Technique "ileli" kuphuhliswa VG EShure. Oku kusetyenziswa iisayikholojisti nabazali ukuchonga amanqanaba ukuzithemba lomntwana. Le nqubo ilula kakhulu. Ukuze sibe nokumiliselwa ayifuni ukulungiselela ende nokwenza yodederhu, akukho mfuneko yokuthenga izinto ezikhethekileyo. Kwaye unyango uthatha ixesha elide. Oku kwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa. Nangona kukho ezinye ubuqili ukuba kufuneka bazazi kwaye olusabelayo. izinto isivuseleli yale nkqubo ngumzekelo xitepisi degrees 7. Kunokuba ukuzoba kakhulu ngokuzimeleyo, njengoko ayichaphazeli iziphumo.
Technique "ileli" lisetyenziswa kubantwana bakwa kokuya esikolweni nokuba ubudala ngexesha esikolweni. Ngoko ke, ukucaciswa abakubudala ezahlukeneyo iziphumo ziya kwahluka. Oko akalingani ingqalelo data efana lokugqibela lubonise abafundi abakwisikolo sabantwana.
Technique "ileli" abafundi kunawe umahluko zimbini zilandelayo. Okokuqala, lo myalelo olunentsingiselo ngakumbi nezichanekileyo, yaye ngoko ke kunzima ngakumbi. Umntwana uyaxelelwa ukuba kwinqwanqwa emazantsi kakhulu zicwangciswe kakhulu ububi, bengabangevayo, abangenazigqibo, bubugwala kunye guys yobuyatha, kodwa inyathelo phezulu kakhulu kukho abantwana babe nokulunga, bawathobele, ekrelekrele, uhlobo, Yomelela, ukhaliphe kunye nzima. Ukuba uphakamile inyathelo, ngcono umntwana. Kwinyathelo 4 abantwana hayi embi kwaye ayilunganga. umsebenzi wakhe - ukubeka phezu inyathelo, leyo ifana nayiphi na namhlanje. Sixelele ukuba kutheni ucinga njalo. Emva koko mbuze iingcaciso abonisa indlela ongathanda ukuba. Khankanya apho abazali, ootitshala ndibeke kuyo. Okwesibini - utoliko iziphumo. abafundi abancinci kufutshane self-eyaneleyo kunye nokungoneli ukuzithemba eliphezulu iza kuba ngekhomyutha kuphela kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga. Isizathu sokuba eli ligatya msebenzi ukungaqondi lwemiyalelo elula. Inokubangela ukuba indawo umntwana ngokwayo phezu kwinqwanqwa eliphakathi.
Technique "somthamo" kuba eyodwa iya kuba imiyalelo kancinci lula ngakumbi. Kwaye ngokwaneleyo eqolo ukuzithemba umntwana ziya kuqwalaselwa eqhelekileyo.
Isizathu sokuba lokufunyaniswa ngokwaneleyo anomoya self-intando umntwana akazange athandabuze ukuba bazibeka kwinqwanqwa eliphezulu kakhulu kuzo zonke ezahlukeneyo, echaza ukhetho izimvo omdala. Ukuba umntwana ukuxelela ngayo iintsilelo zabo, kodwa izizathu zabo kuthathwa ukuba uzimele kuye, lo ukuzithemba zabaxwa nje.
Kuyinto olwaneleyo, ukuba umntwana uzibeka phezu amanyathelo 5 no-6, echaza izenzo zabo. Ukuhlolwa abadala baya kuthi, ngokoluvo umntwana, ngokufanayo okanye obusezantsi kancinci.
Sizenza ngokwawo phezu inyathelo emazantsi eli ligatya ingcaciso okanye Ngokubhekiselele uluvo othile - yinto sisibonakaliso phantsi ukuzithemba kwi umntwana.
Nayiphi na isiphumo singesiso kakhulu kwaye ayikho njalo. Umntwana ekhula, kwaye hlabathi iyatshintsha. Khumbula, bonke fixable. Enoba umntwana wakho ukuzithemba okusemandleni akho ukuyitshintsha. Technique "ileli" - yeyona ndlela ilula kwaye elula ukuba ube phezu ziqaphile.