Ngubani olwabelana ngesini: ngokuthelekisana nabalingqingili

Ubundlobongela besintu luhlala luyinto engabonakaliyo kwaye luphakamisa imibuzo eninzi phakathi kweengcali kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo abazama ukuqonda ukuqhelaniswa kwabo ngokwabo kule nkalo yobukho babo. Uninzi lwabantu luhlala ubomi babo bonke ngaphandle kokuqonda kunye nokwamkela ubulili babo bokwenene. Kodwa oku mhlawumbi iimeko ezinqabileyo, kuba kwixesha lethu lokulunga livumelekile kwaye liyancomeka ukuvakalisa ukukhetha kwabo okungavumelaniyo. Abantu abathandana nabo basini, abantu abathandana nabo - siyazi malunga nantoni na malunga nabo. Kwaye emva kwale mizila, sasiqalile ukulibala ukuba ngubani ongqingiliyo. Nangona, nangona kuqhutyelwa kwenani labantu besini, abantu abathandana nabo kunye nama-panseksuals ehlabathini lonke, abantu abazibonela ngokuba ngabalingani bobulili obufanayo bahlala besininzi.

Ngubani olwabelana ngesondo

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, ukulala ngesondo okanye ukuchaneka yintetho yomntu obunesini, ubuhlobo bothando kunye nokuziphatha okubi kulawulwa kuphela kumalungu esini esahlukileyo. Ngamanye amazwi, bangamadoda nabasetyhini bokuqhelana ngokwesondo, ngokuzikhethela kweso sibini ukudala intsapho, isondo, isondo kunye nobuhlobo bomntu ohlukileyo. Ngubani olwabelana ngesondo ngexesha lethu? Lo ngumntu oqhelekileyo onentsapho (kunye okanye engenabantwana) okanye obani ubudlelwane bokuthandana ngesondo kunye nesifundo sesini esahlukileyo.

I-hetero yesiXhosa: oko kuthetha

Kwabaninzi, ukutyelela i-hetero kuthetha indlela echanekileyo, eyamkelekileyo, engqondweni nangokwenyama yokubonakalisa ubulili. Kukho nexesha elikhethekileyo - i-heterosexism, oku kuthetha ukugwetywa okubukhali kunye nokukhanyela ukubonakaliswa kwecala loluntu lobomi bomntu oluhlukileyo kwifomu ehlukileyo. Ukuqhelaniswa ngokwesondo ngo-hetero-
Yesiko, njengoko kuyisiko ukuyichaza. Nguye lowo, ngokwemiqathango yamaninzi amaninzi, kuthathwa njengesiqhelo kummi woluntu, ngenxa yokuba kusekelwe kwimvelo yokuvelisa, kwaye ingenakufumana uluntu kunye nolwabelana ngesondo, njengokuba kulwalamano lwama-homo-sexism.

Ngubani u-hetero, u-homo kunye nomlingani

Kuye kwaphawulwa ngentla ukuba uhlobo lomntu wesini luyinto engabonakaliyo. Eyaziwa kwaye engapheliyo imeko apho umntu oye wazichazela ngokwakhe ukuba ngumfazi wesibini uya kuguqulwa ngokukhawuleza, ukuba abe ngumlingani okanye umntu wesini. Ngendlela, abantu abathandana nabo ngabantu abanobuchopho, abathandanayo kunye nezocansi banokuqondiswa bobabini kunye nobuso besini esahlukileyo. Oko kukuthi, kuba bantu baqwalaselwa Ukuqhelekileyo ukuba ungene kwisondo (ukulala ngesondo) kunye nolwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nabasetyhini kunye nabasetyhini. Kule meko, ukhetho lwabo alunqunywanga ngobulili lomlingani, kodwa kuphela ngokukhawulelana ngokwesondo kunye nobuthakathaka belo qabane. Ubungqingili, i-homo - abantu abanomdla wokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo, ukukhwabanisa nokuthandana rhoqo kunye namalungu abo ngokwesini. Okokuthi, amadoda (abantu basini) kunye nabasetyhini (abafazi), abazibona njengabalingqingili, bangena kwisini esithandanayo (ngokwesondo), ubudlelwane bomtshato kunye nobudlelwane.