhle kakhulu.

Akukho uhlobo kangako ezixabisekileyo zokubonisa intlonipho na ukuziphatha ngendlela echubekileyo. Kukukwazi ukulungelelanisa iminqweno zabo kunye neemfuno kunye neemfuno zabanye, ukukwazi ukugcina imida ethile yokuziphatha. Okukhulu ekhuliswe iminyaka kwaye ubangela ukuba ongenantandabuzo ekufumaneni isandi ekunene kwaye iqondo amazwi iimvakalelo zabo kunxibelelwano. Le propati ukususela kwiminyaka yokuqala umntu oqeqeshelwe oomama, oomakhulu kunye oomalumekazi, ngoko ke kusekelwe ukuhlonipha abafazi kunye nonqulo unina.

Ngoncedo lwe yokuziphatha kunye nokungabikho ubuchule, ongayi kuba nako zingafumaneka ngaphandle imfundo yokomoya elide abanomkhitha, izala ukugxeka. Ngelishwa, abanye kukuhlonela njengoko isidima. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba umntu onjalo akukho isiseko ebeka yokomoya kunye nentlonipho axhasayo kumadoda amakhulu, ufanelwe mncinane kunye yonke ehlabathini lonke.

Ngoko ke, ngamnye abaphila ngubani ogqiba kubani yaye yintoni intlonipho, ukwishiba izenzo kunye nezenzo zabanye, ngokusekelwe kwimfundo yabo yokomoya sengqondo jikelele. Abantu bazisa phezulu ngokwemigaqo esesikweni, kwi kukukhangela kakuhle ukuba agxeke yokufumana ngokwakhe, njalo ngaphandle nangembeko, kodwa kude kakhulu kwi kileyo kolu luvo. Ukuhlonipha yabantu - ngoko ukuqaphela ngokunyanisekileyo isimo yayo ephezulu impumelelo. Le yindlela elungileyo, enika ithemba lekamva.