Izipho uTata lwakhe lokuzalwa: ngezandla zakhe, yaye nayiphi na ubudala

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntwana wakho kakhulu, ungasoloko ukwenza kunye izipho utata lwakhe lokuzalwa ngezandla zakhe. Makhe siqale uluhlu lwe iimbono iimvuthuluka zincinane.

Ngaphambi kweminyaka ubudala

Nokuba xa usana lwakho nje ilele ebhedini nokuphononga zokubhala zabo, ungenza sele wenze izipho upopu lwakhe lokuzalwa ngezandla zakhe. Ikhadi best sipho kuya angabhalwa ipeni okanye imilenze baby. Ukushiya uphawu iphepha nokubanika ukuba yome, ungajika ube intaka, amadoda funny encinane, okanye ngwane. Bhala umnqweno macala kunye nesipho sekulungile.

iminyaka 1-3 ubudala

Kule minyaka, umntwana wakho uyakwazi ukuba kuzo ezinkulu. Uyakwazi sculpt ngodongwe ukuze itanki utata okanye imoto yakhe ayithandayo. Sculpt phezu ephepheni ngaphandle kokwenza umfuziselo-ntathu. Okanye uthathe i eziqhelekileyo ihempe emhlophe kunye bala ipeyinti ngomnwe. Gqiyazana, wabeka izandla neenyawo ushicilela kwi ilaphu elimhlophe. Makabaleke eziqaqambileyo ezintle t-shirt ukuba wena uze unike wokuzalwa Pope zintanda. Mkhuthaze umntwana wakho ukuba anxibe isinxibo omtsha ngoko nangoko, kakhulu abantwana kuyivuyisa.

minyaka 4-6

Kule minyaka, umntwana kuyenzeka phantsi kwesikhokelo lwakho ngokungqongqo ukuba enze naziphi zobugcisa ezilula. Isisombululo gqitha wokuzalwa utata applique ngayo. Shicilela kuxwebhu ephepheni, ezimbini ipateni twatse. Ngesinye uya anamathele iphepha cut okanye ilaphu, kunye nezinye ukusebenzisa njenge ithempleyithi yakhiwe ngqo.

minyaka 7-11

Masithi ngexesha elinye njengoko umntwana ekhula, utata oqolileyo kunye nezipho lwakhe lokuzalwa, ezenziwe ngezandla zakhe. Kule minyaka, kusenokuba kufuneka ubhale sentsomi nokuzoba (pick up) ukuya imizekeliso yakhe. Le ncwadi oluncinane babekho nayiphi sihlandlo, kodwa ukuba ibali liya ezingabambi Pope kwaye uthethe ngayo italente yakhe, minikelo aniyi kuyifumana.

iminyaka 12-15

Ubudala kakhulu kakhulu xa abantwana entloko sokuvalwa ehlabathini zobugcisa computer. Mcele ukuba enze intetho ukuba utata wekhaya. Yongeza nentwana ziimvakalelo, iifoto kunye nomculo. Unakho ukwenza umdlalo "bengachani" ngomzali wakho. Nawuphi na umntu aqonde kungekuphela nje ingqondo kodwa umsebenzi umntwana. Ukongeza, esi sipho ephuhlisa i wizard omncinane. Fundisa ukuba pick up umbala, ufaka ulwazi lisingenise ngendlela engekho semgangathweni. Unga baze bamemeze itshati leetalente kayise.

16 nangaphezulu

Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba tinkering izipho utata lwakhe lokuzalwa ngezandla zakhe omdala asiyonyani. Kodwa ke akunjalo! Gcina e Chad akhuliswa zonke phulo kunokwenzeka ukuba ukukholisa usapho kunye nabahlobo kunye ngoncedo izipho ngesandla-eyenziwe. Xa umgaqo ungasebenzisa nasiphi na inkosi iklasi ngokwengqiqo unyana okanye intombi. Oku kunokuba ikeyiki ekhaya, kwaye umphezulu olukhazimlisiweyo imoto kabawo, kwaye nezimfakamfele ezintle, iindawo eziyelelene isikhafu yakhe - ngokufutshane yonke oyinqwenelayo umphefumlo wakho. Enoba isipho, ukuba yenziwe ngothando, oko akuyi kuba ixabiso. Ngapha koko, oko kuthetha ukuba uye wakhula umntwana ingqalelo kunye nombulelo. Sipho eyenziwe ngesandla sakhe, angabanika ngathi isipho njengento ezimeleyo, kwaye nolwangezo nayiphi na into ethengiweyo (isiqinisekiso okanye kwimvulophu imali).