Umakoti nkutsulo. Liphikisa nemisebenzi

Wedding - lusuku ibalulekileyo kwaye esindilisekileyo ubomi ukutshata, yaye zonke iintlanga sele kudala igcinwe izithethe namasiko anxulumene unanamhla. Ngoko eRashiya, omnye izithethe ezininzi ethandwayo ixabiso umtshakazi lo. Ukhuphiswano alungiselela umfazi intombi elizayo, zahlukahlukene kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba intlawulelo kufuneka zaqina ngamandla, imizuzu 20-30 - kuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Nazi ezinye iithenda yoqobo ukwenzela ixabiso umtshakazi.

Ukhuphiswano ne lomyeni dummy. Xa abaselula iza ukuba licuthe endlwini, ngoko kukho omnye "umtshakazi" yaye uthi weza ngenxa ngomtshakazi. intombi apha kubizwa ngokuba ukusombulula lo mbuzo wawuphi na kweso ezimbini wokwenene. Qala ukuba babolekisane ukubuza imibuzo ephathelele kumxholo ingxaki yabo. Imibuzo kufuneka ube kancinane - 5-8. umtshakazi Fake e iimpendulo kufuneka ephosakeleyo, kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha ukufumana phandle njengoko kulindelekile. Umzekelo: "a esinqeni umtshakazi", "75", "ephosakeleyo, 68", "ngoko ndiyazi ukuba 68, ndifuna nje ukuba bazi ukuba ndiyamthanda kakhulu lakhe nawuphi na umthamo esinqeni." Okanye "kangakanani na uyazi?", "Unyaka", "ngokungachanekanga 3", "3 Kambe, kodwa ixesha ozithandayo lam iimpukane ngokukhawuleza ukuze nje andinalo ixesha kukuqonda oko." Emva kokuba yonke imiba umyeni "fake" lidane isusiwe, kwaye asathe gqolo ukubeka ixabiso umtshakazi, iimbambano kuba nje eqala ngayo.

Inguquko enkulu Uvavanyo "Fumana isiponji ayithandayo." zenja lip ezibekwe kuphela kuxwebhu emhlophe, kunye iphowusta imvumi edumileyo okanye weqonga. Kuba nganye umyeni ngumfuziselo ogama ngokungachanekanga kufuneka ahlawule intlawulelo (nemivuzo imizekelo ebhalwe ngayo apha ngasezantsi). Eyona iphambili apha kukuba phakathi liyayishicilela nomakoti iziponji apho. Xa indoda elizayo kuya kuba kucacile, ingqina ithi wacaphuka: "Nenza ntoni ububhanxa apha? Beningazi na ukuba umtshakazi asikwazanga kiss enye indoda? Hlawula intlawulelo nesiqhwala phantsi umnqwazi! "

Sweet abone ubukhulu. Ukusika iribhoni elingana ukukhula lomtshakazi, kunye nabanye bambalwa elide mfutshane, ngoko umyeni uyamenywa ukuba ukukhetha ilungelo, kuba impendulo nganye okubi, umele 'bathenge' ilungelo ukuzama elilandelayo. Endaweni ngentsontelo Ukukhula kulinganiswa yi ubungakanani beenyawo, impumlo, izandla, esinqeni njalo njalo.

Unobangela kunjalo emtshatweni wakhe. Kwinyathelo zonke ukubeka isizathu (kuba ukubala, umama, abahlobo wacebisa, umsebenzi kaSathana, ezilahlekileyo amakhadi, njl) Into yokuba asilunganga kakhulu. Umsebenzi umkhwenyana ukuya mntanam, kodwa inyathelo yothiwani kuza unobangela kuyo - kwaye oko kuyinyaniso. "Kukuphuhlisa" yale khuphiswano ukuba ubungqina (isihlobo ke somyeni) kufuneka baqashele kumvusa ezingalweni zakhe.

Xa na ixabiso umtshakazi lo, iithenda kufuneka ezahlukeneyo, oko kukuthi mzuzu, zibetha ingqongqo, iingoma, ukucinga, kufuna ukubonakalisa amandla ngokukhawuleza, iimpendulo kumaqhina ukuba intlawulelo umdla nezohlukeneyo, kwaye umyeni waba ithuba lokuphumla umthambo.

iinketho lokuthenga ukuba umyeni:

- Kakade ke, njengeyona ndlela ithandwa ukuba imali, kodwa hayi kakhulu ukuze bonakalise ibhajethi elizayo yentsapho, kuyimfuneko ukuba iinguqulelo enye le ngentlawulelo, njengoko enjalo, ingasetyenziswa ngu: itshokolethi, kakhulu, champagne ... okanye, kungenjalo, xa intombi bacinge ixabiso umtshakazi, imilo, wobeko BEE ukuba sikulungisele ezimbalwa ikhadi-izithembiso ngumyeni wakhe elizayo. Yaye yonke impazamo ekuphenduleni umyeni kufuneka ukutsala omnye ukuba bakhethe ukusuka. Kwi amakhadi, ungakwazi ukubhala: "Kuya ngenyanga ukuhlamba izitya," "thenga inoboya kunyaka wokuqala wobomi", "Mna ndiya kuzisa ikofu ebhedini ezimbini iiCawe mkrozweni mnye," "Ndiza kubhala namhlanje umbongo ayithandayo," "kunyaka wokuqala somtshato kunye lokuphumla umda "...

Eyona nto ephambili ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo: nini na ke inkululeko lomtshakazi; ngokuba zokhuphiswano umyeni kufuneka ibe ubuchule bakhe kunye, kwiimeko ezigabadeleyo, ukuba akwazi kusoloko kuba nemiphumo emihle.