Sithandabuze abantwana

Wonke umntu ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuza kwenzeka kuye kwixesha elizayo. Yiloo nto ehlabathini ixhaphake kangaka ezahlukeneyo iintlobo zokuvumisa. Ngalo lonke ixesha kumnandi kwaye eyoyikisayo kancinane, nokuvumisa ukuvumela ukuba aphakamise ikhuselo iimfihlakalo elizayo, ukuba sikholwe okuhle. materialists abaninzi bagxeka ukuvumisa, esithi kuvumisa - nto entle, apho ngokubulawa nikholwe kuphela wamantombazana msinya kakhulu. Noko ke, kangangamawaka eminyaka, abantu ithemba ukuya izangoma ukuzama ukukhangela ikamva ...

Sithandabuze kwi ikamva labantwana - mhlawumbi uhlobo ibalulekileyo kwaye achukumisayo nokuvumisa. To kuvumisa abasetyhini awangeni kunye iphuphume yimincili. Kwilizwe lonke, kukho kwi ukuvumisa bakhe esebenzisa ngazo ukumisela abantu nganye yintoni sex usana uya kuba nekamva, yaye inani labantwana abathe inokuba umfazi. Kukho ithamsanqa amabali, nto leyo eya ukwaneza naziphi abasetyhini kunye namadoda, kodwa kukho abo asebenza kuphela ngexesha lokukhulelwa.

Abantwana bhula kakhulu eyaziwa kakuhle - ukuba sithandabuze ngenaliti okanye pendulum. Esi sithintelo kukuba xa uyazibuza intombazana, kubonisa kuphela abantwana abazalwe, kodwa isisu, kwaye izisu. nazo Amadoda eboniswe abantwana bazalwa kuphela. Ukwenza abantwana ukuvumisa inaliti, kuya kufuneka inaliti (okanye pendulum) kunye ngemisonto emhlophe. Thatha incam msonto lasekunene-lesandla kunye jika ngasekhohlo yesundu up. Izihlandlo ezithathu ukwehlisa inaliti phakathi umnwe nabakhulu, uze uphakamise inaliti esandleni. Inaliti iya kuqalisa uyisele. Ukuba oko kuya ndisuke ngapha nangapha, kuthiwa ukuba umntwana wokuqala wayeza kuba inkwenkwe, yaye ukuba kwisangqa - intombazana. Le nkqubo kufuneka iphindwe izihlandlo eziliqela logama nje inaliti ayisekho kujingajinga phezu ngesandla. Ngaloo ndlela kunokwenzeka ukuba unokuthekelela, kwaye abo bantu sele banabantwana - ngoko inaliti iya kubonisa nabantwana sele azalwe.

Kukho nenye sithandabuze kubantwana ezinxulumene ngesandla sakhe, busekelwe phezu gca. Kwelinye icala lasekhohlo kufuneka ujonge umsantsa ophakathi komgca intliziyo kunye Ucikicane. Kukho imigca ebonisa inani kunye intsimi kwabantwana. Ukuba kukho umgca ecacileyo zinzulu, kubonisa ukuzalwa intombazana, ukuba umgca akuboni olomileyo, ukuba inkwenkwe.

Nceda ukuba bavumisa kubantwana elizayo nga amanzi kunye namatye. Cofa amanzi kwezinye izakhono. Thabatha amatye ezimbalwa uze ubhale kuwo amagama bayindoda nenkazana oyithandayo. Emva koko ukunciphisa la matye emanzini. Emva kwemizuzu 30-40, kufuneka ukususa ngenyameko dwala emanzini ubone ukuba yintoni na iseleyo kwileyibhile. Ukuba ezinye amatye washiya igama, oko kuya kukunceda uqonde besini umntwana olungekazalwa, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba igama lakhe. Ukuba, ke, ngomhla ematyeni akubangakho umgca, kamsinya nje abantwana ngeke.

Kukho nenye sithandabuze kubantwana ngamanzi, kodwa unako bavumisa oko kuphela ebusika. Xa ikomityi yamanzi, ukuthoba ebengumsesane yokuthethathethana, ngoko uyibeke indebe ngobusuku esitratweni. Kanjalo kusasa nithi ngenani dimples kunye amaqhuma phezu kwamanzi ekhenkcezisiweyo uyakwazi ukubona inani labantwana elizayo: amantombazana abangenagama dimples kunye amaqhuma - amakhwenkwe.

Ngexa lokukhulelwa, nkqu usaqala, besini wosana nga inokumiselwa iqhekeza lesonka. Umfazi okhulelweyo kufanele ukuba ayaphule iqhekeza lesonka, walibeka esazulwini eyadini kunye namaphephandaba sibukela, lowo waba ngowokuqala ukuba eze ukutya. Ukuba inja, ukuba inkwenkwe, kwaye ukuba intaka - intombazana.

Umfazi xa athe nomntwana, yena efanelekileyo bengachani yabantwana undershirts baby kuqala. Vests ukubeka phezu kwetafile, yaye ecaleni kulo wabeka amakhandlela ezintathu. Zokukhanya wokuqala, kufuneka athi "egameni loYise, loNyana, loMoya oyiNgcwele," owesibini kufuneka uthethe ibinzana elifanayo ongeze igama elithi "umntwana", kwaye eyesithathu - "girl". Ikhandlela lokuqala kuhluthe ukubonisa besini wosana lowo ayichazwanga emgangathweni, oonyana yomfazi ayisekho.