Ufuna ukufumana otshatileyo nosuku lweValentina? Uya kuba nethuba elingcono mtshato

Ungomnye ezo zibini ukuba Ndandikade ndicinga ukuba Valentine i-Day i romantic ngokukhethekileyo? Kusenokwenzeka ukuba bade wacinga ngendlela ukutshata ngaloo mini, okanye khetha omnye umhla obungamampunge inexabiso eyodwa theka ngenxa kwenu? Hayi, kulungile. Kungcono ukuba kude izimemo yamsitho.

Oko izazinzulu kwisifundo esitsha,

Ngokutsho zokusebenza zoqoqosho iphepha entsha esuka University of Melbourne, imitshato, ezibe wadlala kwi nosuku lweValentina okanye neminye imihla ezizodwa, kubandakanywa i-mvume (umzekelo, 01.02.03), kufuneka ukususela nge-18 ukuya ku-36% okuba kuqhawulo-mtshato kunalawo esenzeka ngesandi esiphantsi imini eziqhelekileyo. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba-11% lezibini banikana ngubani izibhambathiso kwi nosuku lweValentina, sele engu yesihlanu sele mtshato. Ngu engama yesithoba sele-21% of ngababini ezinjalo ziyahluka bengonwabanga.

Ngokufanayo, izibini bavakalisa uthando lwabo engunaphakade phambi kwamangqina ngomhla ezifana 12.12.12, akanako kubizwa ngokuba umfuziselo ngumnqophiso ongunaphakade. kweminyaka emihlanu emva kokuba le olubaluleke-10% kubo bawe. Emva kweminyaka 9 sele-19% umtshato.

Ngenxa yokuba lo mhla "ekhethekileyo" liwa ezintlanu nemitshato ezininzi, ngeliphandle kukho inani elikhulu mtshato. Nangona le Ingqikelelo inokubonakala eyinqaba, kodwa unxulumano, Kakade ke, akukho nto. Akumangalisi ke, esi sifundo lokuqala hlobo yayo ehlabathini.

Ngokwahlukileyo koko, 8% kuphela izibini angenileyo umtshato ngosuku oluqhelekileyo, diverge emva kweminyaka emihlanu. Ngomhla wesithoba engama-16% yazo imitshato isilela.

Noko ke, uphando lujolise kuphela phezu Dutch, ngoko nokuba kukho unxulumano phakathi kwezi mihla ezizodwa bawonakalisile iphupha zothando, mhlawumbi oko kuphela kubo. Kunjalo, uhlalutyo iqela izazinzulu kukuvavanya poslesvadebnoy namabali ngababini ngaphezu kwesigidi esinye, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuba kwenzeka ukonakala data.

Ingaba kukho unxibelelwano imbangela

Kakade ke, ukuhlanganisa akuthethi ubudlelwane unobangela nefuthe, ukuba wena akunguye neenkolelo, kuyabonakala ukuba lo mhla lulodwa limfiliba. Ezi ziphumo ze izazinzulu ukuba kakhulu ngenxa yokuba kutheni izibini ukhethe ukuba umtshato le mihla.

Abantu Ufuna ukuhlela kumtshato umhla ekhethekileyo kungenzeka ngakumbi ukutshata kwangethuba, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele babe nabantwana. umtshato Previous okanye ukukhulelwa ukwenza ukwandisa amathuba mtshato, njengoko uphando lubonise.

Kuye kwafunyaniswa ukuba izibini batshatayo ngomhla okhethekileyo, ezifanayo ngaphantsi ngokwemigaqo imfundo kunye nobudala babo, ngaphezu kwabo enza umfela ngeentsuku eziqhelekileyo. Umahluko omkhulu kwi imfundo kunye nobudala babo, njengoko umthetho, naye uya kuba negalelo mtshato.

Ngaba kukuchitha ingozi?

Ngoko ke, ukuba akufuni ukuba abantwana ngaphambi komtshato, nobabini wazalelwa kule minyaka ilishumi enye, kwaye babe kumgangatho ofanayo wemfundo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba konke kulungile, nokuba udlala umtshato kwi nosuku lweValentina. Ekugqibeleni, ababhali isifundo uqaphele ukuba ubuhlobo bakho womelele ngakumbi, kunqabile ukuba ukhathazeke kwakhona ngomhla lomtshato.

Izibini batshatayo komhla wesiqhelo, ukuze ngakumbi ziphenjelelwa iimpawu nolwalamano lwabo kanye ukuhambelana ngaphezu kwabo ezenza kube iintsuku ezikhethekileyo.

Ezinye izinto ezichaphazela amathuba mtshato

Khumbula ukuba kukho nezinye izinto ezininzi echaphazela indlela umtshato okanye hayi. umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwengeniso, ukunqongophala komshado, prohibitively umsitho ebiza womtshato, okanye ezincinane kakhulu, kwaye umtshato ngokukhawuleza emva kokudibana kwandisa amathuba okuba ukuba ube kunye nawe unako 'de ukufa na inxaxheba. "