Okuninzi UViktor Gyugo kusithiwa wonke umntu unelungelo ngabalinganiswa ezintathu: indlela apho iyiyo kwabanye abantu, kangangokuba yena neempawu, yaye enye into ngokwenyani. Uvavanyo iimpawu yokuziphatha ngentsulungeko - oko luluvo kunye edidayo. Amaninzi HIV ngokwayo, sisetyenziselwe imeko ethile, zinaso umthunzi hayi kakhulu elungileyo.
Yintoni ingqalelo entle ngokwemigaqo yokuziphatha
Alithandabuzeki elokuba, ezintle iimpawu zabantu: ukunyaniseka, ukuthembeka, ingqibelelo. Indoda enyanisekileyo ayiyi kuthabatha omnye umntu, kungekhona hankering ngenxa ummelwane olungileyo, musa ukuchasana izazela zabo. Ezibonisa akayi kuvumela ukuba benze izinto ezinjalo; ngokuba apho uya kuba neentloni ukuba lilinyelise umntu, ahambe phezu, ekufezekiseni iinjongo ezinqwenelekayo ngenxa lula yabo kunye neenzuzo olugqitha imigaqo kunye neenkolelo. Kodwa ukuthembeka umthetho ukuya ekupheleni ukuba enze umsebenzi wakhe kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani na, musa ukuphosa abadinga uncedo, musa ukukhangela iindlela ezilula. Njengoko ubona, ezintle iimpawu zabantu sibonakala inani ukuzinikela, izithethe kunye neemfuno. Ngoko ke, abantu, swi phezulu imigaqo yokuziphatha, ukuba baphile kusoloko nzima ngaphezu abo kakhulu saxineka ngendlela umthwalo efanayo.
Jonga ihlabathi emangele
Echwayithile, neengcinga ezakhayo, uthando ubomi, ukungafihli, unyamezelwano - iimpawu ngamnye, kakhulu kuqingqo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. acinga HIV uyavuma, kodwa kulindeleke ukuba umsebenzi okhutheleyo. Uyayazi indlela ukufunda kwiimpazamo neempazamo, kodwa musa kuhlala phezu kwabo. Sithabathela ingqalelo ukuba amava elidlulileyo, kodwa njengeminqweno kwixesha elizayo, yaye le iimpawu ezibalulekileyo kakhulu ezintle. Abantu abakwaziyo ukuphumelela ngapha, ukuxhasa, ukuba sithembele loyiso kwi meko kakhulu-mzekelo, wayesoloko ekuvuyela ukubona ecaleni kwakhe. Bona lonwabo, ngokulula, basuke baba imitha yelanga zikhanya imihla engwevu ubenze ithende zabo iimvakalelo ezintle. Emveni kwako konke waphawula ngokuchanekileyo ukuba lokuhle begula kakhulu rhoqo, baphila ixesha elide, khangela okulungileyo, baziva bonwabile ngaphezu whiners angunaphakade ngabakrokri. Ngaphezu koko, ezidweliswe iimpawu ezintle zabantu ukubanceda ukuba sigcine imbono umntwana ecikizekileyo ehlabathini, ukukwazi ukubona kwaye uzive ubuhle nemvisiswano, ukuba bayihloniphe. Yaba umntu bakhanyiselwa ezinjengezo Buddha edume okanye Osho owayephila ngexesha lethu. Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba abantu ubomi bothando kufuneka esoloko yonke ivele kunye uncumo ebusweni bakhe. Hayi, yena uyazi kakuhle zonke iintsilelo ezikhona wethu, nezenzo zalo kunye neengxaki. Kodwa ke, ekubeni realist, i "Homo sapiens" indibanisa ngempumelelo amadlala ngendlela eyakhayo kunye nezenzo yokwenene ukutshintsha ihlabathi. Njengoko ngokunjalo ukunyamezelana, umonde - akukho bengenamdla ezibonisa engakhiyo iimpawu kunye neempawu zabanye abantu, kunye nokukwazi ukuba bahloniphe indlela eyahlukileyo yobomi, inkcubeko kunye nemigangatho yokuziphatha. iimpawu ezintle, uluhlu abunikiweyo, ixesha kuvunyelwa Miklouho- Maclay ukufunda ubomi kunye namasiko New Guinea, ukuba siwasebenzise sixabise, kodwa akazange aye mu.
Zifundise Yourself
Self-ulwazi naluphi na ubuntu oqolileyo iqala ukuzithemba, ukufunda semvelo yawo, ekutshabalaliseni iimpawu ezithile kunye nemfundo esebenzayo zabanye. Indlela ukukwenza oko? Sifunda iincwadi, ukubukela imifanekiso eshukumayo, bukela abantu juxtaposed, ukuhlalutya, bathabatha izigqibo, thelekisa. Ngenxa yokuba ungenza uluhlu Ziziphi iimpawu ezintle ungathanda kukukhulisa wena kwaye ukuba balahle ezimbi. Kwaye ngoko ukusebenza azimiseleyo ngenjongo kumsebenzi umphefumlo wakho, umsebenzi, umsebenzi.
Inkululeko lomoya, uvelwano, ingqibelelo, ingqiqo - ezi kunye nezinye iimpawu ukusinceda nangaliphi na ixesha kwaye nayiphi na ubudala bangalahlekelwa wena, kuhlala abantu. Akhokelela ekhalela uphuhliso ngokomoya nokuphuculwa.