Kutheni umntwana iyalila na ebuthongweni bakhe?

Usana uzayo ehlabathini emva kweenyanga elide ezilithoba isisu ongenamyeni ofudumeleyo nefudumeleyo ngayo. Ngoko ke, kunzima nangoko ukuqhelana isingqisho eqhelekileyo wokuphila abadala. Iintsana musa nje ude ube uyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi imini nobusuku, kodwa bona bedidekile rhoqo. Ukuseta imo eziqhelekileyo, abantwana kufuneka ixesha kunye, Kakade ke, uncedo lwabazali abanothando.

Kodwa kulo mzekelo, akusoloko omama uzolile, kuba abanye abantwana akuthanga ulinde kuba ubusuku nakanye, ngoxa abanye babuya rhoqo; Abanye ukulala cwaka, ngelixa abanye ndincwine. Ngoko kutheni umntwana iyalila elele kwaye kuyingozi ukuba ngaye, zama ukuqonda.

Sibona, bencoma

Iintsana kwasekuqaleni yobomi bakhe ngaphandle unina ixesha elininzi yokulala. Zijongene kuphela (ngaphandle izihlandlo ezimbalwa ebusuku), kukulunywa ukuba adle. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba enye yeendima ezibalulekileyo ebomini usana ukulala esempilweni. Yaba ngeli xesha ikhula aze azuze amandla isiganeko kunokuba nzima kubo - ulwazi olukhulayo lwelizwe.

Phantse bonke oomama senze into yokuba usana lwabo olusandul iyalila e ebuthongweni bakhe, ukuba kwiimvuthuluka ye bubuthongo noko amnye ebantwini. Umdla ukubona indlela ilala - yinto emehlweni echukumisayo kakhulu. Yonke uncumo, zonke grimace yonke imvakalelo yekratshi baziswa umntwana wabo. Bole ukuze ubuso sleeping lwakukhula ibonisa lonke uluhlu iimvakalelo. Kodwa ukuba nam ndamkele kuye uBawo ephupheni lakhe, bekhwaza, ekhala okanye nokugquma, abazali ngoko nangoko baqale ukhathazeke kwaye ucinge umntwana ukuba kukho into engalunganga, kwaye ngokungxamisekileyo kufuneka ziphathwe.

isigaba yomntwana ebuthongweni

Phambi kokuba uqale ukuqonda isizathu sokuba umntwana iyalila ephupheni lakhe, kuyimfuneko ukwazi ukuba yintoni na amanqanaba kwale nkqubo ekhoyo. Phakathi kwazo kukho ezi zilandelayo:

1. Zolani ubuthongo baby obukhulu. yokulala Pipsqueak, ngamanqindi qhiwu, eli elikhangeleka hayi, kodwa izihlunu zakhe ikwimo entle. Esi sigaba ubuthongo kubandakanya imveliso hormone yokukhula.

2. baby REM Active. Mama, ukubukela umntwana wam uyakwazi ukubona ukuba uyambona luvo, phezu kobuso - ngoncumo okanye grimace, amehlo ukuhamba phantsi ezineziciko, iinyawo isingatha amabhungane ukwenza intshukumo melenkie, ukuphefumla kukho ixesha (malunga nekota umzuzu). Xa umama ujonge umntwana wakhe, inokucinga ukuba uza kuvuka aze aqalise ukulila okanye ndikhwaze.

3. baby kancane kuzalwa. I-kid ephupheni. Ngeli xesha ke kungcono ukuba ukuthetha kwaye ukuba kuye ngeengalo zam, kuba benokuvuswa.

4. Gentle bangavuki usana. Enokwenzeka sizinzile kakhulu, ukuhamba kancinane, ukufunda ngenyameko kakhulu bonke abangeenxa zonke kuye. Ukuba umama ucela into ethile, okanye nje esiza ukuthetha, akwazi ukuphendula uncumo lwakhe.

5. baby Awakening Active. Yena ixesha kakhulu kwaye wawucaphukisa, kakhulu ezihambayo iingalo kunye nemilenze. Kubonakala ukuba uza kuvuka. Belala imvuthuluka ezi ziyagungqa kakhulu.

