Wedding emva emsithweni; ngcono ekupheleni kuka akakaze

Izibini ezininzi kakhulu isigqibo amalungiselelo umtshato emva kokuba betshatile. Ngamanye amaxesha le mihla ezimbini yahluke kakhulu kwexesha. Abakholwayo badla ukumema iindwendwe ukuba umshado ecaweni, kungekhona kubhaliso yoluntu. Kakade ke, kakuhle, xa umtshato emva kokuba betshatile ithatha indawo enye okanye ngosuku olulandelayo, kodwa akusoloko kusenzeka. On iintsuku ezithile, ibandla akathweswa sithsaba, ngaphandle kwizikhundla nazo kufuneka ukuba ukhe ulinde msitho. Umtshato kufuneka sigqibe, umzekelo, ngokunxulumene ekukhulelweni umtshakazi lowo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu athanda ukungqina izikhokelele eluthandweni lukaThixo, emva kweminyaka emininzi ndayichitha ngokomfuziselo ezibhalisiweyo umtshato wempangelo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba oko kuya kubanceda ukuba babe kunye ngonaphakade. Enyanisweni, ukuba bobabini indoda nomfazi kuya kwiparadesi, apho wayeza kudibana khona. Kwaye esihogweni yonke kuphela, ngoko ke emtshatweni akuyi kunceda. IBhayibhile ithi ezulwini akukho qabane, ngoko atshate emva ngumhlolokazi - hayi imbuka. Ngoko ke umshado ngenxa obu bomi, ngoko abanye kufuneka ekhohlo ukuya ukuthanda kukaThixo.

Sam umshado Intle kakhulu, amaculo ezizodwa ezikhethiweyo ukuba yena, ngubani linentsingiselo enzulu. Umbingeleli isenzo ngasinye imiba lwesithethe. Kwakhona kukho iinkolelo ezininzi ezinxulumene umsitho emsithweni, kodwa ababingeleli Orthodox bayacetyiswa ukuba ahlawule ingqalelo kubo. Eneneni, kweli xesha lethu ayibalulekanga into kangaka ngubani oza kuba yintloko yekhaya (njengoko inxulumene kuninzi ze), izigqibo entsatsheni athathe zombini ze ngokuhambelana nemithetho ecaweni - isono. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukukholelwa uthando lwabo baze basebenze kulwalamano, uthando, andule emva kokuba betshatile kuphela ngakumbi.

Abantu badla ukubuza ukuba abantu abanesono kunye nabafazi inkanuko. Ngokwayo, kulindelekile nobesiqhelo, kwaye kufuneka bazame ukwenza ngesiphoso uthando nomtshato. Nabani na othi sengqondo onoxanduva - abangcolileyo, ukuze makasingelwe phantsi, ngoko musa ukuphulaphula amabali ukwahlukana, kunye babengabavukeli. Kodwa umtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni wesini esahlukileyo kufuneka luthathwe njengongaphantsi. Yinto enye into ukuba inja kunceda inkosi yakhe ezingela, kunye nezinye - ukuba phezu kwetafile eqwengayo izitya ukuba onke. Ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukuba nomtsalane emzimbeni wayeyazi indawo yazo.

ERashiya, umtshato emva kokuba betshatile - ngokuqhelekileyo kuba baqheliswa kuphela emva kokuba igosa ubhaliso emtshatweni. Xa isakramente emsithweni sibini, bebuthelene, baqale ukwakha umzimba owodwa kwaye moyeni mnye. Ngoko umtshato njengoko buhlungu kwaye ezingaqhelekanga, njengoko ukukrazula inyama. Izizathu kuphela okubonakalayo-mtshato - ukukrexeza, kuba iye yatshintsha indoda ayaphula kwiqhina lomtshato.

intsikelelo yabazali kumtshato - isiko ubudala kwaye grand. Akukho mfuneko nkqu Ngemihla yakudala, aselula kwaye atshate nxamnye iminqweno abazali babo, kodwa kulungile ukuba acele inkxaso yabantu ezibalulekileyo ebomini bethu. Indlela ukunika nokufumana intsikelelo? Young aguqe ngamadolo phambi abazali babo, baza babhaptizwa zonke ethubeni, bevakalisa nje amazwi yentsikelelo, emva koko kiss oselula ezandleni zabazali. intsikelelo ayikho into esisigxina yaye siyabophelela, bonke abazali kusikelelwa njengoko ebona kufanelekile. Ezinye nje bathi: "IBhunga nabakuthandayo," ngoxa abanye bafuna ulonwabo abaninzi abantwana, abanye banike iingcebiso, zisekelwe kumava. Akukho azinazo naziphi na imithetho nzima yaye fast, nje cela abazali ukuba yintoni ezingqondweni zabo nento abacinga ukuba zibaluleke kakhulu.

Mhlawumbi utshate iminyaka emininzi, kodwa hayi kodwa watshata. Wedding emva kokuba betshatile kunokwenziwa amalungiselelo oku, yaye emva kweminyaka emininzi. Akuzange kakhulu kwexesha, ingakumbi ekubeni umtshato icawa ebhalisiweyo iyanakanwa kwaye nawuphi na ubawo eqhelekileyo ndingayi kukuxelela ukuba uphila esonweni. Ukuba uthi oku - unako ngokukhuselekileyo ukukhalaza. ingqiqo Social yeCawa Orthodox ngokuqinisekileyo umisela intlonipho ibandla ukuba babhalise imitshato yabo. Noko ke, isithsaba yi amaqabane lula kunye, kuba umtshato wabo ukukhusela amandla ezulu. Ngoko oku nje inkonzo omhle.