Umntwana izinja neenzipho zakhe - into omele uyenze?

Kaninzi sinokubona indlela kungekuphela nje usana kodwa umntu omdala, ecinga, okanye othukile ukuhlafuna phezu iinzipho zakhe. Le mbono, nithi, kuba akukho namnye emnandi, ibe yinyaniso leyo. Ngoko nangoko kukho unxulumano ngezandla ezimdaka, loo nto yeza kuba indoda emlonyeni, kunye ezininzi eziphilayo zibe isivumelwano. Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza: "Umntwana izinja neenzipho zakhe - into amakayenze awukwazi Thina uyilumle ukusuka apho wathabatha mkhwa?!?"

It onychophagia ekuthiwa ngokwenzululwazi lo mkhwa iyingozi, kwaye oko kunokukhokelela yezizathu ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo. Okokuqala, oko kungenziwa ilifa. Ukuba ucela ngumzali olungileyo, kusenokuba kuhle ukuba umntwana benza kwa into enye. Ngoko ke ngaphambi kokuba uwuthumele izandla womntwana okanye uzisole, khangela unobangela ebuntwaneni bakhe, aze emva koko abuze lo mbuzo: umntwana iluma neenzipho zakhe - yintoni esinokuyenza na lo mkhwa?

Onychophagia oonobangela kuba baninzi; ngoko ke umntwana basabela njani uxinezeleko, ixhala, uloyiko. Oko kukuthi, ekulweni lo mkhwa kufuneka kuqala ukufumana unobangela kunye kuyo enxulumene. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukujonga ngokusondeleyo kwi umlindo umntwana, ziziphi iimeko ezithile, iqala nomntana iinzipho zakhe. Mhlawumbi kwenzeka xa ujonga eminye iinkqubo on TV - ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukukhusela kwi neziphumo eziyingozi, aliquki TV, xa kukho uhlobo enjalo inkqubo, ngoko achaphazela umntwana.

Ukuba ingxaki yondele, yaye ukulungele ukuba uye kwagqirha kunye umbuzo: "Umntwana izinja neenzipho zakhe, yintoni ntoni?" - zama ukunikela ingqalelo engakumbi kusana, ukuba ukwanga kunye ukuphululwa kuye, thetha naye. Mhlawumbi isizathu ilele ukungoneliseki kwakhe ephakathi inattention yakho. Mhlawumbi ucinga ongazifuniyo, ngenxa yokuba usoloko exakekile yaye musa ukuchitha ixesha elininzi njengoko angathanda ngayo.

Ukuba ubukela umntwana wakho, ukuze uqaphele ukuba buluma neenzipho zakhe kwiimeko apho umntu ingxabano, kwaye ufuna uncedo ukuze ukumelana ndlongo yakhe omninzi uye kude ngokwalo. Kwaye mhlawumbi liqalisa Oluma iinzipho zayo, xa yitile, luvo okanye esoyika into? Enoba kunjalo, musa ukubeka uxinzelelo phezu komntwana, ngokuba wenza oko engaqondanga, hayi ngokukodwa. Kufuneka uncedo ukuze bamelane nomkhwa ombi, yena ngokwakhe akanako ukuyenza loo nto.

Ukuba yonke imigqaliselo kunye nezenzo yakho okanye ukuba ayiphumelelanga yaye umbandela 'umntwana iluma neenzipho zakhe, yintoni ntoni? " - zihlala zivulekile, kunokwenzeka ukuya ingxaki ukusuka kwelinye icala. Zama ukudlala umntwana ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: qala ngokwenza kuye manicure, ukupeyinta yakhe ipateni lezikhonkwane, bonisa indlela igcinwe kakuhle izandla zakho nendlela amabi yayikhangeleka. Mhlawumbi la manyathelo aya kunceda umntwana ngendlela eyahlukileyo ukujonga ezandleni zakhe, yaye ngokuthe ngcembe uyilumle kulo mkhwa.

kakhulu ukuba abantwana. Kodwa kufuneka bejongene abadala ukubuza: "? Mna zabaluma neenzipho zakhe, into emandiyenze" Abadala ukuba athathe amanyathelo ngokwayo. Isenokuba iindawo ezikhethekileyo yokugubungela lezikhonkwane, leyo kungcamla incasa ekrakra kwaye ke ngoko ukuba nizityhafise umnqweno babambelele izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe, kunye nail. Ingaba kulungile ukuba ngqondweni zingaphi iintsholongwane kuni ongayi emlonyeni kwaye kwangoko perehochetsya ukwenza nto, kuba kukho kwakhona mzuzu nasengqondweni lidlala indima.

Noko ke, ukuba, le ndoda likwazile ukulahla mkhwa ugly, angathanda ukuba, ekugqibeleni, ukuze bakhule iinzipho ezintle uze wenze izandla zakho manicured. Yinto elungileyo kakhulu, kuba xa esesandleni likratshi yakhe, akubonakali nkqu meko ingxaki ngendlu, emlonyeni wakhe. Ndingenza ntoni ukuze zikhule iinzipho, entle kunye namandla? Akuyomfuneko ukuba wenze umsebenzi omninzi.

Okokuqala - kuyimfuneko ukuseka isondlo esaneleyo, okwesibini - ukwenza ibhafu ngetyuwa, oli yemifuno (ngcono ukuba amafutha omnquma), tipakani wangena isikhonkwane vit.E. Good ekukhuleni isikhonkwane ephulule iminwe, oko kuya abomeleze kwi kwegazi kunye nokukhuthaza ukukhula isikhonkwane. Kukho kwakhona luncedo eyenzelwe ngokukodwa iinzipho care izixhobo, ngoku athotyiweyo ngokwaneleyo. Ngenxa yoko, umvuzo ngokuthatha ixesha lokuba babe iinzipho olomeleleyo ezintle.