Okuthile ukutshintsha indlela umlinganiswa

Nangona ubomi ngamanye amaxesha inyanzela abantu ukuba babe krwada, agxeke nobubi, abaninzi kuthi badla aukutshintsha umsebenzi. Ngethamsanqa, le ndoda wahlala nolangazelelo eqaqambileyo: ukuba abe nobubele kwaye aphendule, kwakunye nenjongo kunye ngempumelelo ufuna ukuba phantse wonke. Kulapha ukuba kukho ingxaki enkulu. Indlela aukutshintsha umsebenzi? Kudla inhliziyo yethu size sihlale kuphela zemimoya. Noko ke, xa uzama, unako ukufikelela nemiphumo emihle.

inyathelo elinye

Iingcali ezininzi zithi ukuba lwee- iingcinga iimpawu zethu ezimbi yaye kufuneka uzicombulule - luphawu amaqhinga engalunganga. Okokuqala, kufuneka uthathe umlinganiswa lakho le ndlela. Ewe, kanye. Ngapha koko, sonke abantu, kunye neempawu ezintle nezimbi. Yaye isibakala sokuba kukho zahlukile kakhulu iintlobo sabafaki umntu, kusinceda bavane ngokwakho. Kakade ke, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka afune ukunciphisa ifuthe elibi malunga neenkalo ezithile isimilo sethu ebomini. oku Kuphela kufuneka kwenziwe ngobulumko. Eqonda naziphi na iimpawu abakukhusela siphile, kufuneka ukuchaza ngokweenkcukacha ephepheni, esongeza ukuba iimeko ukuba kubonakaliswa kakhulu apho.

Ngentsasa elandelayo, funda yonke oye esibhaliweyo yonke imihla ukuze ihambelane yomtshangatshangiso oyifunayo. Bukela ngokuhlwa ukuvavanya uloyiso zabo ukoyiswa imini.

inyathelo lesibini

Ngokuqinisekileyo unayo umlinganiswa oyithandayo: ukusuka incwadi, imovie okanye ikhathuni. Kunoko, unawo ngeempawu, leyo uphupha. Emangele ukutshintsha indlela umlinganiswa, cinga hero zakho ozithandayo, kwaye impendulo iya kuza ngokwawo: yi tekelela. Yiba nomfanekiso a knight entle okanye Turgenev intombazana, xa uziva ukuba umgangatho othile ezingalunganga yakho uzama kuwabhuqa isimo wena nabanye. Azibutheli ngenqindi konke ukuthanda kwakhe, inkalipho nonyamezelo; Masithi oku ephambili indima yakho ebomini ... Kwaye ke konke kuya kuphumelela!

amanyathelo amathathu

Phambi kokuba aukutshintsha umsebenzi, kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba wonke umgangatho zabantu unalo newele. Umahluko phakathi kwabo kuphela "nomsa". Umzekelo, ukonqena - yinto umsebenzi nobubi. Umsindo - wothando kunye isakhelo olumnandi engqondweni. Kwaye njalo-njalo. Ngoko ke, ngendlela enye okanye omnye sonke iseti epheleleyo 'abazalwana iwele "ezinjalo, kuphela bambalwa kuthi akwazi ukwenza njani abahlobo kunye nabo, yaye ezinye - hayi. Ngoko xa, umzekelo, nomsindo, ukubala ukuya kwishumi ukuya ngokwam, ecinga njengoko uhamba kwindlela elisetyenziswa ukulinganisela umsindo ukuya okulungileyo kwaye ezolile. Akuyomfuneko ukuba sizibhokoxe umgudu, cinga nje, uphefumlele kakhulu. Yima kancinane, kwaye ukutyhileka omnye iimpawu umlinganiswa zakho ezimbi aya kujika ibe eyakhayo.

Kufuna nokuba nokuphila okukokwam iziphumo nangoko, kuba uhlobo tshintsho, Kakade ke, kunokwenzeka, kodwa hayi kwaoko. Kuphela umbono ocacileyo malunga ngokwenene yintoni ekufuneka wena, ngokunjalo usebenzisa ezahlukeneyo amacebo (hayi nje ngentla, kodwa, nabo), uya kuba nako ukusitshintsha, ukuba ubuncinane kancinci ngcono. Njengoko usazi, xa utshintsha umntu omnye etshintsha ubomi bakhe. Ngoko ke kamsinya nje ekuqaleni, ukuba basebenze ngokwakho!