Kutheni njalo bagxeka ezingqongileyo oomama abaselula?

uluntu lwethu rhoqo liye ibhekisa oomama abaselula. Ngokutsho isifundo yakutshanje, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha abasetyhini kutsha ndizale, kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba abanye amadlala ngenxa bekhulisa abantwana babo.

Ngubani idla ugxeka oomama abaselula

Loo ukuqiniseka ixhaphake kakhulu phakathi kwamalungu osapho. Uphando olutsha lubonisa ukuba 37 ekhulwini ngoomama abatsha baye bagxekwa ngabazali babo, 31% ingxelo ukugxekwa abaseleyo usapho, 36% bathi malunga ukugxekwa phezu inxalenye ngumfazi. Ngokutsho oomama, ngokufuthi alahlwe ngenxa iindlela zabo uqeqesho.

Ezi data afunyenwe kwi uphando web-based kazwelonke, olwenziwe egameni yaBantwana Hospital weYunivesithi yaseMichigan. Xa zizonke, kwathiwa kuyo abafazi 475 abaye abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-5.

Shame kunye nehlazo

Ngokutsho uphando, 61 ekhulwini koomama nabantwana abancinane baye bavuma ukuba neentloni iindlela zemfundo ukuba usebenzise ngaxa ethile. 23 epesenti abantu basetyhini bathi kwafuneka ukuphulaphula ekugxekweni evela kubantu ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu. Ngaphezu koko, ngokufuthi indima "abagxeki" wabonakala intsapho umama oselula, kungekhona abahlobo, esingabaziyo okanye "iingcali" kwi social networks, njengoko umntu angalindela. 12 Kuphela ekhulwini amabhinqa vo ingxelo yokuba kwafuneka anyamezele nokugxekwa luluntu ezinye oomama, lo gama-14 ekhulwini yachaza ukugxeka abahlobo, yaye-8 ekhulwini - ngakwicala oogqirha. Kuphela yi-7% oomama abatsha bathi izenzo zabo yobuzali wagxeka abasebenzisi intanethi.

Ezi ziphumo kungenzeka ibonisa ukuba oomama abaselula bedla ukunxibelelana kunye namalungu osapho, kunokuba kunye trolls online. Kwakhona, iziphumo asenokubonisa ukuba oomama abantwana abaselula sensitive ngakumbi ukugxekwa babo ababathandayo, kuba oko kulindeleke kubo inkxaso, akukho kugwetywa.

70% abasetyhini abaye ebegxekwa wamxelela ukuba abanye akazange ayithande iindlela ingqeqesho, apho iifayile ezisetyenziswa unina abantwana babo. izigqibo zabo ukudla kunye nesondlo agxekwa ngo-52% yamatyala. Kwakhona, 46% abasetyhini bathi abanye wagxeka izigqibo zazo malunga abantwana balala routine. 39 ekhulwini oomama bathi abanye abazange ungathanda isigqibo sabo ukondla usana kunye ibhotile, ungaqhayisa ngantoni, yaye-20 pesenti bathi Bamgweba ngenxa imiba yokhuseleko lwabantwana. Ukongeza,-16% yabaphenduleyo ingxelo ukuba abanye wagxeka isigqibo yokukhathalela abantwana.

Zasabela ugxekwa

oomama Reaction ahlulelwa kwizalamane, abahlobo kunye abasemzini nazo ezahlukeneyo. 60 ekhulwini abasetyhini baqala bafuna ulwazi ngemiba yemfundo, eziye egxekwa, ne-53 pesenti baye bagqiba ekubeni afune ngengcebiso wabantwana. 42% abasetyhini ukugxeka ikhono labo bokunakekela,-37 ekhulwini wathi kuqiniseka mzuzu ethile eyabangela ukuba batshintshe indlela yokuziphatha kwabo. Isiqingatha bonke oomama abaye wagxeka, waqala ukuphepha ukugwebela abantu babo.

56 ekhulwini abasetyhini abasekho bagxeke abanye oomama, emva kokuba waqala ukuba bazisole ngeenxa zonke.

ukukhathazeka kukamama

Ulwazi malunga nemigaqo-nkqubo yezemfundo, ukutya kunye nokhuseleko, oluba umama oselula iingxaki zisenokubonakala zingaphezu, bathi abaphandi ingxelo. ifomu eside kakhulu lwe nexhala koomama yingxaki nje kuphela abasetyhini kodwa kumntwana wakhe. Kuba umama oselula rhoqo nzima namaxhala, kukho izimvo ebonakala omsulwa kuba vula amehlo. Iindaba ezimnandi kukuba umfazi unako yaye kufuneka uqhagamshelane wabantwana kunye nayiphi na imibuzo ephathelele umntwana wakhe. abanikezeli beenkozo zononophelo lwempilo kufuneka sikhuthaze oomama abatsha ukuba uqhagamshelane nabo ukuze bafumane iingcebiso, ukuqinisekisa impilo nokhuseleko usana.