Kutheni sifuna yosuku ngalunye kwezi nkampu?

Rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka umntwana elichithwa elwandle, siya uyithumele kwi kwinkampu zasehlotyeni zabantwana. Sibala amancedo kwiholide onjalo kuba ixesha elide: apha uze uxoxe noontanga, yaye umoya ococekileyo kunye ukutya okunempilo, kodwa okona kubalulekileyo - mode. Nguye ofundisa esemncinane umntu ukuba kufuneka ukupeyinta ixesha sakho kule wotshi kunye Alisekho ixesha lokudlala. Nangona kunjalo, indlela elungelelaniswe ngayo imini kwiinkampu yahluke kakhulu kwi indlela apho umntwana ekhaya. Ngoko ke, ukuze babe naziphi na iingxaki, zama ukuqonda zonke bokuqonda kwaye cinga ngawaphi amanyathelo ekufuneka athathwe.

Order of eminqubeni yoonyana mini, njengoko umthetho, iqala ngentsimbi yesi-8 okanye 9 kusasa. Ixesha kuxhomekeke "ubudala" yeziko zasehlotyeni abantwana, kwakunye nendawo ahlala kuyo. Seminqubeni leyo, owayesebenza ngexesha eSoviet kwaye banxibe isihloko "vulindlela" lidla yokukhulisa abantwana iiyure ezisi-8. Ezibhekele Kwasekwa kwi 90 ye-khulu lokugqibela leminyaka kwaye kwi entsha, suk 'ume kancinci kamva. Emva kwesi siqhelo ibandakanya imithambo kule nkampu. Kwakhona, kwezinye oko kuye kungasiwaso kwezinye ebona kuyimfuneko. Ngoko ke sicebisa ukuba ukufumana phandle kwangaphambili kulo mba kwaye okugqiba ukuba yintoni na kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho.

Emva zonyango abantwana baye kumagumbi abo, ezele ebhedini kwaye azinike up. Emva kweyure, emva kokonyuka zonke iiyunithi ukuya isidlo aze emva koko isidlo kwi abantwana ngexesha free. Njengoko ubona, imisebenzi yesiqhelo yemihla ngemihla ekampini ibonelela ukuba umntwana uvuka kusasa, ngentsimbi ye 11 kusasa kwakufuneka ixesha ukwenza izinto ezininzi, kwaye ke ukuhamba. Ngokutsho bengqondo, oko kukhuthaza uphuhliso self-discipline, nokuba akukho imisebenzi.

Esinye sezizathu eziphambili apho abantwana ezithunyelwa ukuphumla ngokwabo, zezona ulwandle ukufudumala kwelanga esemazantsi. Abazali basoloko belibala yintoni inokuba rhoqo nkampu, nto leyo ekhokelela ukudideka. Ngokomzekelo, usana osetyenziswayo ukuba ehlotyeni kuba usoloko emva kunesiqhelo, ukudlala kwi computer okanye ithunyelwe ngalo naliphi na ixesha elilungele ukuba ukuhamba kunye nabahlobo. Yaye akumangalisi, kunye nethayimthebhile ecacileyo inkqubo, kufuneka kusengaphambili ukuba silungiselele oku kuye. Amanye amagama nezilumkiso ngalo mbandela akayi kuba ngokwaneleyo. Zama ukuba 'baveze' yemihla ngemihla enkampini ekhaya. Phakamisa umntwana wakho kulala kwi-9 ekuseni, kunyanzeleka ukuba wenze le nto okanye loo nto kanye ngexesha elixelwe kwishedyuli.

Kudla ukuze umntwana kuthunyelwe elwandle ayisebenzi. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana aye esikolweni, apho ezahlukeneyo iziganeko lonke imini. Yosuku ngalunye kwinkampu isikolo akukho kwahluka umbuso bamkela izakhiwo impilo zabantwana. Kusoloko kukho umntwana adlale nabanye abafundi abafunda nabo, wonwabe, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - aphinde ukujoyina ingqeqesho. Ngapha koko, ukuba imfundo ephakamileyo kuzo zonke iimpawu okungcono kuyimfuneko ukuze kukwazi ukuqokelela, azise yena ukwenza hayi ukuhlala ngezinto ezingeyomfuneko.