Indlela ukubazolisa intombazana?

Kuthiwa iinyembezi kwabasetyhini - esi sixhobo sinamandla, ingakumbi ukuba i "utshaba" yindoda. isiqingatha olomeleleyo lobuntu ukulungele ukwenza nantoni na ukuze beve wathandaza, wathandaza kuphela kwaye ubone indlela i amehlo ngeenyembezi sentombazana onenombolo. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ezilahlekileyo abantu, baya kweyela badengeka, ingalawuleki kakuhle "oqingqiweyo" kwi emehlweni iinyembezi yabafazi. Noko ke, abantu bafuna ukuba okanye hayi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ebomini kukho iimeko unokulicaphukisa nkqu intombazana kakhulu elungeleleneyo yaye ezolile. Ngoko iqala ukulila. Yintoni enokwenziwa ukunqanda le ntombazana?

Kuqala kwinto zonke, musani ukuphakuzela, musani kuba wayesoyika, bonisa nenekazi ukuba ingxaki yakhe amkhathaleleyo, Uwole, thinta emagxeni, wamanga. Mxeleleni kangakanani ukuba kuthetha kuwe, osypte yokuncoma bakhe, yaye emva koko, xa iimvakalelo intombazana encinane poutihnut, cela ukuba bakuxelele ngokweenkcukacha malunga nesizathu iinyembezi. Qiniseka ukuba ukumamela interlocutor ukugqiba ngaphandle kokuphazamisa nokuvuma nangovelwano xa bethetha. Ndikholelwe, uya baqonde kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba ubomi bakhe, iminqweno yakhe kunye nemiba umdla kuwe. Mhlawumbi nje waziva ukuba abebesoloko ixesha elincinane, ngokuba andiyi va iimvakalelo ezindala kuye, apho kunokwenzeka kufuneka uzame ukungqina isichasi, into ke leyo exela, umzekelo, yiya evenkileni kunye, uze upheke isidlo sangokuhlwa. Ke oluthandayo yakho ayiyi kuziva lililolo.

Indlela ukubazolisa intombazana, ukuba unobangela ezinyembezini impilo enkenenkene okanye isigulo? Kuza kufuneka inkxaso kunye nokhathalelo yakho. Ingqele eqhelekileyo, silungiselele iti kunye rasberries, yiya ekhemesti amayeza, kwaye endleleni uthenga umdla umboniso ukuba zinokujongwa kunye. Kuphela xa ekhokelwa yi kukhetho yayo incasa. Ukuba intombazana uthanda comedy - nto nje emangalisayo, ngenxa yokuba izazinzulu ukuwuphumeza ukuba kukuhleka ixesha nje kuphela kodwa kwakhona zaziwa ukwandisa amajoni omzimba kwaye inceda ukulwa nezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ukuba ingxaki enzulu yempilo, ibonisa owathandayo ukuba uyakholelwa ngamandla alo, qiniseka ukuba uza kukwazi ukoyisa zonke iingxaki. Oku makwenziwe ngoncedo zihlandlo umdlalo yolu khuphiswano, apho kwaye kufuneka kuphumelela. Nokuba "inqanawa" okanye "bodwa" kwaye ibhola emali rate iibhaluni.

Indlela ukubazolisa intombazana, ukuba iinyembezi zakhe zibangelwa ngokudlula kwisizalwane esisondeleyo? Kukho nje musani mfuneko emininzi yamagama nkqu kubalulekile ukuzama ukumenza phezulu, kungenjalo uya kuqhuba ube nomsindo. Uncedo kwimeko enjalo kunokuba kuphela nomonde wakho, ukuthatha inxaxheba kunye nexesha.

Ukuba intombazana kuneengxaki emsebenzini, ndithembise ukuba uya kusoloko ukuxhasa ozithandayo yakho imncedise yokujongana nemiba ephakanyiswe. Ukuze kuphakanyiswe isimo intombazana, ubuncinane ngokwaneleyo ukuhlala nje knight encinane romantic, amanene ixesha lethu. Incwadi emnxebeni isipha seentyatyambo ukukhankanywa lakhe ngamayelenqe walungiselela wothuka. Lungisa ikofu yakhe sandwich iiswiti, wabeka yeplastiki ngamazwi zothando okanye intyatyambo. Lo msebenzi mawubandakanye fantasy kwaye Ungafumana okuninzi iindlela ngendlela ukubazolisa intombazana uze ubuyele imo yakhe elungileyo.

Kwenzeka ke ukuba iinyembezi izidlele zakhe oyithandayo kuvela kwi mzuzu ingxabano yakho kunye naye. Kwaye nokuba indlela uqinisekise ukuba ilungile, khumbula, kulo naluphi na ungquzulwano kusoloko ityala zombini. Musa ukuzama "ukuwina", kuba ngaloo ndlela uya mandundu kuphela meko. Umzuzwana, buya umva ukusuka okwenzekayo, kulula makayithabathe, musa ukuphendula iingxelo abangqwabalala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani. Indlela ukubazolisa intombazana, ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba le meko ukuba unganweni yaye ungaxaki? Zama soyise ngokwayo kwaye avume ububi yakhe, nokuba wena nxamnye nayo. Kwaye ngoko ungenza wosondeza ndawonye uhambe, oko kuya kunceda ekudambiseni ukukruquka kwaye xi oyithandayo.