6. nokuvuka baby yimincili. ngelizwi eziNqongopheleyo elikhulu, iyalila. Umama akakwazi ukumbopha ixesha elide. Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli nqanaba ibonakala kuphela kwiiveki zokuqala ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa, yaye emva kweenyanga ezimbini zobomi sana, ezi mpawu shwaka.

Abazali kungcono ukuba ungayingeni indaba kunye nemijikelo ubuthongo of nengane yabo. Musa ukubhidanisa likarhulumente ovusa umntwana bubuthongo REM esebenzayo xa usana uyancuma, ekhala ephupheni lakhe, avule amehlo akhe. Akufunekanga nimthabathe, kuba ngelo xesha kuya kuba nzima ukuba usana yokulala kwakhona. Kubhetele ukuba ukulandela ukuziphatha bakhe; mhlawumbi mixture emva kwethuba kombisa bha iminqweno yabo.

baby abanabantwana

Kodwa ke musa ukwenza nantoni na exhaswa yi ziphumo. Kubhetele ukuba ukujongana ngomoya yintoni ubudlelwane phakathi kwezi nguqu ezingemnandi.

Eneneni, kukho izizathu ezininzi kwaye iingxaki enokuchaphazela ukulala ebeleni, kwanokuba maxa wambi ememeza, oko akuthethi akuthethi ukuba mnandi kangaka.

Njani ukuba kulawula ukuncwina ezinjalo nangayiphi na indlela onxulumene nesibakala sokuba luvo lwe umntwana yaphulwe. Kungenzeka, le nto uyaphupha nosana. Ukuba abazali, nokuba sisilumko amava obomi, uqinisekile ukuba abantwana abanjalo uphuphe into, bayaphazama. Enyanisweni, kwiimvuthuluka nabo amaphupha.

Ngoko ke, lo mntwana iyalila xa ebuthongweni bakhe. izizathu inokuba nomahluko. Omnye kubo ekunokuthiwa kwesisu. Kodwa kamsinya nje le nkwenkwana Chubby akayiyeki ndingaz iimoto, ngoko nangoko uya kulala yoyi. Kwaye umama wam akusekho unexhala.

iinkathazo ezingenakunqandwa zamazinyo

umntwana Month, ukuncwina in ebuthongweni bakhe kuyo (ingakumbi ukuba inkwenkwe) kaninzi. Kule minyaka, nto yenzeka Tots ezininzi. Luzole usana emva ukukhanya uhlikihla esisu kwicala langasekunene, okanye xa umama amnike idile encinane amanzi.

Kuyenzeka ukuba ukulala ebusuku kaThixo aphazanyiswa kwaye grudnichka ngexesha ezikhoyo kuba zisaqala. Umntwana encinane a iyancwina ephupheni nokuncwina inemfesane enkulu. Kwaye ke iphupha kweli xesha kuba mfutshane and kuman '. Ukuya kutsho ubuncinane isiqabu ukusuka kurhulumente kwiimvuthuluka, umama angasebenzisa ntlungu, leyo ziveliswa ngokohlobo Amafutha okanye gel. Kuyimfuneko ukuphatha ngenyameko itakane gum, yaye uya kukwazi ukuphumla.

Ukubanjwa kusetyenziswa ehlabathini ngaphandle

Ukuba umntwana iyalila elele kakhulu ezinqabileyo, abazali musa ukuba nayiphi na inkxalabo. Ngenxa yokuba ezi zandi ingaba sisabele kuphela yokuba umntwana wayethimb ubomi bakhe obutsha sele kwesisu Mama.

Kwiintsana, kwakunye nabantu abadala, kukho izigaba ezibini eziphambili lokuphumla ebusuku: enzulu nzulu. Kwiintsana alawula yesibini, kodwa utshintsho ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya umzimba kodwa kwiimvuthuluka antshwenyileyo nga ikhatshwe yi izandi ezahlukeneyo.

