Ubudlelwane phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi

Musa ukuthi, kwaye amanenekazi 'eliqina', asikazi ukuba ukuthatha abafana!

Ngenye imini, wadibana kunye nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni, sathetha nesihloko otshisayo. Isihloko ngxoxo yethu, hayi, hayi, hayi amadoda njengesiqhelo (nangona ngaphandle kweendleko, akukho namnye isifundo obhinqileyo), kunye nabafazi kunye nabafazi, ngokucacileyo abadala kunathi. Eli nenekazi - ubudala efanayo oomama bethu okanye ukuzibiza ladies "eliqina".

Ngoko ke, umhlobo wam wayeyixhalabele nzulu lo mbuzo: "Kutheni abantu bakhetha amantombazana aselula kwaye mhle, abadala? Abo bafazi zilungele umama wabo?! "Yintoni imfihlelo kwaye ingaba kukho ezibanjwa onjalo ulwalamano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi?

Xa sithatha umzekelo umhlobo wam, kunye nabanye abahlobo hayi kuphela, kodwa, ke kunzima ukuba bafune amadoda siqinisekile wo- kwakha ukutshata, nokuba akukho mfihlakalo, kwaye kakhulu nje. Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho nto yenzekayo, kodwa xa kuvela ukuba iveki e kakhulu. Kodwa ke, ukuba uthatha abahlobo abaninzi oomama bethu, baya wammonela kule ndawo! La manenekazi ngaphandle kobunzima kunye nomzamo kunokubeka iinyawo zabo phantse umntu omdala, uthi inyaniso, yaye intsha! Ngaphezu koko, abafazi zahluke ngokupheleleyo zahluke enye kwenye imo yezentlalo, isikhundla eziphathekayo, njengoko kulisiko labathile ukwenjenjalo, kunye nabantwana abancinci kakhulu. ... Kodwa asizidini nabani na, yaye akukho namnye kubo usele ngaphandle komntu ngenyanga ngaphezu kokuba, Ngokungafaniyo uthando lwam, esekhona awukwazi ukufumana umntu onesidima, akakho ukukhula, kuba azonakalanga, kuhle, mhlawumbi okona kubaluleke kakhulu, akukho ngemali kakuhle kakhulu!

Kungenzeka ukuba ngokunxulumene yabo amadoda, ukuze indlela yabo ngamnye kumntu ngamnye. Ngapha koko, amadoda - abantu abadala "abantwana", kwaye bonke abantwana ezahlukeneyo babo, elowo "umntwana" ukufumana indlela yabo ezizodwa, apho ukuhlawula ingqalelo ngaphezulu apho abanikela uncedo, ngokufuthi batshintshe kwindawo yokuqala ukufunda ukwethemba. Ngapha koko, musa ndithi, yaye la madoda iqhotyoshelwe kakhulu oomama babo, ngoko bafuna ukuba iqabane ezinye emithanjeni kamama, inkxaso umzali. Mhlawumbi, oku akwanelanga ukuba amantombazana aselula, ngoku ke ngoko yaba yokuzingca nokuzibamba-wendele ukuba ilityalwe kakhulu nje ukuba indoda ayikho into hayi "imali inkomo"! Waye ngaphezu kwabo bonke umntu, naye neemvakalelo kunye neemfuno ukuba ezinesiqalelo ufuna ukuba azive ukuba uyifuna ngokwenene! Apha ke ukuba umfazi omnye kakhulu, emva edulusele amava abanzi yaye ngubani na oyaziyo into ofuna abantu. Yiyo loo nto, yaye akukho nzima ukuze aphumelele nawuphi na umntu na ubudala. Ngoko ke, musa ukuthetha, kunye namava - yinto enkulu! Ngayo, asibi ilumkile, ezinomdla kakhulu, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo singafumana into ngaphandle apho asikwazi siphila kulo Umhlaba ... amadoda zethu! Ngoko funda, abantu abaselula!