Wedwa - yintoni na le nto? Meaning, izithethantonye, iifoto

"Le smile iya luyenze konke" - le layini wonke umntu uyazi ukusuka ebuntwaneni, kodwa ngaba fair? Ingaba kusoloko ngoncumo - oku oko kuzisa ukukhanya kunye novuyo. Ngaba kukho ezinye iindlela?

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Umele uqale ngo engundoqo, kodwa eyona nto iphambili apha - ixabiso. Ngoko ke, musa ukulibala ityala ngokungenammiselo, uqhubeke.

Ncuma - it asekelwe intshukumo ebusweni, imilebe, amehlo, ukubonisa isimo ukuhleka, evakalisa imibuliso, kumnandi okanye ukugculelwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, hayi nje kuphela ezo, kodwa ezinye izivamvo. Unkabi iimvakalelo kangangoko kule isixhobo yabantu.

Kucacile ukuba xa sibona umntu ezimnandi kunye ekhathazayo, uncumo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Xa sithetha na umqeshi okanye ophantsi, nokushukuma yethu nzima ukuthelekisa.

Ncuma nje ngokuba ukukhanya, wacinga Little Raccoon, kudala ezibangela umonakalo kunye ikukudandatheka. Ukuncuma Joker okanye ithawula Lecter naziphi na iimvakalelo HIV musa ...

iintlobo unkabi

Ngokwendalo, into yokuqala ethi qatha engqondweni - oko intshukumo yobuso, evakalisa spectrum ezahlukeneyo iimvakalelo zabantu:

• wazola;
• thazeke;
• echwayithileyo;
• lusizi;
• qotho;
• ndini, nengalo;
• ububi;
• elungileyo.

Kumfundi ukuba isichazi ngasinye kufuneka ufake ngengqondo igama elithi "smile" kangangokuba akukho ziphinde zenzeke thina.

Kukho kwakhona ngoncumo professional zaqina iimvakalelo ezithile, siya uluhlu kuphela wobugcisa, yaye uya baqonde umfundi ukuze oko busengozini. Ngoko ke:

• umthengisi;
• i bartender;
• sisi;
• umlungiseleli;
• umlawuli.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, apha kuphela wobugcisa aqaqambe ogama unkabi ziyaphuma ekucingeni phantse ngokuzenzekelayo. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba rhwebo yenza phantse wonke umntu obandakanyekayo kwicandelo kweenkonzo uncumo yabantu. Kwaye nakanjani. Yiyo leyo imithetho yomdlalo.

Izithethantonye

Le yinto isifundo sethu akukho lula ukuba indawo. Ngokuba likhulu ekhulwini amanye ngaye. Kodwa uluhlu lokuqala, ke uthi:

• ukuhleka;
• smile;
• chela;
• Etsho ngoncumo (oku "smile" yesilwanyana).

Zonke ezi ntonye ungumzalwana, ngenxa yokuba kungekho uncumo, akukho uncumo alize okulungileyo, ukunyaniseka, njalo efihliweyo emva kwabo kwezinye subtext, ngokuqhelekileyo embi. Ukuhleka zange uncume, uhleke Ulibengezelele - ezi izidanga ezahlukeneyo yokuthetha ngokweemvakalelo.

Etsho ngoncumo, ukuba ngaba ezingabambi isilwanyana, kakhulu, asikwazi siyakuqwalaselwa nye ngokupheleleyo-enobugcisa. Ngaloo ndlela, sinokugqiba ukuba ntonye ilizwi 'smile "ngolwimi apho, ibe yinyaniso leyo. Uncumo kufuneka ibe ayikho enye indlela!

umahluko National phakathi Russia ne Melika

Anomxholo othi "Columbo" kwi episode "Columbo ukulahlekelwa umonde" ekuqaleni isithi: "Kule lizwe, akukho nto inokwenzeka de umntu othile into akayi kuthengisa." Ngaloo ndlela, ngokukweka waqaphela ukuba baseMerika - abantu Sizibandakanye kurhwebo. Ngoko ke, uncumo ebusweni babo - yinto Njengesiphumo esithe ngqo uphawu lwesizwe.

Unakho, Kakade ke, ukuba zivela le nyaniso ukuba, bathi, ubomi obubhetele, ngoko, kwaye uncumo ebusweni livela kaninzi ngaphezu Russian, kodwa ukuba isalamane ethile isidanga. Iingxaki, nasentshonalanga ngokwaneleyo. Ngoko bagqiba: emsebenzini usoloko uncuma ezalekwe kunye shimmers ebusweni.

In Russian efanayo umntu buqu, lisibekele, kunye wancuma abanyanisekileyo. Liyinyaniso elokuba, siye senqubo sifunde nangokuthobeka. Yintoni ukwenza ntoni? Zizo ezi izinto ... Ukuba ngaba ndincume, kuya kuba nzima ukuba athengise, zombini iinkonzo kunye nempahla.

Ethetha Russian unsmiling ngaphandle nokuba incwadi eyahlukileyo, yena wabhala yakhe Canadian Lyuk Dzhons, yaye ibizwa ngokuba Kutheni eRashiya musa uncuma ( «Kutheni Russian musa uncuma"). Asazi nokuba kukho inguqulelo esemthethweni kwi Russian, kodwa kuya kuba umdla ukujonga thina kweli cala.

Andiyi ufuna umfundi ukuba enze isigqibo sokuba ngcono Russian ngaphezu baseMerika, ngenxa yokuba ndinyaniseke, ngenxa yokuba izikhohlakali zingamoyiki ukuncuma kungekho sizathu, kufuneka isizathu. Akuyomfuneko ukuba bacinga njalo. Ukungabikho okanye ubukho umsebenzi smile ebusweni bakhe - yinto nje inkalo okanye iindleko umsebenzi yesizwe. Khumbula, umzekelo, ukuba uburharha idla abantu imbi acerbic ehlabathini, ezifana uKurt Vonnegut noMarko Tven. Mhlawumbi yokuhlekisa, nje ukuba ubumnyama ndibenza ukukhanya.

Wedwa - ayinguwe nabani ikruqula

Ngezo zinto zonke zamasikizi ukuba azifihle "intshukumo yobuso bakope, imilebe, amehlo, ebonisa indawo i" kubiza abafundi ngakumbi lula ngakumbi uncumo ngenxa nto kungekho nto imbi, kunye nokusetyenziswa imoto.

Kakade ke, akukho mntu ucela ukulibala malunga namandla wethu wesizwe, kodwa iminqophiso ngokuhlonela imbeko NLP ukuba ngaphandle sithi, uze emva koko ngaphakathi. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba umntu uza kuhamba lonke ixesha lunobumnyama, nkqu uvuyo mkhulu emehlweni akhe kubuna luyanyuka jikelele ezifana nemithi ekwindla, kodwa umphefumlo ngukumkani ebusika obungunaphakade. Kulo mzekelo, akukho namnye unomdla, kuba akukho nto ukwamkela naziphi na izibonelelo, nokuba ngokwasengqondweni okanye zorhwebo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukulahlekelwa gqolo.

Iresiphi isebenza, and vice versa: Ukuba umntu uyancuma, ngoko "kodwa izinto ezimbi kangaka namhlanje," yaye ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, kunye nabanye kuya kuba lula. Akwenzeki ukuba kuhlala umntu osoloko limfiliba. Khumbula loo movie George Danelia "Iinyembezi zaye ivuza."

Thina sishiye umfundi kuphela iifoto unkabi ukuba uyabhoreka kwaye buhlungu.