Indlela ukuphendula anyeliswe: Tips 'ongumakad'

Ngamnye kuthi ubuncinane kanye ebomini kakubi. Kule meko, nangoko ndifuna ukuthetha into enjalo, kodwa oku akusoloko kuba amazwi afanelekileyo, amabinzana kunye wit. Kunzima ukufumana ngokukhawuleza kwaye khetha isisombululo ekunene. Umsebenzi wethu - yokulungelelanisa indlela ukuphendula kusisithuko ukuze ukuba interlocutor asiyonto smirk sukumjongela kunye nentlonipho. Kubonakala ukuba ungabi lula kakhulu, kuba oku kufuneka uqonde izinto ezimbalwa.

Phambi nantoni na impendulo, kufuneka sokwehlisa ukoyisa uloyiko ukuba unayo. Kakade ke, iqela lakho liya kuziva kwaoko, kwaye iya kuba pole sikhundla. Khumbula ukuba utshaba kuba esoyika akukho ngaphantsi kuneyenu, kuba amandla akho - ngenkolelo ukuba singalahlekani. Oko kuya kukunceda ufumane isicombululo ekunene ukuya meko.

Ukuba bangenwa izimvo ukuthuka esidlangalaleni, engachanekanga yakho iwonga ekuhlaleni, iimpahla, okanye imbonakalo, Kakade ke, ndifuna ukwenza ukubuyisela nangoko umoni kwi ngqekembe enye. Kodwa kulo mzekelo uya kukhangela usileyo, kunye Ukubanga, oko kwenzeka, nto kodwa ukuhleka ukugxekwa kwabanye akayi kubangela. Eyona ngcebiso ilungileyo iza kuba nje ungayihoyi iingxelo: ngathi ukuba akazange phawula mntu wone wena, yena akanamdla kuwe, ekugqibeleni, oko nje, akandifanele ingqalelo yakho. Uya kuphumelela, nikholwe ndim.

Kunzima kakhulu ukuba isigqibo ngendlela ukuphendula kusisithuko kumntu oqhelekileyo. Ukuba uhlawule kuye asebenza, ungenza noba wenze joke (kodwa kule meko, kukho ingozi yokuba uphawu a isidenge), okanye enye ukuphendula ubukrwada (ngoko kuwa emehlweni bonke abasebenzi). Ungazama ukusebenzisa nayiphi uyakugculela, nto leyo eya kunceda ukuvala umlomo, yaye umoni uya kuba kakhulu nehlekisayo. Umzekelo, ukuba uthetha ukuba abasebenzi abaphantsi lungabonakaliswa kwi sithukwa ecaleni layo impendulo binzana ezifana: ". Uyakwazi ukuba uluvo lwakho, kodwa akukho umdla kum"

Ukuba wena okanye umhlobo "belingana", ukucinga malunga nendlela ukuphendula sisithuko, kunokwenzeka ukubhenela eyongeziweyo lobeko cala: "Nina zazi kakhulu kulo mbandela, kodwa wena ukhethe asiloxesha nendawo ukuxoxa esi sihloko." Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuba nako lirhoxe kule impixano, ngoko ukuziphindezelela kuye ngelo xesha, xa ikulungele ngcono.

Khumbula ukuba kuyo nayiphi na imeko kufuneka unamathele kwisikhundla ezikhokelela: ukuba ungakhathazeki, ukuba balahle uloyiko kwaye bazive bezithembile. Utshaba kulo mzekelo uya kuzama ukuvala isifundo, ukuze ukuba siwele phambi kwabanye.

Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ngenxa kunxibelelwano rhoqo kwaye ixesha elide networks zentlalo, kukho umbuzo indlela ukuphendula izithuko kwi Internet. Njengomgaqo, interlocutors abaninzi andizange ndambona omnye komnye yaye akazange ukunxibelelana ngokobuqu. Maxa wambi kuvela ezi ngxaki imidlalo intanethi, apho iqela musa sinayo iingxelo zombini akhabayo kunye navumelanayo. Kakade ke, unako lujoyine abantu abasebenzisa inhlamba engcolileyo, kodwa lumkela ukuba lweFIFA lakho efundile kunye nomntu cultured ziya kuwa, kuqala kwiinto zonke, emehlweni akho. Ukongeza, ezi matyala mthethweni kwaye kuqulatha sezomthetho.

Kukho ezinye imithetho jikelele indlela ukuphendula ukuthuka:

1. Zama ukuguqula imeko ukuze ukuba akukho flow izithuko macala kunye nezityholo. Yinto okulungileyo Ngeke, nisamana andikwazi kuthetha ukuba kuloo mntu. Isiphelo - into engalindelekanga.
2. Ukuba sisithuko wachukumisa imbeko okanye isidima sakho, musa ukuguqulela yonke into ibe a joke. Zama ngokuphucukileyo kwaye bafake endaweni a Cad ngaphandle ekhwaza.
3. Khetha impendulo incoko luphele.
4. Thetha kangangoko kunokwenzeka tone esithintelweyo.

indlela jikelele ukuphendula ukuba acukuceze, kuba yonke into ixhomekeke meko kunye nobuntu umoni. Kubalulekile ukuba ulahlekelwe nokuzeyisa kwaye khetha isisombululo ekunene.