Indlela yokuqhuba kwintombazana "VKontakte"? 5 iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo zenethiwekhi

Kulo ulutsha lwangoku, unxibelelwano kwi-intanethi luyindlela eqhelekileyo yokumazi umntu omthandayo. Abanye bayangabaza ngalokhu: bathi, enye idilesi yodwa ayinakufumana umfanekiso opheleleyo we "interlocutor." Nangona kunjalo, le mihla inxibelelwano yentlalo (kwaye, ngokukodwa, indawo eyaziwayo "VKontakte") inikeza ithuba lokubika nayiphi na ulwazi: shicilela iifoto, iividiyo, ubhale malunga neengcamango zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho, iintetho ezithandekayo kwiphepha lakho, njl.

Masiqhubekele ukuzisebenzisa. Indlela yokuqhuba kwintombazana "VKontakte"? Abafana abajongene nalo mbandela ngokokuqala ngqa baphelisa enye yeefayile ezilandelayo.

Ikhonkco # 1. Umyalezo wokuqala

Kuyavuma, kuya kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwiingcinga oza kuyenza kwintombazana. Kwakhona ukuba uyafuna ukuqhubeka nokubhala. Ngoko ke, abo bafuna ukwazi ukuqhubela intombazana "VKontakte", okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukushiya imibuzo yomzekelo othi "unjani?", "Wenzani na?", "Yintoni entsha?" Nabanye. Indlela yesibini, engafanele isetyenziswe, kukuqala ukuthetha ngokuncoma. Bambalwa amantombazana abasabela kwiimvakalelo ezifanayo kunye nomhlobo ofanayo "uhle", "undithandile" kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Kwimeko efanelekileyo, uya kubulelwa. Sekuqaleni kumyalezo wokuqala kubalulekile ukuba unomdla kwintombazana oyithandayo, mbonise ukuba unomdla othakazelisayo nomnandi, ongenomdla kuphela ekubonakaleni kwakhe.

Ikhonkco # 2. Ukungahambi kakuhle

Ukucinga ngento yokuba kubhalela intombazana "VKontakte", akufanele uxubushe ngokukhawuleza iingxaki zakho kwiintsuku zokuqala zonxibelelwano. Njengoko ubudlelwane buphuhliswa, kuya kubakho mfuneko, kodwa kungabikho kwinqanaba lokuqala. Xa abantu bengaqhelekanga, othetha ngeentsilelo zakhe kunye nobunzima akabukeka ngathi ngumntu ofuna ukwabelana ngolona lubuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa njengoluhlobo olunzima, olulungiselelwe kuye. Kuyinto engumnandi kakhulu ukuthetha nomntu othembekileyo, onokuzithemba, onwabileyo novuyo!

Ikhonkco # 3. Xoxa ngawe konke kanye

Indlela yokuqhuba kwintombazana "VKontakte? Nangona ufuna ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho afunde ngawe kangangoko kunokwenzeka, akufanele ugijime izinto." Kwaye nangakumbi ukuguqulela isihloko sesincoko, usebenzisa amagama "kodwa mna ...", kodwa mna ... "Ukuze wenze intombazana ingqalelo kuwe, kufuneka uyive ukuba unomdla kuye njengomntu, kubalulekile kuwe okwenzekayo ebomini bakhe, into ayithandayo okanye ayikhohlisiyo, ngoko kuba ngumphulaphuli onombulelo (kumfundi wethu) kwaye ngezikhathi ezithile Buza imibuzo ekhokelayo: Kakade, ukuba intombazana Kodwa ukubuza malunga nento ethile, akufanele uhlale ucebile uze uphendule i-monosyllabically - kubalulekile ukuba awazi ukuba uyasondela kuyo. Enyanisweni, ngelixa echaza ngaye, uya kukwazi ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi oluncedo, olunokwenzeka ngokukhawuleza kungekudala Uya kuyidinga (umzekelo, unokuthetha ngengozi ukuba zeziphi iintyatyambo azithandayo, okanye ukubonisa ukugweba kwakhe abantu ababhema).

Ikhonkco # 4. Monotony

Ukuthotyelwa kwintombazana "VKontakte" kulula kakhulu kunokuba ugcine olu nxi be lelwano kunye nokuvuselela inzala kuye. Abameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo njengezohlukeneyo. Mxelele ngeemeko ezihlekisayo, unomdla kwimbono yakhe malunga nemiba enzima kunye neengxaki, xubusha umculo kunye nefilimu ozithandayo zombini - vumela ukuba unxibelelwano lwakho ngelixa lwenzeka kuphela kwisikrini esingqinekileyo, i-future future of your relationship depends on it. Ngubani oya kuvuya ukuthetha nomntu, iingxoxo ezenzeka rhoqo imihla ngemihla efanayo?

Ikhonkco # 5. Khawuleza okanye ukulibaziseka ngentlanganiso

Isigaba sokugqibela yindlela yokunyuka kwintombazana "VKontakte" - intlanganiso yomntu. Akuyimfuneko ukummisela kwiintsuku zokuqala-mhlawumbi, kuya kumsongela. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elide ukulinda, akunjalo, akunjalo, mhlawumbi uya kuhlala kumhlobo wakho omtsha "umhlobo weepeni." Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa ukuba ixesha elifanelekileyo lomhlangano wokuqala "ebomini bokwenene" - iveki ezimbini emva kokuqala koqhagamshelwano olufanelekileyo.

Amacandelo ambalwa

Njengoko uyazi, amantombazana athanda ngawo xa ebomini bomntu ahlala kwindawo ekhethekileyo. Kodwa oko kunokubonakala njani kwi-intanethi?

• Thumela ingoma enxulumana nayo kunye nomlingane wakho;
• Bhala isimo oza kukuqonda wena kuphela;
• Beka "i-huskies" kwiifoto zakhe (kodwa kungekho konke kulandelelwano!);
• Ukubuyisela imiyalezo enomdla owawubonayo eludongeni lwakhe (makumbone ukuba uthanda into efanayo, ukuba izimvo zakho zifana kakhulu);
• Bhala ezinye izimvo zangaphambili kwiifoto zakhe;
• Xa elala, thumela umyalezo omhle, oya kuwufunda kuphela ekuseni.

Ewe, yonke into iyimntu, kwaye "okufanayo" akufanelanga wonke umntu. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukuthetha kwakho kulula, akhululekile. Kungekudala uza kuqala ukuqonda ngokucacileyo oko kuya kulungile ukuthetha okanye ukwenza ngexesha elinye. Inhlanhla!