Belly okhulelweyo

Ukukhulelwa nawuphi na umfazi, ngaphandle ngaphandle - linyathelo ibe ubomi obutsha, nto leyo kulindeleke ukuba zihlandlo ezininzi ezintle kwinkampani yomntwana omthandayo. Enye iimpawu ezininzi ezicacileyo of 'umdla "isikhundla - isisu okhulelweyo, apho yonke imihla kuba ngakumbi nangakumbi. "Yaye kutheni oku kuyenzeka, njengoko lukhula lube ezibonakalayo xa" - anomdla uninzi koomama elizayo. Ingakumbi ukuba ukubenza yokuqala, kwaye ukukhulelwa ngakumbi kudala elindelwe.

Ekuqaleni, impendulo ande - nokwanda isisu ubukhulu, ngenxa yokuba lo mntwana ukhula ngaphakathi, kwaye yenzeka okufanayo zonke, ngaphandle kokukhetha. Kodwa asingabo bonke elula kangaka. isisu Pregnant iye ngamnye iimpawu ezininzi apho ingcali na onokumxelela izinto ezininzi ezinomdla. Ukongeza kosana olungekazalwa Esibelekweni unina kuchaphazela ubukhulu bayo wesibeleko ezandisiweyo, fluid , yaye ke, ukutya ezityiwa umfazi.

Njengoko sele kutshiwo ngentla apha, ngethuba lokukhulelwa yokuqala nesisu ixesha elide wenzeka kuba izihlunu oko kwakhona womelele kwaye zange sanyanzeleka ukuba akhululeke ngolu hlobo. Kodwa konke oko kuxhomekeka kwiimpawu komzimba kunye esinazo nonina kakhulu abakhulelweyo, kuba kukho amaxesha xa sele kwiveki 10 waphawula ubukho "puzozhitel". Kwi-avareji tum kuphuma kancinci ixesha elide emva kweeveki ezingama-12 kwindawo 'umdla ", nemizuzu eli-16 kuphela - akunakwenzeka ukuba uqaphele. Apha iqala unkabi abanye, ingakumbi nabo, bevuya, "declassified" imeko yakho. Ngeli xesha, isibeleko na uvalo esiswini Kucacile, kwaye ingadlulanga iveki yonke ngasentla uvuka. Xa umntwana ilungele inkqubo yokunikezelwa, isibeleko ndinalo phantsi.

Kukho kwakhona kusuku, xa isisu ekhulelwe kubonakala phezu ngenyanga yesixhenxe, yesibhozo nkqu lesithoba. Practice ubonisa ukuba isiganeko imangalisayo yindawo kuba, ngoko ke akufunekanga ungothuki xa isisu sakho ngomhla kamva ayikho kodwa ebonakalayo ngokwaneleyo. Ita akuthethi akuthethi ukuba umntwana into ayikwazi ukuba kulungile. Amatyala xa isisu ayikho umkhondo de delivery, ebizwa i "ukukhulelwa ifihliwe."

Amaxesha amaninzi abafazi ochaphazelekayo umvumbo kwi esiswini ngexesha lokukhulelwa. bafuna nje ukuba uqaphele ukuba esi simanga eliqhelekileyo, ngenxa apho akukho mfuneko ukuba angakhathazeki. Le wethafa mdaka, ibekwe embindini esiswini, unyamalale ngaphandle, azafunyanelwa ndawo emva kokubeleka. Kwaye akukho ungenelelo kuba oku ingafuneki. Kukwasebenza kwanjalo kuyo le tum iinwele mnyama.

Enye ukulwenza, ngokufuthi umsebenzi oomama abakhulelweyo Ungakhathazeki - esisu tight ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ngamanye amaxesha kuba nzima kangaka njengelitye. Ukuba oku kwenzeka kule veki yokugqibela meko, kusenokuba kubonisa ukuba kusondele ukuqala umsebenzi. Ukuba, ke, phezu ixesha elifutshane - phezu ithoni isibeleko. Kulo mzekelo kufuneka ngokukhawuleza ubuncothule kusiba krakra, kufuneka nelokuphumla ulale phantsi ngecala lakho. Oko ukuthintela ukwenzeka yesisu lukhuni, kuyimfuneko ukuba phezulu imo embi, umsebenzi luvo, iintshukumo ngequbuliso. Ukuba lexinene esiswini ayilwamkeli kwisithuba iiyure ezintandathu, kufuneka qho engxamisekileyo ukuba bafune uncedo evela kugqirha, kuba isixelela isisongelo olungekazalwa!

Ngenxa yoku kungasentla, sinako ukuzoba kwisigqibo ilandelayo: isisu okhulelweyo angavela nangaliphi na ixesha, okanye aliveli. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye izinto zinceda ukuba "ukubonakala" yayo kunye nexesha imbonakalo. Lo yokwakheka umama okhulelweyo, uhlobo ntetho, ubukhulu umntwana kwaye isantya sokukhula, Nongeniselo ubunzima iyonke kunye ukukhulelwa (okanye hayi).

Enoba kwenzeka ntoni na, nokuba ubukhulu esiswini okhulelweyo, lo mfazi kufuneka aphathe umzimba wakhe kangangoko yokhathalelo kunokwenzeka ingqalelo.