Yintoni ikati eliphupha ngayo?

Yintoni ikati eliphupha ngayo? Lo mbuzo wabuzwa ngokwawo malunga nomntu ngamnye weshumi kwelizwe lethu. Enyanisweni, le nkomo isoloko ihambela amaphupha abantu abemi. Nangona kunjalo, ininzi yabo, ewe, ayikwazi ukuba yintoni le nto ithetha. Siza kuzama ukucacisa olu hlobo lophupha. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela kwangaphambili ukuba kwiingcali ezahlukeneyo zeencwadi zephupha zichaze ngokuhlukileyo olu hlobo lwamaphupha. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba siqwalasele iindlela ezininzi.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubona kwiphupha lakho nayiphi ikati ithetha inhlanhla embi. Yiyo yonke into ebhuphayo incwadi. Ikati elimhlophe kwiphupha libonisa iingxaki zasekhaya. Oku kwimeko ezininzi kubonisa ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntu ulindele ukuxabana noxinzelelo kubuhlobo kunye nezihlobo kunye nezihlobo. Ikati engcolileyo ininzi ngamaphupha abantu abangenanhlanhla emsebenzini wabo. Impumelelo kulolu hlobo lwenkqubo ayiyi kwenzeka kwimeko enjalo. Kubalulekile ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo malunga nento eyenzekayo, kwaye, mhlawumbi, nokuba ulahle abakhethiweyo kunye nabacwangcisiweyo ngeendlela. Ubuncinane, oku yintoni ininzi yeengcali ezazibhala incwadi ebizwa ngokuba yincwadi yokuphupha ithi malunga nayo. Ikati ikubetha, kodwa ungayiphosa okanye uyibulale? Iphupha elinjalo kuthetha ukuba emva kokunciphisa yonke ingxaki kunye nemingcipheko uqhubeka uphumelele kwisiphumo esihle kwaye uzalise oko ufuna. Nangona kunjalo, eli shishini liyakuthatha inani elikhulu lamandla, amandla kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Ngokuphathelele ukuphumelela kweli phepha, inqabileyo yalo iya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kunokuba ufumene konke.

Kutheni uphupha ikati oyitye? Enyanisweni, iphupha elinjalo lifanekisela ubukho kwinqanaba leentshaba eziqhelekileyo, ohlala udibana nazo, kodwa ungasolisi umona wabo. Aba bantu banokuhamba ngokugqithiseleyo kuyo yonke into, ukuze badibanise. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba inje ikati ungayidla ngokulala ebuthongweni bakho, ke izithintelo ziya kunqotshwa, kwaye inzuzo iphela kwicala lakho. Kwixesha elizayo elizayo aba bantu abanokungafuni kakuhle baya kubonisa ngandlela-thile. Unokuqonda ukuba ngubani owakhayo izibilini, kwaye ulahla "abahlobo" abanjalo.

Kutheni uphupha ikati ekwazi ukuluma ephupheni? Unompikiswano omkhulu, ukukhwabanisa nokuxabana nokusingqongileyo. Ngokuphathelele ikati ephilileyo neyagulayo, ejongene nawe ngendlela enokutshatyalaliswa kwaye i-meows rhoqo, oku kuwuphawu olubi. Kungekudala uza kufumana iindaba malunga nomnye wakho othandekayo. Lo mntu ugula kakhulu kwaye ulindele ukufa. Kufuneka ukuba uqaphele, ukuba uyakwazi ukuqhuba le nkati engcolileyo, qiniseka, umhlobo wakho, umzekelo, uza kuphinda abuyele.

Yintoni iphupha lekati edibethayo ngokukhawuleza nangomsindo? Eli phupha liyisilumkiso. Qaphela, ngokuba omnye wabahlobo bakho, okanye kunoko, uyicinga ukuba ukhona, ufuna ukukulimaza kakhulu. Oku kusebenza rhoqo kwishishini, ukusebenza. Nangona kunjalo, ubomi bentsapho busemngciphekweni.

Ukongezelela kukho konke oku, amaninzi amabhinqa ahlala ebuza ukuba yintoni na iphupha liphupha ngalo. Ngoko, ukuba intombazana ibone ikati ephupheni nasensimbi ithathwa njengengxelo ebalulekileyo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, akayi kutsalwa yintando yakhe kwintlekele. Ikati elimhlophe ngexesha elifanayo - iintsapho zengxaki ezixhatshazwayo kunye nokunye.

Kutheni uphupha ikati ehlala kwiingalo zakho? Ukuba uyintombazana, qaphela. Omnye ufuna ukulimaza idumela lakho. Kule meko, njengoko sele kukhankanywe ngasentla, umntu uyayiphawula. Khangela iintshaba kwiindawo ezikufutshane. Kungenzeka nokuba loo mthandayo uyasisebenzisa nje.

Iphupha elihle kakhulu ngekati ngumbono onokubamba isilwanyana sasendle. Ukuba uyakwazi ukwenza kwiphupha, izifiso zakho ziya kuzaliseka kungekudala. Ukongezelela, ngenxa yoko, uya kufumana umhlobo wenene, umphathiswa kunye nomphathi.