Misandry - na indlela ubulolo

Ngelishwa, le ngxaki iya kuthatha indawo eluntwini mihla. Oku mandundu yi ukuswela ukuqonda yoluntu yabafazi: abanye abantu awagwebe; abanye ukuzisola, ngeliphandle wesithathu kakade. Ngelo xesha, bambalwa abantu bayazi into misandry ukuba thsuphe njani ukuze bajongane nayo. Kubonakala ukuba ngenxa inani lwamabhinqa liyenyuka kunyaka ukuba saxineka kunye ingxaki lwabo kwaye kufuneka babe bengazi ukuba indlela osombulule ngayo. Eli nqaku utyhila intsingiselo esisiseko kweekota unika isikhokelo encinane ukunciphisa ezibonisa indlela.

Umongo ngxaki

Misandry - ayikho nje isimo sengqondo ophambene amadoda ukugweba ngokufanelekileyo phezu kwabo, yaye ukusilela ezingisayo ukuthatha ngesondo olomeleleyo. Yonke into eninzi kakhulu yaye nakakhulu ngakumbi. Misandry - na muzhenenavistnichestvo kuyabonakala, ixhaswa uzothekile ekugqibeleni. Abasetyhini baphethwe le ngxaki, kwaye maxa wambi akakwazi ukuzibamba, babonisa intando yabo.

Muzhenenavistnichestvo nzima ukulawula esi imvakalelo ngokoqobo ukomiwa ngaphakathi livimbela ahlale imbono olwaneleyo nengqondo leyinene. La mabhinqa yonke into enxulumene nomntu ukuba bazibonele ngokwabo ugrogriso okanye ecingelwayo, ngoko ungakhetha ukuba athathe isikhundla ndlongo-ukuzithethelela. Akukho ekuncedeni alungile, misandry - yinto ibuhlungu isimo sengqondo lalidume ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, picture asemdeni kunye nonxunguphalo.

Imvelaphi, okanye Apho kuvela

Kucacile ukuba ugonyamelo kakhulu ezinjalo kufuneka ngezinto zabo ezithile. Kakade ke, wonke umfazi, baya kuba zabo, ngamnye. Nakuba kunjalo, kukho iindlela jikelele ezithi zibe negalelo kwindlela ukusekwa kwale meko esinzima. Okokuqala, oko kukuba iveza, ulwalamano amandla kunye noyise. Ukuba intombazana encinane wakha ukuthotywa phezu inxalenye upopu (okanye ezitshintshwayo lakhe), kuya kuqalisa ukwakha indlela wokhuselo nasengqondweni. Kwaye iya kuboniswa kwimeko engcono ukuba umntwana uza kuqalisa ukuphepha ukunxulumana nabantu besini esahlukileyo. Meleleyo umoya ziqala ukubonisa i ndlongondlongo counter singabakhubekisi abo ngokuncipha.

Omnye wonobangela eqhelekileyo kananjalo ukuba udlwengulo okwenzeka endaweni na ubudala. Kodwa ingakumbi kakhulu xa kusenzeka nabantwana okanye amantombazana aselula - ngoko ke ihlabathi engaphakathi umntu ibhuqiwe ngokupheleleyo ukumelana ngokungenalusini imikhosi, lawuleki. Isizathu sesithathu inokuba amava elibi umtshato okanye ngokuhlalisana nendoda xa hits iqabane lakhe bayijikeleza umda inkululeko yakhe. Kulo meko, lo mfazi uvakalelwa odakumbileyo kangangokuba akukho okunye ukuphuhlisa indlela yalo yokunganyangeki.

Umnqweno abuse

Esinye seziphumo kakhulu kukuba umfazi ufuna ukulawula wonke umntu, ngubani na ecaleni kwakhe. Iziphatha ngokunxulumene mfo entle yokuzingca, kufuna ubutyebi ethile, yaye kwangaxeshanye ubonisa kuye ukungabi iyonke. S Kubalulekile ukubona umntu othobela, emi phambi kwayo, kwaye ngengqiqo izafobe yokoqobo.

Misandry - ntoni na? Ungachaza njengendlela nomnqweno isiqaqa ukulandela izizathu lokuzingca, ukuze uphinde uzibambile kwayo, uphume indima ezingumthwalo kwexhoba obungunaphakade uthathe indawo ephucukileyo.

kwengqondo basabela ukuziphendulela

Ukuze abuyekeze ngandlel 'intlungu yabo, umfazi kunyanzeleke ukuba ukuquka indlela uchuku. Maxa wambi kuzisa self-sentuthumbo kunye notshutshiso. Abanye bakhetha ukuba ukuziphindezela amadoda, ebafaka kwindawo nzima yaye zibonisa engafanelekanga, ukuziphatha ndimbi.

ukuba nawuphi na umfazi ofuna njani ukutshintsha, kufuneka kuqala Azakuhamba ukugqitha kuqhubeko elide yesiqhelo, ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo. Ayikwazi ungangxami apha. Nayiphi na intshukumo ngesiquphe izaliswe iingxaki ezintsha kunye neemeko apho kunzima kakhulu ukufumana phandle.

Indlela yokusombulula ingxaki

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kukho yintswela ukuba nexhala egeza. Akukho mfuneko ukuzama ngandlela zonke ukuba azifihle ngokwabo nabanye ishwangusha. Namhlanje kukho amaziko ezizodwa apho zeetheraphisti abanamava izakunceda ukwenza abahlobo kunye ngokwakho, azuze uzibambile. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba misandry - ayikho nje intliziyo ebuhlungu, efunyenwe inxaxheba kwabantu kunye nomntu wenzakala efuna imbuyekezo enyanzelekileyo. Kungenjalo, lo mfazi uya kuba nako ukwakha usapho, nkqu umntu ukholose wesini esahlukileyo. Okokuqala, ukuba uhlolisise ulwalamano kunye notata wakhe. Mhlawumbi ngoku lixesha lokuba ukumxolela ukuze yonke into.

Le nto na misandry. Eli binzana ehambisana iintlungu, kodwa kufuneka isuswe ukuze akwazi ngokupheleleyo ubomi.