Siza kuqinisekisa ukulungela kwabantwana ezikolweni: nokuba alinde iminyaka ukuya ku-7?

Iimbambano phakathi kwabo bakholelwa ukuba umntwana kubhetele ukuba anike isikolo eneminyaka eli-6 ubudala, yaye abo unoluvo lokuba kubhetele ukulinda de 7 obungunaphakade. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba abazali ungaziva uzive ukuba umntwana wabo abawuthandayo ixesha ukufumana ihlabathi elimangalisayo le esikolweni, kunye lonke uvuyo kunye neengxaki zawo. Mhlawumbi kungcono ukuba ulinde ixesha elide? Zininzi izinto ezinefuthe ukukulungela kwabantwana esikolweni.

ukulungela Psychological, ngokwasemoyeni kunye nezentlalo esikolweni

Kwindawo yokuqala, Kakade, kukho izinto le ebizwa ngokuba "uphuhliso lwentlalo". Kuthetha ukuthini? Zesikolo ngokwenene walungisa itakane lowo umbono othile, nolwazi malunga ihlabathi ngeenxa zonke kuye, unako ukukhumbula, ukunika inkcazo ukuthelekisa. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana sele kakuhle phantsi kwaye bayakwazi ukucacisa iingcinga zabo. Eyona ibalulekileyo uyakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabo.

Emotional ukulungela isikolo luqinisekiswa kakhulu isakhono ziqhelisela benza kwezinye izinto ukuba umntwana akakho umdla kakhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, libhekisela ukukwazi ukuqonda intsingiselo 'kuyimfuneko ".

ukulungela Socio-ngokunxibelelana esikolweni kuxhomekeke zombini uyakwazi ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga babo, ukuseka uqhagamshelwano nokwakha ubudlelwane, kunye yayo ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nabantu abadala (ukwenza ngaphandle yobuntu, ukuqonda igunya abadala).

Kwaye ekugqibeleni, enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ezibonakalisa ukukulungela kwabantwana esikolweni yi ... inkanuko umntwana ukuba aye.

uvavanyo Mini J. Cheypi

Ukuze ubone ukuba ngaba isikolo sikulungele ukuba usana lwakho, ungasebenzisa i mini-test, eziveliswe ngengqondo American G. umntwana. Cheypi. Nantsi ke imibuzo esisiseko ngaye.

Amava osisiseko umntwana

• umntwana kufuneka kube nomdla;
• kufuneka ufunde iincwadi oko ubuncinane ezimbalwa;
• ubuncinane kanye umntwana kufuneka tyelela imyuziyam, zoo okanye kwithala leencwadi;
• kufuneka atyelele rhoqo umntwana iindawo zoluntu: ofisi post, iivenkile, iibhanki, njl

ukukhula ngokomzimba

• umntwana kufuneka abe naziphi na iingxaki kukuva;
• kubalulekile ukuba phambi kokuba isikolo zonke iingxaki umbono kunokwenzeka sele zichongiwe (xa kukho imfuneko - amanqaku ebhaliweyo);
• umntwana abe nako ngokwakhe zinyuka, behla ezitepsini, ukudlala ibhola;
• kunqweneleka ukuba itakane lula achithe ixesha elithile endaweni enye.

uphuhliso intetho

• umntwana ngokuzithemba ubiza izinto ngeenxa zonke kuye;
• uyakwazi ukuchaza izifundo ngokoqobo aze achaze injongo yabo;
• kuhle kakhulu ukuba umntwana akwazi ukufumanisa imeko zezinto isithuba (ngasentla kwebhedi, phantsi komthi, njl);
• umntwana kufuneka ube amagama elungileyo;
• ukuba kufuneka bakwazi ukwakha ubuncinane ibali kwakudala.

nemvakalelo

• umntwana kufuneka kuhambelane ingcamango ukuya esikolweni kakuhle (njengoko, eneneni, kwaye ihlabathi);
• kulula ukutshintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi;
• ukulungela zengqondo kwabantwana esikolweni ikwaxhomekeke ingaba idlala cwaka (kwaye uyayamkela ukoyiswa) umntwana imidlalo apho kukho elementi wokhuphiswano;
• nosana abazithembileyo ubuchule bakhe.

ekukhuleni kwengqondo

• umntwana ufumana iyantlukwano nokufana phakathi kwezinto;
• uyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi oonobumba be-alfabhethi;
• Kulula ukuba afunde amagama amatsha kunye namanani aboniswe imifanekiso;
• Ungakwazi ukwakha umfanekiso lwendaba;
• kakuhle, xa usana ngawakho amazwi ukuba balibalise kwakhona ibali, ukugcina ngeziganeko zebali.

unxibelelwano

• umntwana ukuqalisa umdlalo sele iqalile;
• Uyayazi indlela ngenyameko ngaphandle kokuphazamisa interlocutor, ndiphulaphuleni;
• bakwazi elindele ithuba lakhe xa kuyimfuneko.

Ukuba ngaba unawo nawaphi na amathandabuzo kwi% amanqaku angaphezu kwama-20 - inokuba mzuzu ngokupheleleyo yokulungela abantwana esikolweni asifumaneki, kwaye kungcono ukuba elinye lo mzuzu. Okanye uqale nzima ukwenza, ukuba abuyise ixesha elilahlekileyo.