Yintoni ekufuneka uyenze ukuze kuzaliseke umnqweno?

Umntu usoloko malunga into amaphupha. Abanye umda unqwenela kukuba ukuya kwi uhambo, ngoxa abanye - babhalise ngempumelelo okanye abanezidanga ukusuka kwiziko, ezinye kubaluleke ngaphezu nje umtshato elungileyo, umntwana, yaye ngokufuthi abantwana bafuna ukuqhuba okanye ice cream, umntu ufuna ukuya nje endaweni yokubonela. Amaphupha zahlukile ngokuxhomekeke umntu, iimeko zokuhlala, iminqweno notyekelo. Indlela abantu abaninzi, abantu ngokufihlakeleyo okanye iingcinga ezininzi kangaka. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ubukhulu kwephupha, ngamnye ochaphazelekayo ngalo mbuzo: "? Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuba ukuzalisekisa umnqweno"

Kukho izithethe ezininzi ukuphunyezwa yamaphupha abo. Umntu onomdla ekudaleni, ecinga ukuba mawuqulunqwe amabinzana yakhe engqondweni like "Akwaba ezulwini komkhulu", ngebenyuswe bemka kwangokuya kwakusasa, lokuvula amehlo akhe, kufuneka ubone kwaye, kananjalo, ukuba sibe umnikazi waso. Ukuba oku akwenzeki, oko Ndikhalaze ukuba akukho awenzayo ngayo ubomi. Ngoko ke, ukuba iphupha akunakwenzeka ngelishwa, oko akuthethi kuthi kuk alinakuzuzwa, kungenjalo into esengqiqweni, kungathatha iqela. Nantsi ke impendulo yombuzo into ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze kuzaliseke umnqweno wokuqala. Ungaze sithandabuze ukuba ngandlel 'engenakwenzeka, ebambekayo, ngokoqobo. Ngesiba kufuneka icace kwaye ibe ngabom. Kaloku, ukuba kude ukuhlela ixesha, xa kufuneka wakuzalisa, kodwa ke akukho mfuneko ukuba bahlale belindele ngaloo mhla, kwaye lonke ixesha lokucinga malunga wokukora uzama ukuzisa ebomini. Akwenzeki ukuba uphuphe ngento nolulahlekisayo, ezifana zakhe ezinde emoyeni, leyo unika iminqweno. Ihlabathi lethu yiminqweno eziphathekayo kunye neengcamango kufanele ukuba ifane.

Ungaze isho iphupha lakhe isimaphambili "hayi", athwala amandla negative. Umzekelo, "Andifuni ukuba buhlungu"; ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba ndiyaqikelela. Kufuneka ube: "Ndifuna ukuba ube sempilweni." laliqulunqwe kakuhle ingcamango - sisiqingatha edabini. Into yesibini ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze kuzaliseke umnqweno - ichaziwe, hayi "anamathela" xa ngokundithuthuzela kuye "kodwa." Ngokomzekelo, Ndifuna imoto, kodwa akukho malungelo, ndifuna ukuba awusebenze, kodwa nani akavumeli. Ukuba unqwenela ephazamisa kunye isimaphambili "kodwa", eli liyithweleyo kwakhona amandla embi kuqala ukususela ekuqaleni kule mpi, yiya esikolweni uqhuba, ukunciphisa umzimba, njl

Kwi amandla ezimbi sizicingele phandle, ugqithele kwiinkalo ezintle olungele ukusebenza, kufuneka ukuba uyenze ukuze kuzaliseke umnqweno. Kuyimfuneko ukuba iphupha ngokusuka entliziyweni. Yonke into eyenzekayo kuthi, ixhomekeke kuthi. Ukuba ufuna into ngenxa yomona, ukubawa okanye self-inzala, asikuko imvakalelo okona kulungileyo ukuba ufuna into ethile. You can, uze ufumane into kweminqweno yakhe, kodwa nokuba uya bakukhonze elide yaye uya kuzisa uvuyo xa kodwa bengazi. Zonke zethu iingcinga yenyama. Ngaba ukhe wacinga ngento, kwaye ngesiquphe kwenzeka phambi kwamehlo akho. Umntu ubiza lo mbandela, apho "khona 'zonke iingcinga zabantu, isithuba esinye yobukrelekrele, umntu - Thixo, umntu - ingqondo cosmic, enye into kuyinyaniso, ukuba uyakwazi ukubeka kunye imikhosi ezintathu: intando, ingqondo ubunyani inkanuko ingqondo ukuba uziva, esazi ukuba phupha sele zezenu, ngoko zimelwe kukuzaliseka kuyo. Le amandla oluvumelanayo linokunikwa ngokuqinisekileyo abhalwe kwi-ofisi bamazulu. Kwaye iya kuba yinyani. Lungisa ilizwi: akukho imbi zibhuda, ukuphupha akuyona into embi. Masithi ukuba izibonelelo unqwenela! Mababe nokuchulumacha, musa ukulibala ukuba yonke loo nto ixhomekeke kuwe.