Ubomi akusoloko andise njengoko sisazi. ekhaya Perfect nembeleko, abazali abanothando, abantwana abaneziphiwo, umsebenzi olungileyo - kudla ngokuba bonke kuyinto umfanekiso kuphela kwimagazini ecwebezelayo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba uqala ukususela ekuqaleni uyalibhuqa ukuba usapho kukuba iveza into ubuthi lonke ithemba? Ngaba Ukhona kunceda? Nokuba ngubani na oya kuyenza loo nto? kufuneka ibe namandla kangakanani ulawulo likarhulumente, yaye kangakanani - siseko yeemfanelo zezentlalo?
Okokuqala, kufuneka ichaze ingcamango. usapho kakuhle - ukuba akusoloko amahlwempu okanye engaphelelanga. Abantwana bobabini abazali, ubutyebi kuba, kodwa ukuba ubundlobongela emakhaya kunye nokuthotywa ukuba uyise okanye unina onxilileyo okanye uthathe iziyobisi, ukuba nabani na elugcinweni - konke oku kungqina ukuba luvuthuluke obunzulu "iseli yoluntu". iinkedama Street, abangqibi kungacaci kwangoko. Kwaye kuyacaca ukuba intsapho kuphela kukuba iveza mali aba bantwana enyanisweni ukuya izixhobo zabo kwaye ukuzimela ziphile. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba yonke into efihliweyo ngasemva ususelwe ezibonisa? Xa ezibuhlungu zenzeka emva kokuba iingcango yesinyithi uthango ophezulu? Ngapha koko, iinkonzo zentlalo musa ukuthatha unonophelo umntwana kwintsapho: abazali Andiceli ukuba iinzuzo, abantwana ezitratweni akaqhotyoshelwanga ikhatyelwe ngaphandle. Iingxaki osisiqhwala psyche umntu ebomini, ayibonakali xa uqala. Umzekelo, ubunxila kunye, ngakumbi, ukuba likhoboka leziyobisi - kukho ikamva nje kuphela "ehexisayo yoluntu". Oku izifo ezinokufikelela nabani. Kunye nobundlobongela basekhaya akusoloko kwenzeka kuphela ezimdaka.
Ukongeza, ukuba intsapho ngaphambili kukuba iveza akwazi ukubala kokuzibandakanya esebenzayo kweenkonzo zikarhulumente - wayekho inkqubo yonyango elisisinyanzelo butywala, izitishi enzulu-up, uncedo yanikezelwa free - ngoku ezi limited kunokwenzeka. Kwaye kukho imeko ngamazwi: kwinqanaba likarhulumente igqabhuke kukho ihlazo ngamazwe: "Abantwana bethu ukubulala ububi baseMerika!", Yaye ngaphakathi iingxaki zeli lizwe njengoko akakho okanye akukho ukholosile amehlo ezivaliweyo. Amava kwamanye amazwe lubonisa ukuba eliphezulu umgangatho wokuphila akuthethi ukuphepha ezimbi zezifo ezibalulekileyo eluntwini. usapho bachaze abaninzi abadinga inkxaso ngokwasengqondweni kunye noncedo, yaye hayi eziphathekayo. Ngubani kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kuyo, ngubani sizikhathaze bayahlelwa umntwana?
Abantwana abavela kwiintsapho ezihlelelekileyo ekuhlaleni basoloko enkulu iingxaki zengqondo. Bona babe kumgangatho ophezulu ixhala, ukuze barhuqe emva kuphuhliso, bona abanayo nemiqathango yokufumana imfundo esemgangathweni. Okokuqala zonke iingxaki onjalo kwaye kufuneka bagcine abantu abasuka kwindawo ngoko nangoko: abamelwane, izalamane, abasebenzi zesikolo. Banomdla baze non-uphazamiseko - ezi zizathu ngenxa apho usapho kukuba iveza ovinjwa ithuba lokufumana uncedo. Kumazwe amaninzi, oko zisasazwa izibhengezo loluntu ezijoliswe ukukhuselwa kubundlobongela. Ukongeza kwiinkqubo uncedo loluntu, imibutho karhulumente kunye engenzi ngeniso zinika iingcebiso, izindlu, inkxaso yasengqondweni. Umzekelo, lalizihlawula amaziko iingxaki okanye nejelo. usapho kakuhle - akuyongxaki labucala. Abantu abaphethwe ugonyamelo, butywala, ngamakhoboka eziyobisi, usapho, kufuneka ukwazi apho kuye uncedo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kwi ezingqondweni kawonke kuyimfuneko ukwenza ufakelo ukukhusela ababuthathaka. Ngapha koko, abantwana abavela kwiintsapho ezikwimeko kuvame ukulimala cwaka ke musa, ukwethemba yaye ukwabelana iingxaki zabo. Amaziko Crisis zibonelela amaxhoba ikhusi itafile nobundlobongela, ukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki zomthetho ezomthetho. Abantu kufuneka bazi ukuba kule meko zinzima apho kufuneka ucele uncedo.