Ukuqeqesha umntwana wakho Gender

Ihlabathi lethu yangoku mihla - yinto eguqukayo nabanamandla. Yena lisibeka imithetho yayo kunye nemimiselo, ubeka kuqala. Kuluntu kuvela jikelele utshintsho zentlalo, ezingezizo zethu kuya kukhokelela ekuphazanyisweni okanye ngokupheleleyo ukutshatyalaliswa iingcinga yesiqhelo neyayanyaniswa ukuziphatha nje oliduna okanye kuphela njengebhinqa.

Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ubudlelwane ngokwesini yentando yesininzi kwaye oko kuye kwakhokelela kwaye iyaqhubeka kungakhokelela feminization kwenxenye babantu,-ebizwa ngokuba omuzhestvleniyu abafazi. Ngoku phantse phantsi cussing kwaye ukutshaya nesiqingatha wamhle yabantu, abafazi abaninzi abanezikhundla eziphambili kunye nezikhundla eluntwini babantu, phantse kwimisebenzi ongekhoyo kunye nezikhundla, leyo ukujongana kuphela ngumfazi, okanye ngolunye uhlobo, kuphela umntu.

Lo mbuzo iingcali abanomdla kakhulu. Ngapha koko, enyanisweni kukho "usaba" imida phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, kwaye oku nefuthe elibi kulwalamano lwentsapho impilo yesizwe xa sisonke. Izazinzulu benza lo mba ngokusondeleyo, emva koko kwagqitywa ukuqalisa elithi "isini" entsha, leyo kwisi IsiNgesi lithetha "sex".

Gender amvelisele abantwana - ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba umzali ngamnye. Kujongwe kuphela ukunceda umntwana ukuqonda yena njengommeli besini esithile, ngaphandle kokuba usana kufuneka ingqiqo ecacileyo: ". I - umfana / I - intombazana, yaye mna ezithile iindima kwezentlalo, iimpawu kunye nezenzo"

Ngexesha amaxesha Soviet, uqeqesho ngokwesini azithathelwa ngqalelo xa kuphuhliso kwicandelo ngesini akakho, amakhwenkwe namantombazana bafumana imfundo efanayo.

Ekuhambeni kwexesha lethu, isini imfundo yabantwana kokuya esikolweni yaye abantwana besikolo - ngumba efumene ingqalelo kwanda eziguqulweyo kwaye kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ukuba imfundo amantombazana kufuneka yahluke kwimfundo wamakhwenkwe, hayi kuphela isimbo, kodwa malunga nokuqulunqwa kwenqaku izinto zokufundisa. Abazali oyika ibinzana elithi "pedagogy isini" ngokwayo, ke, njengoko sele sibonile, oku akukho dili enkulu.

ootitshala abanamava ezintsha bazama ukwahlula amatakane inkqubo yemfundo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oku, ke, kulungile, ngokuba, njengoko lubonakala inzululwazi, izakhono ezingundoqo kunye nemigaqo yokuziphatha ebekwe umntu besebancinane, yaye kamva ukutshintsha into engqondweni wosana uya kuba kunokuba nzima kwaye maxa wambi nkqu engenakwenzeka.

Mhlawumbi kufuneka ahlale phezu iimpawu kweempawu, imigaqo kunye nemiba ephambili kwezemfundo isini umntwana wakho. Masithi nje, ezikolweni yaye intsapho inkwenkwe kufuneka kuvuswa ukuze kamva abe yindoda yokwenene, umnumzana kunye okhuselayo, yaza yavuka intombazana emva ezimbalwa yajika yaba ngumama, kunye bekhaya.

imfundo Isini - inkqubo onzima ukuba kufuneka ukuzibophelela yexesha elizeleyo yaye isixa omkhulu umzamo ingqalelo. Ukuba unethamsanqa, kwaye enkulisa khona eli candelo, kubalulekile ukuba gqolo ukulandela umgca enye ekhaya. Kungenjalo, engqondweni wosana enokuveliswa impikiswano enjalo ukuba yonke inkqubo yemfundo hamba nje le mali, ngenxa igunya kakhulu ukuba isidumbu Nangoku kindergartener kunye nomama usapho kunye notata.

Ekuhambeni kwexesha lethu, oko akujongwa eziguqulweyo akuqhelekanga ezazinemidla kunye nezikolo amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kwizixeko ezikhulu. Kakade ke, oku kubonwa pluses zalo minuses, kodwa uqeqesho ngokwesini yenzelwe ukusombulula ihlabathi wadala isisongelo "depersonalization" ngesini, kuya kuvumela ekukhuliseni nokufundisa la madoda namabhinqa abanalo amaxabiso ekunene.