Ukutyelela izihlobo okanye abahlobo

umntwana sele konyaka omnye ubudala. Iyalila e ebuthongweni bakhe, yena ngamathuba athile. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Kubonakala ngathi kwixesha lweentsana sele kudlule, kwaye usana baqhele kancinci ukuya kwindawo yayo. Kodwa ngeli thuba nokugquma yobomi bakhe ngexesha ubusuku ingaba ephilayo reaction nosana ziqhelekile iziganeko wazibonela emini. Umzekelo, ukuba undwendwela usisizalwane inkampani okanye nabahlobo abazali ezinkulu. Konke oku kungenzeka mntwana nje khulu.

"Kukududuzela" kunye nezinye izinto ezibangela ubuthongo noko amnye ebantwini

Kusenokwenzeka kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba usana wabona iphupha embi. Ngokuba kuye, oku lifana ngokungathi abadala ukuthabatheka wakhangela movie eyoyikisayo kakhulu phambi kokuba ulale.

Esinye isizathu - iimeko zemozulu kwi kid lokulala (it kubanda kakhulu okanye ukuvaleka, kakhulu ezomileyo okanye kufumile emoyeni, ivumba).

Kodwa rhoqo bezifo bakholisa ukuba athi encwina ngexesha ubuthongo usana eziqhelekileyo, le nokomzimba njngesiqhelo kwi kwisigaba esebenzayo ubuthongo nosana.

ukuzimela Early nekhaya nempahla

Ukuba abazali baye bagqiba ukuba ixesha lokufundisa usana lwakho ukuba kulala emandlalweni wakhe, esona sizathu siphambili sokuba yokulilelwa kwakhe okanye ukugquma (kumgangatho ngokwasengqondweni) kukungabikho eziliqela koomama. Imvuthuluka nga ungaziva va ukungabikho n'wina omthandayo omnye, iinyembezi zakhe (kwaye ngoko a siyagcuma) uya kubiza umama okanye utata kuye.

Kukho esinye isizathu zengqondo, ngenxa apho umntwana iyalila xa ebuthongweni bakhe. emi-3 - iminyaka xa kubonakala, usana sele "abadala", kodwa ke iphendula imeko entsatsheni. Nayiphi akhwaze, iingxwabangxwaba, okanye okubi, amacwecwe ezaphukileyo kunye ukulwa - oku hayi eyona ndlela kuchaphazela imeko nangokweemvakalelo umntwana.

Amaxesha amaninzi, ukuze ukuqonda unobangela angonwabi ubuthongo baby, kufuneka nje ukubukela kangangethuba elithile emva kokuba. Ngokususa umthombo le ngxaki, abazali umntwana wabo bubuthongo esempilweni kunye nesandi.

Iyalila abadala imvuthuluka

Ngoko ke, umntwana ngonyaka. Iyalila ebuthongweni bakhe umntwana ngxi. Abazali ziqala ukuba ukhathazeke kwakhona. Kwakhona, akudli sizathu sokuba inkxalabo ngolu hlobo.

Umntwana (1 unyaka) iyalila elele ayikho kuthi ngenxa yokuba ukuba buhlungu into okanye into ochaphazelekayo. Ekhula, ngokuthe ngcembe ufunda into entsha, ikhulela ikhaliphe ezintsha ezisisigxina.

Xa abantwana abakule minyaka yobudala ebegqwese wavelisa reflex micturition, ngaphandle kokuba ebusuku ingalawulwa ngokupheleleyo. Le yangasese singanqweneleka, lo sphincter kwi zilungile, yaye umntwana, lo gama xa ulele, ndide ndingakwazi bana phandle nto.

Ngoko ke, kukho meko: umntwana (2) iyalila xa ebuthongweni bakhe. Uye ntlungu, kanye njengoko uyiphendula kwenzeka ntoni emzimbeni wakhe. Ukongeza, iminyaka 2 - oku ke ubudala xa amazinyo lisanyuka. Oku, futhi, unako ngomnye oonobangela kids nokugquma ebusuku, yaye oko kwenzeka ngexesha ukukhula yokugqibela amazinyo (iintsini nangoku nkqu dumbe, nokukhala lwakukhula sele iqalile). Kulo mzekelo, kunye 'ukuzalwa' le yokugqibela kulo izinyo iminyaka yonke nokugquma wayeka.

Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo ekufuneka ungalibali abazali: iikhathuni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, unyaka-emibini abantwana sele kakhulu ngabom eziqala ikhathuni ezahlukeneyo. Abantu abadala kufuneka ugcine umkhondo yonke into eyenzeka kwikhusi, kuba abantu abaninzi amabali ikhathuni mihla budorazhasche kukwazi ukwenza psyche umntwana. Kwaye ebusuku, njengoko umthetho, ezi zinto zagxila (badla omhle kakhulu ukuba usana) yongezwe encwina ekhala.

Kule minyaka abantwana bahlambe ngokuhlwa phambi kokuba lokulala umhluzi buthathaka kwaye ukulandelana lavender. It angabekwa ecaleni kwebhedi, leyo ulele esesi, komqamelo encinane, apho ukhuselo ezi imifuno akuve.

Sizama abantwana babo

Bonke abazali bakhathazeke xa umntwana wabo iyalila xa ebuthongweni bakhe. Ukuze ubusuku abanye umntwana du ngakumbi asimele, ukulibala ukuba ngokuthe ukufundisa kwiimvuthuluka ukuba urhulumente. Ukuqalisa le nkqubo oko kuyimfuneko ukondla - ilungelo ukunika ukutya kule wotshi, kunokuba ngokufunwa. kids Little pretty ngokukhawuleza ukukuqhela kolawulo esiphakanyiswa ngabazali, yaye emva koko baya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba wasebenzisa yokuba imini yahlulwe imini nobusuku.

Musa ukuba ukufundisa umntwana ukuba sinyikimisa elide phambi kokuba lokulala (ingakumbi ubusuku). Nokuba unalo lethuba kakhulu mihla isilili-esitulweni, pipsqueak ngokukhawuleza ukukuqhela ujingi, yaye ngaphandle akuyi kuba nako ukulala kakuhle. Kwaye eyona nto ukufundisa ukuya emkhombeni yabo ukususela ekuzalweni umntwana. Ngoko ke iya kuba isithuba kakhulu ngakumbi zobuqu, kunye nezenzo kakubi abantu abadala akazange aphazamisane.

Ukuba ngokuhlwa ukuba uhambo kunye nomntwana, ukulala ebusuku wakhe uya ekhalipha kwethu kakhulu. Ngaphezu koko, emva umthambo ebantwaneni uvumbulula iphango, kwaye wondleke kwaye ediniwe, ukuba balale ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba awukwazi kuphuma usana lwakho, uyakwazi ukubeka stroller phezu balcony, enxibe kuphela imozulu phambi kokuba esesi.

izenzo eyiyo abazali

Ukuba kwenzeka ukuze umama kunye notata abancinci senze into yokuba umntwana wabo iyancwina ebuthongweni bakhe, kufuneka ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba sifune unobangela wale imeko iimvuthuluka ngexesha xa ulele ebusuku.

Sezifo emva kokuhlola abazali umntwana kufuneka achaze isizathu sokuba ukuziphatha komntwana ivavanywa olu tshintsho. Xa sikhumbula ukuba ukuncwina umntwana kunokunxulunyaniswa ngqo ukuya kwizigulo luvo, isicombululo oluchanekileyo kukutyelela emine.

Indlela ukwakha ingane phupha? mzali

Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba abantwana ubuthongo obungunaphakade ekuqaleni womelele kwaye usempilweni abazali (kwiimeko ezininzi) olwaneleyo ukuze kupheliswe zonke unobangela kunokwenzeka hlobo lulandelayo:

1. Phambi kokuba isimbo kwiimvuthuluka zakho ukulala, ayinike uphumle, zama ukuthatha nomdlalo ekhululekile ngaphezu emini.

2. gumbi apho bekumele ukuba babeke kwiimvuthuluka ubuthongo, kufuneka umoya kakuhle.

3. Ukuze sibe nemvo grudnichka zokhuseleko wadala, kuyimfuneko ukucula kuye lullaby okanye afunde ibali.

Ukongeza asifanele, silibale ngayo kwenye "isixhobo efihlakeleyo", ezifana kufutshane ngumntu omthandayo kumntwana ngamnye - omama. uthando lwakhe kunye nenenkathalo kakhulu nako ukukhusela eziwa lonke uhlobo isiphazamiso ebuthongweni babo.